It may be that Ellis and Otto have found their home, at last! A friend of mine has neighbors who would love to have Otto and Ellis join their family on Christmas.
After many questions and much discussion, it sounds as if Otto and Ellis would fit in just fine, after an initial period of adjustment. The family has one very senior kitty (20 yrs), and two elderly sheepdogs. They also have 3 girls, all of whom are very good with the current pets (gentle and kind).
First, Otto and Ellis would stay with my friend for 7 weeks, though. I think that since she has a friendly dog, it would be good for them to adjust to being around a dog, first.
They would be indoor-only kitties, and they would not be declawed. Though the family would be noisier and more active than mine, they would likely do just fine, after an initial adjustment period and confined area. The parents are responsible pet owners, and their pets receive appropriate veterinary care.
I will meet this family in a week. If I have any misgivings after meeting them, I will not go through with the adoption. Likewise, if things somehow don't work out, I'd take them back rather than see them surrendered to a shelter.
This week I'll be getting Otto and Ellis accustomed to traveling, and pulling together their records and supplies. Thank you all so much for your positive thoughts and prayers! I'll keep you all updated as things progress toward the boys finally going home.