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My Brother and Aunt died this week

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  1. Lynn, my heartfelt sympathy to you. I will pray for God to hold you close. You can rest assured that you are loved here and can come here anytime for whatever your needs are. We will all try to help, however we can. {{{Lynnmo}}}

    Posted 3 years ago by Shelley #

  2. My deepest sympathy to you for the loss of your loved ones. May God hold you close and comfort you during this difficult time.

    Posted 3 years ago by ILoveMyCats #

  3. {{{Lynnnmo}}}

    Posted 3 years ago by KarenCentennial #

  4. Lynnmo, please don't apologize for not having good news. Your losses are beyond overwhelming, and you're going to need a good, long time to do the work of grief. After that, you can start to think about healing. For the very moment, do whatever it takes to live moment to moment. Come here and ASK FOR HELP any and every time you need it. Life is a precious gift in a circumstances, and even though you can't feel that sentiment right now....you still *know* it in your heart.

    In the darkest dark, when one thought is all you can cling to, make it this one: you are never alone. You are never alone. You are never alone. We are here.

    Posted 3 years ago by lisaeylau #

  5. Dear God.

    **HUGS**

    Posted 3 years ago by Arcalian #

  6. Lynnmo, we are here for you {{{HUGS}}}. Please try to find a professional to help you--you shouldn't have to deal with so much grief bottled up inside. And don't EVER feel you can't vent on this site--whatever it takes we will support you!

    Posted 3 years ago by Sheba's Mom in Phoenix, AZ 10/8 #

  7. Lynnmo, check in when you are able to. I hope you received my card. God Bless.

    Posted 3 years ago by Tigerlilly #

  8. *no words to express what she wants to say... simply gives Lynnmo a big hug and says a prayer for her ... wishing she could do something more to comfort her*

    Posted 3 years ago by owlwatcher_974 #

  9. Lynnmo, you are in my thoughts and prayers. I hope you will find a grief counselor or bereavement group--they really do help. And please always feel free to come here and talk--you are one of our dear family members and we will always be here to care.

    Posted 3 years ago by rainingwolf #

  10. Iam sorry
    This hurts I know ,the good things that people say helps ,but only you feel the pain of this the way that you do. Others will feel this hurt in many differant ways.Stay in touch with those that relise how much you are in pain and let them help you. STAY away from the ones that slap you on the back and tell you to get over it.There is nothing wrong in grieving and missing the ones that have passed.just remember that they may have passed but they loved you always

    Posted 3 years ago by Renee in Arkansas #

  11. Hope that made some sence.
    Maybe I am not the best one to offer confort. I just wanted to try
    Cindy would have said it better

    Posted 3 years ago by Renee in Arkansas #

  12. You said it very well, Ron. As I was reading it, I realized you would know the exact words to say and you did. I am glad to see you posting with us. Peace, my friend.

    Posted 3 years ago by SammyandOliversmama #

  13. (((Lynnnmo)))
    I'm sorry for all the grief! Please listen to what I am saying find a grief group by you(Some churches have them for no cost) they will help you unbelievably! You are in my prayers!
    Peace
    Dorie

    Posted 3 years ago by 4 kits staff #

  14. Sweetheart, I am so sorry that this has happened. You've been hit too hard and too fast to recover quickly.

    Please know that you are in the prayers of all of us, and that you can call on us at any time.

    You need time to mourn your separate losses and time to grieve. Please see if you can get some help, with your church or your local mental health agency.

    Get some help, dear, and know that we love you. We are your family.

    Posted 3 years ago by Emma #

  15. Lynnmo, I don't know what to say except I'm so sorry for your losses. But I do know God has a plan for you in all this. You will be in my prayers.

    Posted 3 years ago by 2bpurring #

  16. Lynnmo, Please check back in with us and let us know how your doing!!

    Posted 3 years ago by 2bpurring #

  17. {{{LYNNMO}}} Please don't think you can only come here with good news. We want to offer whatever support we can. You are in my prayers.

    Posted 3 years ago by krazikat #

  18. Ok, where do I start. First thanks for all your support during this tragic time in my life. It has been so hard to loose three people that I was so close to. I miss my Aunt the most because she was my favorite Aunt. I had just taken pictures of her dressed up on Halloween and two hours later she was gone. She just passed out and never woke back up. They think she had a artery rupture or something. I can say at least she didn't have to suffer and being there with family made her last day enjoyable. So was so funny dressed up as Hannah Montana singing and dancing. I'm glad we were all there for her. I managed to get rid of what I call me "death headace". Eveytime someone dies I have a head ache for at least a week or more. I got rid of it, then caught the flu and just got over that two days ago and now my back is out. If I didn't have bad luck I would have none at all. I have to get better because my mom and my Uncle only have me to depend on. My health is bad but I still try to do all I can to help. My Mom has to go back in and have another back surgery in the next month or so. I'm trying to take care of her, my Uncle and my babies and it's hard. Living on disability, it's hard to keep bills paid and now with the extra expenses it's even worse. I have court next month for my Carbon Monoxide settlement hearing and that's added stress. I may get lots of money and I may get none, that's just how hearings go. Hopefully the jurors will see what I have been through and the damage it's done to my heart and be symathetic. I have over 100 pages of paper work to go through for that. With all this stress going on and the accident being so long ago, my memory is shot. With the luck I have I may not get anything, who knows. I'll try to keep my head up and be strong. I'm doing my best to be positive but it's hard to do. Thanks everyone for listening to my situation and doing your best to help. I Love you all!!

    Posted 3 years ago by Lynnnmo #

  19. Lynnmo, thanks for checking in..I will continue to keep you in my prayers, I know it's very hard to stay positive, but it really does help!! We are here for you whenever you need a shoulder...{{{HUGS}}} and good luck on your settlement.

    Posted 3 years ago by 2bpurring #

  20. I'm glad you checked in Lynnmo and happy that you have gotten through the headaches and flu! I hope you get a generous settlement out of your lawsuit and can put it behind you. {{{hugs}}}

    Posted 3 years ago by Kitten Whisperer #

  21. Lynnmo, I can't believe I missed this post the first time around! I am so sorry to hear of all of your recent misfortune. I wish I could hug you now but as I can't do that I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers and wish for you an easier patch of time to deal with. Thank you for checking in!

    Posted 3 years ago by debsterwiz #

  22. Here is hoping you get the settlement you deserve, Lynnmo. Thinking positive thoughts for you.

    Posted 3 years ago by SylMiaFelixMomma #

  23. Still keeping you in my prayers!

    Posted 3 years ago by KYKAT 12 23 #

  24. Thanks so much for checking in Lynnmo,I have been wondering how you're doing and praying for you. I hope you get a generous settlement.

    Posted 3 years ago by Buttercup #

  25. Hoping for all the best for you, Lynnmo!

    Posted 3 years ago by GreatDane #

  26. {{{Lynnnmo}}}

    Posted 3 years ago by feral #


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