I have a friend, a woman who has been married for 22 years and has two wonderful daughters. Her husband met a younger woman at Facebook three weeks ago. He immediately forgot his vows and his family which he had earlier deeply loved. Now he wants a divorce and a new marriage with a woman he has actually met once.
My friend has been fighting for her family but she is facing a stone wall and is getting depressed.
Please pray for her and her family.
Thoughts and positive energy for your friend and her two daughters.
Posted 3 years ago by spacecatsgarden #
Oh Mui - how awful for your friend! Tell her to hang in there! Surely this is just a midlife crisis thing for her husband, and he will soon regret what he is doing. Sending prayers, positive energy and hugs! {{{Miu's friend}}}
Posted 3 years ago by Rubia in CA, 4/28 #
How foolish of him to throw away 22 years! I pray for her to have the strength to forgive and forget if he wakes from his nightmare and to overcome if he doesn't.
Posted 3 years ago by KarenCentennial #
Mui, Can't he just have a fling, not tell his wife & family, get over the new one and stay home? What an idiot. I wish the best for your friend and her family.
Peace,
Tina
Posted 3 years ago by tinafishfrombirthplaceofElvis #
Miu, I will keep her and her family in my prayers. I can only imagine the hurt she is dealing with. ((HUGS))
Posted 3 years ago by cricketsmama #
Oh Miu but for the grace of God.....
This could be my story. When it happened to me I found a lawyer and had him served. He looked at me and said what are you doing? You won't even fight for our marriage. I said I love you but I will not have you running off and trying to make your way through whatever your midlife crisis wants you to do. He asked me to go to counciling. We went. I have a good marriage--there are days I want to hit him upside the head with the cast iron skillet,a gift from his mom, but in all....
My prayers are with her as she finds her strength. I pray that he comes to his senses now. My prayers though center on her and her daughters, may they find comfort and strength. Peace to them all.
Prayers for the woman and the daughters. This is a hard situation to deal with and I hope she has the strength to do what's right for her and the daughters.
Posted 3 years ago by LadyKat of IA #
oh, sox's mom! the cast iron skillet? i actually did use ours - i was only 9 and hit my oldest brother upside the head because he wouldn't quit pickin on me! i got spanked but good and he was laughing so hard - not because i got spanked but because i hit him - he didn't expect me to do that, but gosh - pickin on me while i was doing dishes wasn't smart on his part! he has always had a hard head so no damage was done!
Posted 3 years ago by KarenCentennial #
I could never have betrayed my Cindy like that.25 years of being with her was way too short .May he get what he has coming to him when the other one leaveshim for the next conquest
Posted 3 years ago by Renee in Arkansas #
Cindy has a pool que and knows how to use it .I NEVER gave her a reason to use it on me.She maid my mother laugh by threating to take me home and wip my butt
Posted 3 years ago by Renee in Arkansas #
Reminds me of an old Chinese saying, "A man who chooses a woman for her face [or Facebook] is like a man who buys a house for the paint job." The outside may look great but what about the heart of the building? The husband may not find more than a cheatin' heart therein. Good thoughts for strength to your friend and her daughters.
Posted 3 years ago by GizzysAuntie #
Thanks for sharing that story about Cindy and her pool cue, Ron! You made me smile. :)
Posted 3 years ago by Kitten Whisperer #
Oh Miu..Except for a few details..this was my story after a 20 yr. marriage some years ago. Your friend is lucky to have you and promise me she will need all the prayers and support she can get. This is such a direct attack on a woman's self-esteem that many find it difficult to recover from the devastating affects. Sending deep heartfelt Prayers and Positive Energy to your friend Miu. God knows she will need them.
Miu..my prayers for you friend and her family. I know the pain she is dealing with.
Ron as others have said thank you for sharing.
Posted 3 years ago by Crazycatman - CA #
Miu, your friend and her children are in my prayers. This is indeed a blow to them. You are a good friend to support her in this time of need.
Posted 3 years ago by Kitten Whisperer #
Miu, my prayers for your friend.
Posted 3 years ago by Cat talk rules #
miu, its so sad that it happens, it happened to me (one of the reasons its just me and the cats, previously just me and the kids since '94) it does hit the self-esteem for sure.
Ron, its nice that you have joined us and shared the cue stick story....makes me smile knowing the Cindy had the 'pluck' we all thought she had, knew it by catching the bugs/critters in the house and telling us the tales of them.
Posted 3 years ago by AZDEBRA 5/27 & crew #
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