http://www.dailykitten.com/chat/ Daily Kitten Chat Forum Topic: Please Give this a read......Hizlilbrat en Tue, 14 Feb 2012 22:17:43 +0000 http://www.dailykitten.com/chat/topic/15745/page/2#post-359862 Tue, 31 Mar 2009 08:33:36 +0000 Siobhan 359862@http://www.dailykitten.com/chat/ <p>Much love and support from my kits-n-me </p> http://www.dailykitten.com/chat/topic/15745#post-359859 Tue, 31 Mar 2009 08:30:11 +0000 2bpurring 359859@http://www.dailykitten.com/chat/ <p>{{{HZB}}}} You can sure tell that you're sisters!!! She has a wonderful heart just like you!!! </p> http://www.dailykitten.com/chat/topic/15745#post-359858 Tue, 31 Mar 2009 08:28:58 +0000 rainingwolf 359858@http://www.dailykitten.com/chat/ <p>Wow, what a neat sister! I am so glad you will have some emotional support now that she is back in the states. Keeping you in my prayers that things work out well for you.(((HZB))) </p> http://www.dailykitten.com/chat/topic/15745#post-359851 Tue, 31 Mar 2009 08:17:42 +0000 katthays 359851@http://www.dailykitten.com/chat/ <p>Hiz, wishing you the very best! </p> http://www.dailykitten.com/chat/topic/15745#post-359842 Tue, 31 Mar 2009 08:05:04 +0000 Buttercup 359842@http://www.dailykitten.com/chat/ <p>Oh wow,your sister is awesome HZB! [[[[Hugs]]]] </p> http://www.dailykitten.com/chat/topic/15745#post-359836 Tue, 31 Mar 2009 07:57:26 +0000 Hizlilbrat 359836@http://www.dailykitten.com/chat/ <p>I know. I missed her SO bad when she wasnt in the states! She just moved back about a month ago...she caught wind of all that was happening and decided it was time to come "home". She isnt quite back in Oklahoma yet, but atleast its not half way around the world anymore! </p> http://www.dailykitten.com/chat/topic/15745#post-359834 Tue, 31 Mar 2009 07:55:08 +0000 cricketsmama 359834@http://www.dailykitten.com/chat/ <p>HLB..that's wonderful!!! You have a pretty cool sis :) </p> http://www.dailykitten.com/chat/topic/15745#post-359831 Tue, 31 Mar 2009 07:53:23 +0000 Hizlilbrat 359831@http://www.dailykitten.com/chat/ <p>All is well here now =). I called my sister to see if she would buy my car... I am assuming her taxes came back already...she said she would..well my sister being the wonderful woman she is sent me what i was asking for it with a little note that said to keep my car =) </p> http://www.dailykitten.com/chat/topic/15745#post-359004 Sun, 29 Mar 2009 10:10:43 +0000 feral 359004@http://www.dailykitten.com/chat/ <p>HZB...I used Craigslist when I had to sell my Chevy (I had it for 38 yrs.) &#38; it sold within a week...the others are right...no charge for listing.<br /> I'm also sending you continued Prayers for Strength &#38; Positive vibes. </p> http://www.dailykitten.com/chat/topic/15745#post-358941 Sun, 29 Mar 2009 04:20:48 +0000 jcat 358941@http://www.dailykitten.com/chat/ <p>{{{HLB}}} Kia kaha, be strong, I think you're awesome, you're just getting on and dealing with it for you and your children. So hoping that everything falls into place soon and that things get better for you, you so deserve it! </p> http://www.dailykitten.com/chat/topic/15745#post-358820 Sat, 28 Mar 2009 14:48:38 +0000 kittymom 358820@http://www.dailykitten.com/chat/ <p>{{{HLB}}} Ebay and Autotrader charge for the listings, I think.... You might want to try listing your car on CraigsList, because you can post pics and the listings are free. Check CraigsList dot com and see if they have a local site for your city; I have sold furniture there and it was very efficient, and the ad was free, even with pics... hope this suggestion helps. </p> http://www.dailykitten.com/chat/topic/15745#post-358812 Sat, 28 Mar 2009 14:15:17 +0000 cricketsmama 358812@http://www.dailykitten.com/chat/ <p>(((HLB)))<br /> I wish I could help you but know you are in my thoughts and prayers. I think of you often and wondered how are you. You are a very strong woman I think you are a great woman of courage, strength and fortitude. </p> http://www.dailykitten.com/chat/topic/15745#post-358754 Sat, 28 Mar 2009 10:20:05 +0000 Kitten Whisperer 358754@http://www.dailykitten.com/chat/ <p>I'm so happy to hear from you, HLB! You father would be so proud of you for the steps you are taking to survive and thrive after the break up of your marriage. You are a wonderful example for your kids! </p> <p>I'm hoping you have legal representation in the divorce case, so your and the kids' rights are protected. </p> <p>The Oklahoma Department of Human Services offers a variety of programs. One thing I saw on its website is a "child support calculator" which gives you a way of determining whether or not you are getting the appropriate amount of child support. Here is the website for the child support calculator:<br /> <a href="http://204.87.68.21/childsupport/guidelines/calc.htm" rel="nofollow">http://204.87.68.21/childsupport/guidelines/calc.htm</a> This doesn't substitute for legal advice but will give you an idea of whether or not $228.00 is in the ball park.</p> <p>Good luck with finding a buyer for your car. {{{hugs}}} </p> http://www.dailykitten.com/chat/topic/15745#post-358743 Sat, 28 Mar 2009 10:01:45 +0000 WillowandWindismom 358743@http://www.dailykitten.com/chat/ <p>HZ, first of all, you have been in my thoughts and prayers so much. You know, I do still want to do that quilt for you.</p> <p>Secondly, if you aren't certain what agencies are available where you can turn to for assistance, I would like to suggest that you call your local United Way and ask. Most of the agencies that are there to help you are going to be program providers for United Way. I'm a UW volunteer here and I have to say that I am so impressed with the providers that we have here. You will have great help in your area, you just need someone to help you identify the assistance that you need. Then they can direct you to the proper agency.</p> <p>Please keep letting us know how you are! </p> http://www.dailykitten.com/chat/topic/15745#post-358738 Sat, 28 Mar 2009 09:46:50 +0000 Catwoman 358738@http://www.dailykitten.com/chat/ <p>I don't know what is available in your state, but if you called around to agencies that deal with people in crisis situations they may know who you could call. For instance, you could call local churches, the Salvation Army, Goodwill, etc. The agency here in Georgia that would help you is called MUST but I think they are local. </p> http://www.dailykitten.com/chat/topic/15745#post-358737 Sat, 28 Mar 2009 09:45:27 +0000 beth 358737@http://www.dailykitten.com/chat/ <p>my brother sold his cars at autotrader.com.. i agree with abbygail go for autorader.com... i send you hugs and lots of love and prayers for your health and money situation. you are a trooper and you've got gumption , everything will be okay. </p> http://www.dailykitten.com/chat/topic/15745#post-358735 Sat, 28 Mar 2009 09:42:32 +0000 Hizlilbrat 358735@http://www.dailykitten.com/chat/ <p>cat woman, may i ask the agencies you are talking about? Someone told me the "state" may help me but not until i am leagaly divorced or i still have to include his income when i apply for medical or whatever for the kids...anyone happen to know anymore about that stuff? </p> http://www.dailykitten.com/chat/topic/15745#post-358732 Sat, 28 Mar 2009 09:34:32 +0000 Catwoman 358732@http://www.dailykitten.com/chat/ <p>HZ, I'm so glad you checked in. I can't help with the car but want to encourage you as a single mom myself--you can do it! There are many agencies standing by to help you. Please check them out. You are making a good decision to sell the car if everything is in walking distance; you will not only get the money for the sale, but save on gas and insurance. Many hugs and prayers. </p> http://www.dailykitten.com/chat/topic/15745#post-358721 Sat, 28 Mar 2009 09:18:46 +0000 AV 358721@http://www.dailykitten.com/chat/ <p>HZ! You are amazingly strong, prayers of support for you! You know we're all behind you.... I have had wonderful luck selling cars on auto trader.com. Both times I got a quick response and the price I was asking. Best of luck to you! </p> http://www.dailykitten.com/chat/topic/15745#post-358717 Sat, 28 Mar 2009 09:06:37 +0000 Tigerlilly 358717@http://www.dailykitten.com/chat/ <p>(((HLB))) </p> http://www.dailykitten.com/chat/topic/15745#post-358714 Sat, 28 Mar 2009 09:04:02 +0000 GreatDane 358714@http://www.dailykitten.com/chat/ <p>I'm so sorry you're going through all this HLB! It sounds like you're being very strong and getting through it, though - good for you! I'm sending prayers that your situation improves and lots of ((hugs)) </p> http://www.dailykitten.com/chat/topic/15745#post-358709 Sat, 28 Mar 2009 09:01:31 +0000 Meowzers 358709@http://www.dailykitten.com/chat/ <p>Hizlilbrat, I can't help but I wish you the best of luck. It should sell quickly, I have a Nissan Altima and it is a very good car. good thoughts to you. </p> http://www.dailykitten.com/chat/topic/15745#post-358704 Sat, 28 Mar 2009 08:53:06 +0000 Hizlilbrat 358704@http://www.dailykitten.com/chat/ <p>thanks all!!! My Daddy taught me long ago you have help yourself to expect help from anyone else...so i am trucking on and hoping to catch a break soon! </p> http://www.dailykitten.com/chat/topic/15745#post-358702 Sat, 28 Mar 2009 08:52:14 +0000 feral 358702@http://www.dailykitten.com/chat/ <p>HZB...I agree...you ARE a wonderful inspiration! I can only offer you my {{{HUGS}}} &#38; wish you the very best. </p> http://www.dailykitten.com/chat/topic/15745#post-358698 Sat, 28 Mar 2009 08:33:17 +0000 Buttercup 358698@http://www.dailykitten.com/chat/ <p>Wow,HZB,you're one strong lady. I hope you are able to sell your car soon and get a replacement laptop,sounds like you're getting on with your life. I hope they can work out terms with ex so you can start receiving child support.<br /> I'm so glad that you got checked out so they can start treating you for Cushings,hopefully you'll feel better soon. [[[[[[Big Hugs]]]]]<br /> [[[[More hugs]]]] </p> http://www.dailykitten.com/chat/topic/15745#post-358697 Sat, 28 Mar 2009 08:32:43 +0000 SoxsMom 358697@http://www.dailykitten.com/chat/ <p>I am so very glad you went to that appointment. You need to remember to take care of yourself. You are the most important person in the world to your kids. The endocrinologist should be able to help. I am so glad at least now you know, and now can figure out the best option.</p> <p>I am so sorry to hear about your husband. I can't help but feel there is someone so much better for you just around the corner when you least expect it. I do find it interesting he is layed off when he has to pay child support. </p> <p>I can not tell you how impressed I am. You have handled this and been so strong! You are an inspiration, and I can hardly wait until you announce your graduation! </p> http://www.dailykitten.com/chat/topic/15745#post-358693 Sat, 28 Mar 2009 08:21:52 +0000 Hizlilbrat 358693@http://www.dailykitten.com/chat/ <p>I did go to the doctor, wow that was a couple weeks back. I had to stay in the hospital for 24 hours so they could moniter my urin durring that time. I tested positive on both of the tests for chushings. My Cortisol(sp?) is very elivated with no apparent cause. I see the Endocroknowlagist(again spelling...im horrible with out my spell checking computer!) not this monday but the next(the 6th) to see if there is a mass and discuss my options for treatment....has not been a fun game..but it is finally getting somewhere!</p> <p>As far as my family goes..me and the boy are doing good...husbands lawyer has asked for continuance at both hearings so the only thing that has been order is child support...at first it was really high, then he asked for a review with in 3 weeks of that order saying he was "layed off" so now it is dropped down to 228 a month...he comes and sees the kids, he is nice...but very distant..i am slowly excepting the fact that is is over... </p> http://www.dailykitten.com/chat/topic/15745#post-358690 Sat, 28 Mar 2009 08:17:36 +0000 Hizlilbrat 358690@http://www.dailykitten.com/chat/ <p>thank you much! It just makes sense..my sister lives a mile from me and she already said if i need a ride anywhere she will try and take me...I am pretty much going online for all my classes but 1 and the college is only about 2 miles away. Work is only 13 blocks away..all walking distance! </p> http://www.dailykitten.com/chat/topic/15745#post-358689 Sat, 28 Mar 2009 08:16:46 +0000 SoxsMom 358689@http://www.dailykitten.com/chat/ <p>HB I am sorry to hear you have to sell the car. Make sure you have a sign in it. You might have great luck selling it at the college. I hope you find a buyer quick.</p> <p>Now you were suppose to see the doctor--I know I am being TERRIBLY nosy. How did that go? Are you doing okay? How is the family situation going. I have been praying that the resolution you want occurs. Remember my prayers continue to be with you. </p> http://www.dailykitten.com/chat/topic/15745#post-358687 Sat, 28 Mar 2009 08:15:00 +0000 2 Popoki 358687@http://www.dailykitten.com/chat/ <p>Wish I could help, but I'm in AZ and don't know anyone in OK. I'm so proud of you for being so proactive. </p>