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   SORRY, I've not had time to respond. I read some of your comments before I went to visitation and I mentioned them to her mother. She was over joyed to hear that Cindy had so many friends who wished to express such kind thoughts.
   We were so pleased to hear from many visiters who commented about the numerous messages from all the people that had signed up. The funeral home printed many out and gave us the copies.

   MARINA. I agree with others who urged you not to chastize your self. Cindy did understand that you had so much going on that you could not respond as you would have liked so remember her as the person that you know would have forgiven you for anything and be happy like she would have wished you to be.
   Your happiness is important to her and I believe she wishes you and your intended to be as happy as we were together.

   I will try to fill in some of the blanks in Cindy's life for everone.
   YES,SHE passed away because of a diabetic condition that she had had for over 40 years. She had given her injection that day and she believed that it
   hit a vein and the insulin took affect too quickly. SHE took alot of glucose
   to bring her blood sugar back up but because it had dropped so low so fast
   it became a shock to her system. I had just arrived home from work and she
   was able to tell me this before she had what the doctor believed was a heart attack. Everyone tells me that it was her time to go and I should not blame my self but I find it hard to accept. I have so many regrets and it hurts so much.

   Her mother and I picked out a beautiful dark blue casket with flying birds
   on it and I intend to have a kitten engraved on her stone. I don't think I should send pictures of everything but if i can find away to I will send some of flowers and other arrangments.

   I intend to show these comments to her mother and I will try to check in some times. I don't type to good and this took alot of time for me so you can understand why I won't be able to reply personally to every one of the group.
   As for the donations I don't know what to say. I will respect you wishes if you fill the need to send something but please don't send anything you might need for your own families.

   YOUR touching comments are important to us so thank again everyone for being out there for us in our time of sorrow.

   Posted 1 year ago by Kitten Whisperer #

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   Ron, please don't blame yourself. This was a tragic accident. I'm glad you were able to be with her during this crisis at the end. I know she is still present in spirit with you and here with us on TDK. We have been privileged to know her and will continue to be inspired by her happy outlook on life. She always spoke so lovingly of you. {{{hugs}}}

   Posted 1 year ago by Kitten Whisperer #

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   i am in tears all over again! Ron my heart goes out to you. I can not imagin what you are going through. I keep praying for you, Cindy's mother and all her fur babies! Cindy touched my life in a way few could, she shared her stories of what it was like to have diabestes as a young woman with me so i did not feel like "the odd one out". Please know you are in ALL of our thoughts, prayers and everyday conversations.

   Posted 1 year ago by Hizlilbrat #

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   Ron, thank you for writing to us. I'm so glad that you were there with Cindy. We will always remember her because she was so lovely and always so happy and thoughtful. {{{HUGS}}}

   Posted 1 year ago by jcat #

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   Ron, thank you so much for taking the time to write us. It was a blessing the you were with Cindy before she passed, you could always tell by her writing how much she loved you and life. She had a kind soul and was always the first to help someone with whatever they needed and it didn't matter what it was. I feel blessed to have known her, please pass my condolences to her mother also.

   Posted 1 year ago by AZDEBRA 5/27 & crew #

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   Ron it boggles my mind that you would take time out to contact us. Thank you for doing that. Words can't heal but maybe they can help you a little to know the high regard your Cindy was held in at TDK.

   Again, my deepest condolences to you and Cindy's mother.

   Posted 1 year ago by petpntr #

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   My deepest respect for a wonderful woman Ron.
   Bless you.

   Posted 1 year ago by PipasMumSpain #

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   Ron,
   When we want to comfort someone here in TDK land and show our support, we send them virtual hugs...so {{{Ron}}}
   Again, my deepest sympathy for such a loss.

   Posted 1 year ago by sullis #

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   Ron, thank you for letting us know about Cindy and what happened. She was a wonderful woman who loved you and she loved life. You and her mother have my deepest sympathy for the loss of a beautiful woman.

   Posted 1 year ago by cricketsmama #

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    Agin I THANK ALL OF YOU

    I had TROUBLE sleeping so I got up and checked TDK out.
    YOUR remarks are very touching. I think I will go feed the babies and sit with them awhile before I get ready for the ceromony.I will try to get her mother online soon to read all of your kind remarks.

    Posted 1 year ago by Renee in Arkansas #

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    Ron, thank you so much for taking the time to post here. Cindy was a wonderful part of our online community and we will miss her very much. Your arrangements for Cindy sound so beautiful, a fitting tribute for a beautiful lady. My deepest sympathies for you and for Cindy's mother.

    Posted 1 year ago by NNGM #

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    Ron, any time you would like to come on and talk about Cindy, if that helps, we would love that. We miss her so much already. My deepest condolences to you and to Cindy's mother. I hope you both find strength to lean on today.

    Posted 1 year ago by jcat #

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    Ron
    Please know that you and Cindy's Mom are not alone in your grief. People here are praying and grieving along with you!
    Peace and prayers
    Dorie

    Posted 1 year ago by 4 kits staff #

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    Ron, Please know that we share your grief. Renee is the same age as my middle daughter and I am relating to that at this time too. We are praying for you. Please stop by and visit with us, if you wish. We loved her. {{Ron}}
    God Bless.

    Helen, aka (SOM)

    Posted 1 year ago by SammyandOliversmama #

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    Ron - Thank you so much for taking the time to write to us. As the others have said we all share your grief and will miss Cindy a great deal. You and Cindy's mother are in our prayers.

    Posted 1 year ago by Rubia in CA, 4/28 #

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    Ron, we appreciate so much your taking the time during your grief to let us know about Cindy. Please write to us whenever you wish. We would love to hear about the kitties and how things are for you and Cindy's mother. Take comfort to know that she was loved by so many people here whom she touched with her postings.

    Posted 1 year ago by LadyKat of IA #

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    Ron, thank you so much for taking the time to write to us, and especially for your words to Marina.

    We will always be here if you need to talk, or just need a hug. We're very good at virtual hugs, and Cindy was one of the best at them.

    Posted 1 year ago by Kilroy #

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    Ron,

    I found out about Cindy-Renee last night, and I am saddened by your loss. We at TDK truly are family. You are family. Let us comfort you. Hugs and prayers to you...

    Posted 1 year ago by Cheri 12/22 #

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    Ron, while it is still hard for me to grasp the loss of our Renee, I am so happy that you were able to share all of the above information with us. It is clear to me how much she loved you, her family, and her life. The world lost one of it's brightest lights when we lost our beloved sister. Please know how much we all loved her. TDK has very broad shoulders. Please fell free to lean on us now in your time of such great grief. You and Renee's mom will always be welcome here. Healing can begin with sharing and comforting, and always remember that kitty fur is the best tissue of all!

    Posted 1 year ago by debsterwiz #

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    Ron,thanks so much for writing to us during this trying time. Thanks for filling in the blanks for us. You and Cindy's mother and friends are in our prayers.

    Posted 1 year ago by Buttercup #

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    Ron, again, I'm so sorry for your unexpected loss. Cindy was a wonderful person, by any and all accounts. I wish she'd been able to stay with you much, much longer.

    I'm just grateful that we were able to share in her life at all. She seemed always so upbeat and cheerful, always ready to smile whenever talking about kitties or someone's birthday! (Well, I couldn't actually see her smile, but it definitely came through in her writing.)

    My heart goes out to you and your family. Peace be with you.

    Posted 1 year ago by anncetera2 #

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    Ron, I am so sad over the loss of out dear Cindy and I offer you and her mother my deepest condolences. She was such a wonderful, warm, caring woman who will be missed dearly and never forgotten.
    As others have mentioned, she was always ready with a hug and sympathy when someone was in need of comfort. Please know, Ron, that both you and her mother are always more than welcome here and that our TDK family now includes you two. If there's ever anything we can do to help, please don't hesitate to ask.

    I had mentioned on another thread that I would like to make up a scrapbook or something in memory of our Renee. I am planning on including everyone's posts and putting them all together in a book for you and your family to have to remind you what a very special person Renee was to all of us. If you don't mind, I'll start working on that over the next week or so.

    Bless you, Ron - you made Renee's so happy.

    Posted 1 year ago by GreatDane #

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    Ron, I don't know what else I can say that hasn't already been said here. Cindy was such a loving and thoughtful woman, she always lifted our spirits and never complained about anything. I'm so honored to have had her for a friend, even if it was only on-line. We would be very honored if you would check in with us when you have time, for you are a part of this TDK family too. We share our joys and our sorrows. Ron, thank you for letting us know what happened, I'm know it has been very hard for you.

    Lord, Please bring comfort and peace to Ron and to Cindys Mother in this time of deep sorrow. AMEN
    Julie Willis

    Posted 1 year ago by 2bpurring #

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    Ron
    Thank you so much for letting us know what happened and for all your kind words. Your wife was a light for all of us. She will be missed. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

    Posted 1 year ago by MeezerMama in OK; 10/23 #

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    Ron, thank you so much for posting and letting us know what happened to our dear friend. I feel like my healing process can begin. Please become a part of this family. We love you because Cindy so loved you and we want to be here for you. We don't require that you be eloquent or be the best typer. We just want for you to be you. My sister was 46 when she passed and I have come to understand that life is not measured in the quantity of the days, but the quality of the life that lived. Cindy was a beautiful soul who, despite what she was personally facing, was always a positive and good force. She was quality plus. You have difficulty days ahead, but you also have a great group of people who want to help you through them. (((RON)))

    Posted 1 year ago by KYKAT 12 23 #

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    Ron,
    Richard and I, too, want to express our condolences to you and Cindy's family. I have felt for a long time that I have found a new family with TDK and Cindy was a very large part of that family. We will all miss her and we all grieve with you. I truly believe that you will be seeing her again and rejoice in that for you.
    Karen and Richard.

    Posted 1 year ago by KarenCentennial #

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    Hello Ron,
    I've known Cindy for quite a long time--as a matter of fact, when we first started corresponding, because she was known as Renee here, she told me her first name was really Cindy. She had used Renee because there was another Cindy on the site at the time. And I had also told her I was born in Texarkana, AR, so we had Arkansas in common. As well as our love of kitties. Seems she was always doing things for others, and now you know how much she was loved here.

    All I can do is echo all of the sentiments above, and add that she will never be forgotten because she has so many people who will remember her.

    God bless you and your family.
    Jimmie Vandegrift

    Posted 1 year ago by MaxandCali'sMom #

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    Give to the departed eternal rest O Lord. Let light perpetual shine upon her.

    Blessings,
    Tina Lutz
    tinafish

    Posted 1 year ago by tinafishfrombirthplaceofElvis #

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    Ron, I run the TDK Roller Rink, and you are free to come to it anytime you want. Renee is now tying up her disco skates and rolling to "I Was Made for Dancing" by Leif Garrett. Again, the TDK Roller Rink skate wake/ potluck is tonight at 5ish.

    Posted 1 year ago by Vicki #

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    Thank you, Ron, for filling us in. I can add no additions words as they have been said so eloquently above. Cindy/Renee will be missed.
    She was very much like my mother - never an unkind word, always thinking of others above herself. They may have already met.

    Sincerest sympathies to you and her Mom.

    Posted 1 year ago by 2 Popoki #

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