http://www.dailykitten.com/chat/ Daily Kitten Chat Forum Topic: I need some advice here. Daisy Mew en Tue, 14 Feb 2012 22:21:12 +0000 http://www.dailykitten.com/chat/topic/22472#post-464704 Thu, 29 Oct 2009 16:33:37 +0000 SoxsMom 464704@http://www.dailykitten.com/chat/ <p>DM friends want to help you--you have to tell when something is worng so that we can help. You are not even beginning to whine in my book! I am really praying that this will be dealt with a plea and you and your son don't need to deal with this. You are rebuilding your life, and it is very stressful. Continue to be the strong beautiful woman you have always been--there will be light at the end of the tunnel. You and the boys are what is important--remember how you are valued here! </p> http://www.dailykitten.com/chat/topic/22472#post-464622 Thu, 29 Oct 2009 13:11:51 +0000 Karenopa 464622@http://www.dailykitten.com/chat/ <p>Julie you've been amazingly strong to now...keep it up. I'm sorry to hear things with sister have come to this but think as 2b said that when the state presses charges and if it goes to trial..they'll contact you to testify. Hang tough hon...we're all your family and we're real proud that you're doing all you need to do for yourself and your beautiful sons! =) </p> http://www.dailykitten.com/chat/topic/22472#post-464594 Thu, 29 Oct 2009 11:03:49 +0000 jeankit 464594@http://www.dailykitten.com/chat/ <p>Best Wishes for better days ahead...again, you choose your friends &amp; not your family! </p> http://www.dailykitten.com/chat/topic/22472#post-464587 Thu, 29 Oct 2009 10:41:57 +0000 Tigger 464587@http://www.dailykitten.com/chat/ <p>Daisy Mew,<br /> I know it's a cliche (every cliche begins as a truth) but if you're feeling you're at the end of your rope, tie a knot and hang on. Seriously.<br /> Take stock of what you've got and the resources available to you. I know from personal experience that family drama sucks badly, but you have to put shoulders up straight and not take crap from people, family or otherwise.<br /> We're all behind you!<br /> &gt;^..^&lt;</p> <p>sPrOiNg. =) </p> http://www.dailykitten.com/chat/topic/22472#post-464585 Thu, 29 Oct 2009 10:29:33 +0000 CSBM 464585@http://www.dailykitten.com/chat/ <p>you are always family here !!! i never had brothers or sisters, but i do now !!! and it's great !!! </p> http://www.dailykitten.com/chat/topic/22472#post-464505 Thu, 29 Oct 2009 04:53:08 +0000 SammyandOliversmama 464505@http://www.dailykitten.com/chat/ <p>OMG Julie, this sounds very familiar.</p> <p> "...in the middle of 3 siblings that all hate me or just want to use me. Feeling so totally overwhelmed. .."</p> <p>We had to in our minds divorce the other 3 and have no contact with them whatsoever as they were dragging down the rest of the family. They just didn't learn to be civilized with their sibs and us. When they can act civil they may be allowed back into the family. </p> <p>This could be a good thing with your sister as now she is in the system and hopefully can change her life around. Just keep raising your boys the way you are. We love you Julie!! {{DM}} </p> http://www.dailykitten.com/chat/topic/22472#post-464501 Thu, 29 Oct 2009 03:49:38 +0000 jcat 464501@http://www.dailykitten.com/chat/ <p>{{{Julie}}} Come here and vent whenever you want, you are not whining, we care about you! Family, huh? You can't choose them and you can't shoot them, lol. Sending you many, many hugs and hoping that something good happens for you and the boys soon. </p> http://www.dailykitten.com/chat/topic/22472#post-464476 Wed, 28 Oct 2009 20:35:50 +0000 daisy mew 464476@http://www.dailykitten.com/chat/ <p>Got a call back this afternoon from the prosector. He says there is nothing I can do, it is between the state (meaning him) and my sister and her public defender. If it goes to court then I will be summoned as will my oldest son who was there when it took place. </p> <p>Just too much BS in my life here. I came to Id. with the promises of family support and help, and it turns into a psycho free for all. So here I am stuck in the middle of 3 siblings that all hate me or just want to use me. Feeling so totally overwhelmed. But then again what else is new in my life.</p> <p>Sorry for whining yet again. It seems to be my trade mark these days. </p> http://www.dailykitten.com/chat/topic/22472#post-464421 Wed, 28 Oct 2009 16:51:46 +0000 SoxsMom 464421@http://www.dailykitten.com/chat/ <p>I am glad you made the call. Prayer of comfort--I know this family issue is a huge stress! </p> http://www.dailykitten.com/chat/topic/22472#post-464356 Wed, 28 Oct 2009 13:20:36 +0000 daisy mew 464356@http://www.dailykitten.com/chat/ <p>Have a call in to the prosecutor, guess I will wait and see where it goes from there. Always fun being me. LOL! </p> http://www.dailykitten.com/chat/topic/22472#post-464338 Wed, 28 Oct 2009 12:51:13 +0000 2bpurring 464338@http://www.dailykitten.com/chat/ <p>Call and ask! Many states don't require your presence unless it goes to trail. It is the state filing the charges not you. </p> http://www.dailykitten.com/chat/topic/22472#post-464329 Wed, 28 Oct 2009 12:46:35 +0000 ailuromaniac 464329@http://www.dailykitten.com/chat/ <p>I will send it this evening after I get home. Co policies ya'know. </p> http://www.dailykitten.com/chat/topic/22472#post-464327 Wed, 28 Oct 2009 12:44:54 +0000 CheetahBoysmommy 464327@http://www.dailykitten.com/chat/ <p>Maybe you should contact the police and ask them. It's possible they have the wrong address for you. Maybe they've been sending mail to you at your sister's house.</p> <p>You should also contact the District Attorney's office (or whatever the equilent is in Idaho) as they are probably the office representing the Plaintiff. </p> <p>I'm not sure how the State plans to present and win a case without you to testify. And if they are expecting you to be there and you don't show up, you could be in trouble. </p> <p>Start making phone calls right now even though you are going to get put on hold a lot. And make sure to write down who you talk to, what they said, time and date, and where they referred you to. You'll need that record if the State comes after you for not appearing. </p> http://www.dailykitten.com/chat/topic/22472#post-464326 Wed, 28 Oct 2009 12:44:21 +0000 CSBM 464326@http://www.dailykitten.com/chat/ <p>AM, may I please have your email address ? I would like to ask you something privately. my address is choyt8 at stny dot rr dot com. thank you. </p> http://www.dailykitten.com/chat/topic/22472#post-464324 Wed, 28 Oct 2009 12:41:58 +0000 CSBM 464324@http://www.dailykitten.com/chat/ <p>I would go and introduce myself to the prosecutor the day of the trial, before the trial. </p> http://www.dailykitten.com/chat/topic/22472#post-464323 Wed, 28 Oct 2009 12:40:37 +0000 ailuromaniac 464323@http://www.dailykitten.com/chat/ <p>Call the DA's office and find out. If you have been summoned and do not report, you are in hot water. Sometimes the officer hands you the summons at the time of the incident report and if you were not clear that it was a summons you may have discarded the paper. </p> http://www.dailykitten.com/chat/topic/22472#post-464321 Wed, 28 Oct 2009 12:34:35 +0000 daisy mew 464321@http://www.dailykitten.com/chat/ <p>Y'all remember the incident with my sister assaulting me last month. I had called the police and filed a report and then heard nothing about it. Apparently there is a court case in a few days I have heard NOTHING about. She is the defendant and the State Of Idaho is the Plantiff. I have recieved NO papers or anything about this. So I am truly confused. Am I supposed to go or just do nothing???? HELP </p>