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Renee from Arkansas Obit
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Posted 1 year ago by cricketsmama #
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I am still shocked over her passing. Thanks for finding the obit, jcat and CM for passing it on. On the obit site, you can send your condolences to the family. I have sent mine. I hope many of you do, so Ron and the family can see we are thinking of them during this time. Everyone, stay safe and try to have a good day.
Posted 1 year ago by Lynn from PA 6/8 #
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I ssent my condolences and signed the guest book. She truly is a beautiful lady. RIP sweet Renee.
Posted 1 year ago by SammyandOliversmama #
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I've signed the guest book, still can't quite believe it's true.
Posted 1 year ago by MadcatwomanintheUK #
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I also signed the guest book and sent condolences. It's hard when one of our family passes on.
Posted 1 year ago by LadyKat of IA #
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If Renee wanted to be part of the TDK Christmas list but didn't feel able to, my guess is she knew she was ill with not a lot of time left...brave lady.
Posted 1 year ago by MadcatwomanintheUK #
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I signed the guestbook and sent condolences too. I wish we could know what happened. She was so young to have passed.
Posted 1 year ago by cricketsmama #
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OMG! I don't even know what to say! I had no idea she was sick. I signed the guest book and sent my condolences. This is so unreal!
Lord please take care of our Renee, she ment so much to so many.
Posted 1 year ago by debsterwiz #
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Thank you for posting that Jcat I sent my condolences as well.
Posted 1 year ago by TheKnittingNinja #
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I just went and read the guest book, and signed it myself. May I suggest that everyone include their TDK screenname in their condolences, to help Ron know who is who?
Posted 1 year ago by Bellantara #
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I had no idea that Renee was so young. Isn't it odd how we can form mental images and they usually aren't right at all. What a beautiful woman - all the way through.
Posted 1 year ago by WillowandWindismom #
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Cindy (Renee) was a forty something year old woman. She had diebetes and she suffered it with patience and sense of humour.
Due to the diabetes she was loosing eye sight and went through some very difficult opperations. She was brave and fought through them.
The surgery made her weak and scared but she never lost her smile.I have been busy with life lately and our daily mails became weekly and then monthly. She had little friends and we cherished our friendship.
I can't lie to myself, I know that even when you are busy you can take a minute or two to take care of a friend. She looked foward to our letters.
I now feel sick with repent... I am so sorry... so, sorry.
I'm sorry cindy... please forgive me letting you down... please...
Posted 1 year ago by PipasMumSpain #
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(((((Pipasmum))))) You mustn't beat yourself up. Renee knew you had a lot going on in your life, and I'm sure she knew how much she still meant to you.
Posted 1 year ago by Bellantara #
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PM, I know it is very hard for you - after all you had a much closer relationship than I did, and I feel terrible. I think it is a great tribute to Cindy (Renee) that she never complained about her illness, but was always interested in everyone else. I think we all wish that we had known that she was sick, so we could have supported her, but obviously that was not what she wanted. I think that helping you with your dress and wedding plans probably gave her a great deal of joy in a difficult time. I will look to her as an inspiration, and I hope that I can learn to be more like her.
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Pipasmum, you didn't let Renee down--in fact you gave her more than she would have had by being her friend. Had you two never came to the same website and became friends neither of you would have known what you missed out on. From the tone of her posts, she would be upset that you tortured yourself this way. So, celebrate your friendship and know that you were there in the season of her life when she needed you most. {{{HUGS}}}
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Thank you jcat for finding this, and thank you cm for starting this thread. I've signed the guest book and left my condolences. I'm glad that I now have a picture to match to the name. Amazingly - for once - my own image of her was not that different from how she actually looked, although I didn't really have any idea of her age.
PM - Thanks for filling in some of the blanks regarding Renee's life. From what you say, I suspect her death did have something to do with her diabetes; a problem with the blood sugar can accelerate so quickly. But please, please don't beat yourself up over not keeping in touch with her as often as you would have liked. I know she knew you had a new job that was keeping you very, very busy AND that your wedding plans were taking up the rest of your time, and I know she understood. I'm sure she was happy that things were going well for you, and she would not want you to be upset over it now. She knew you cared.
Posted 1 year ago by Rubia in CA, 4/28 #
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((((PM))))
I don't think that she would want you to feel guilty. You were friends, and friends understand how life is. Yours is very busy now, and I know Renee knew and understood that. I wish I had words to take away your regret, your hurt, your sorrow, but I don't. I offer you big hugs and know we are here for you. You mean a lot to us and we love you.Posted 1 year ago by cricketsmama #
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((((PM)))) I can't add to what everyone else has said. Please don't feel you let Renee down. You and Renee shared a very special friendship. It is very natural to feel bad but don't let those feeling over take you. You know what Renee would have wanted you to do. ((((PM)))))
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PM, I know you were quite a bit closer to her then I ever could have been, the feelings of guilt get to the best of us when a loved one passes. I know she would not want you to feel guilty, she would want you to continue on her memory. Please try not to be so hard on yourself, i know how hard it can be. I will pray for you ((((PM))))
thanks Jcat and CM for the info, it made me a mess all over again, but it is nice to have. I have signed the guestbook and i hope her husband sees how loved she was!
Posted 1 year ago by Hizlilbrat #
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