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   This is from Cindy/Renee in Arkansas's mother, Loretta:

   Hi I am Renee's Ma,I want to thank each and every one of you for all the nice things you have said about my sweet little girl Cindy Renee in Arkansas,she is not only a angel in heaven,but she was our angel here on earth as well. God blessed me with a wonderful beatiful daughter,I am so thankful for all the friendship and love you have bestowed on my little girl,she was the only child I had,I lost my husband of 41 years 6 years ago so you can imagine what this has done to me,it has torn my heart inside out,as so for her husband. Again except my love and thankfulness for all you have done. I shall never forget it. Renee's Ma With Love

   Posted 3 years ago by Kitten Whisperer #

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   Thank you KW for sharing this. If my heart wasn't breaking before. Reminds me of another family I know. My heart just goes out to the family.

   Posted 3 years ago by SoxsMom #

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   Yes..Thank you KW..I know the horrific pain of losing a beautiful child and taking a red hot branding iron to the heart region couldn't hurt more. God's Blessings to Loretta and Ron as they stumble through this painful loss.

   Posted 3 years ago by Karenopa #

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   Loretta, please come by and chat with us any time. You are welcome to be a part of the TDK family here. {{{hugs}}}

   Posted 3 years ago by Kitten Whisperer #

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   Your daughter was loved here Loretta. She is very missed and was such a part of our family. I extend my sympathies as well as my love and prayers to you and Ron and all your family. ((HUGS))

   Posted 3 years ago by cricketsmama #

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   Bless you Loretta for bringing Cindy Renee into this world and sharing her wonderful caring heart and manners with us. May you and Ron grieve of course, but also heal with the memories of the very special woman that Cindy was and stil is. You are as much a member of our TDK family as Cindy is, please come often and visit.

   Posted 3 years ago by AZDEBRA 5/27 & crew #

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   Loretta, It is she how first shared that hand of friendship with me and I was blessed for each day she was my friend and shared her laughter and joy with me over max's latest pranks and antics as well as her concern and strength when Max was so seriously ill and had to run through a lot of testing!

   My prayers are being sent for you and your son-in-law!

   Love,
   Ange

   ALso feel free to join us here on the TDK we would love to be able to chat with you and Ron!

   Posted 3 years ago by Momma to 2 MaineCoons #

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   Cindy was a wonderful, caring woman and you must have had a large part in making her that way, Loretta. I'm glad we were able to know her, and I hope you'll consider yourself part of our family here.

   Posted 3 years ago by Kilroy #

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   Thank you for your words to us at this time. Cindy was indeed very special to us. I will always have a special place in my heart for Renee. I hope you do stop in and chat with us from time to time. You must be a special lady to have such a special girl. Condolences to you and Ron.

   Posted 3 years ago by SammyandOliversmama #

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    Thank you, KW, for sharing this. Loretta, we loved your daughter. {{{hugs}}}

    Posted 3 years ago by miu #

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    I thank you as well, KW..Loretta, your daughter was lovely and will be much missed.

    Posted 3 years ago by sullis #

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    Its pretty obvious the apple didn't fall far from the tree. It's incredible to me that you would take this time out from your heartbreak to thank us. We are the ones who should be thanking you for bringing Cindy into the world.
    May God bless and keep you during this horrible time.

    Posted 3 years ago by petpntr #

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    Loretta, thank you so much for sharing some of your thoughts of your sweet daughter. I can only imagine the grief that you and Ron are feeling. It is so inadequate to tell you that I send you my most heartfelt condolences, but it's all that I know to do. I hope that you and Ron have found some comfort in knowing how loved Cindy was in this little TDK family. Although we are a group of people who have mostly never met each other, for many reasons we have formed deep bonds and strong friendships. This is a safe place where you can come and share any of your feelings with us, and we will listen and just be here for you.

    I was a hospice nurse for many years and so, sadly, the loss of friends is something that I'm only too familiar with. Cindy's passing was made so much more difficult for you and Ron because it was so unexpected. We cannot know why these things happen. I am just so very sorry for you loss. And, we are all grieving for our loss of Cindy as well. It is always hard to lose a friend, and to lose one in the prime of life is very difficult.

    From my years in hospice I know the importance for a family to have a place to share their loss and their feelings. It is so necessary to do that so that in time you can get through this period of such intense grief. If you do not have a support group there where you are, please know that we are here.

    May your memories of your beautiful daughter bring you peace. It is a testament to Cindy's lives that she touched so many people.

    Love,
    Betty

    Posted 3 years ago by WillowandWindismom #

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    Thank you KW for sharing this. I can only add my sympathies and condolences... any other words simply escape me.

    Posted 3 years ago by 2 Popoki #

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    Hi just as I promised I got cindy's mother on line to view your kind comments
    It really made her happy to see how much her girl had been liked by everyone
    I gave her access to the web site so she will be able to continue viewing them whenever she fills the need.Between reading the post and the grieving that we did together,she helped me clean,straightenup and showed me how to operate stuff and fend for myself. I'm afraid that cindy spoiled me as much or maybe even more than she did her babies.I must confess that Loreta did more cleaning than me because cindy made me totaly helpless with all of the care she took of me.
    Loreta has many of cindy 's health problems and some of her on as well.
    WE will try to lean on each other to get through this but it hurts so much
    Cindy,as always, had been gathering her ma,s favoret cosmetic surplies so Igave them to herbefore she left Imay lurk arround for awhile before I go to bed . IT seems useless since I don'tget much sleep anymore
    thank you from mr. renee

    Posted 3 years ago by Renee in Arkansas #

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    Ron, you and Loretta are welcome to post here anytime. We have become quite a little family here, even though we only communicate through the internet. We have shared many joys and many sorrows. I know that there is a big hole in both of your lives right now, and it will take time to heal. But please know that we are all thinking of you, and praying for you, and we really do care about both of you. Thank you both for taking the time to share with us.

    Posted 3 years ago by NNGM #

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    I'm also at a loss for words. I also can see why Cindy was such a beautiful & caring woman.

    Loretta...Thank You so much for sharing a part of yourself & your memories of such a wonderful daughter. Your warmth radiates thru,just as Renee's did. I'm so glad I met her here & proud to call her my friend. My heart aches from the loss.

    Like the others have said, I also hope that You & Ron feel comfortable enuf to stop & visit from time to time. {{{HUGS}}}

    Posted 3 years ago by feral #

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    Ron, I'm glad you got a chance to show Loretta how to get on to TDK and that she was able to give you some basic survival skills at home. I'm sure it was a good experience for both of you to spend that time together.

    I know what you mean about having difficulty in sleeping after a loss like this. I lost my first husband many years ago when he was killed in a car accident. I felt like I'd been hit in the back of the head with a 2 by 4. It will take some time to get your breath back, but you will do it. In the meantime, remember to take good care of yourself, as Cindy would want you to.

    Keep coming back to let us know how your are doing!

    Posted 3 years ago by Kitten Whisperer #

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    Dear Ron and Loretta, Miu said it all, we loved Cindy. And thank you, KW, for sharing this. {{{{HUGS}}}} to Cindy's family.

    Posted 3 years ago by jcat #

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    Thank you Ron for helping Loretta find this site. We all loved your Renee and miss her terribly. I hope you and Loretta find some solace. We are here if you need us.

    Posted 3 years ago by SylMiaFelixMomma #

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    Ron and Loretta, I don't know what I can add but I want you to know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.

    Posted 3 years ago by Cat talk rules #

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    Dear Ron and Loretta, I'm glad that the two of you have come here and I hope you find some pleasure in reading the countless posts and tributes to your Renee here. She was so very special to all of us. Please take good care of eachother and know that if there's ever anything we can do for you, we would be more than happy to help in any way we can.

    Posted 3 years ago by GreatDane #

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    I do hope you both visit us from time to time.. Our little cyber community will miss Renee very much. TDK is a very special place.

    Posted 3 years ago by caroline #

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    Ron, I am so sorry. I can just imagine your sleepless nights. But Cindy would want for you to be strong for both yourself and for her mom. I wish that we could help. We can only tell you that we care.

    Posted 3 years ago by WillowandWindismom #

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    Again, my deepest sympathies to both of you, and of course, we would love to hear from both of you--we loved Cindy as a sister--we grieve with you. God Bless!

    Posted 3 years ago by Sheba's Mom in Phoenix, AZ 10/8 #

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    Bump

    Posted 3 years ago by WillowandWindismom #

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    Ron and Loretta, Cindy was (and still is) an important part of TDK and you are too..... Please count on us as family and if there is ANYTHING at all that John and I can do.... and I mean ANYTHING AT ALL please email me at jtp352 at yahoo dot com. As everyone knows here, I'm Terri aka BCAM or Mama Terri... LOL

    Posted 3 years ago by BCAMflorida227 #

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    Well Ron I missed ya! But it will jsut take practice! You can get the hang of it! The hardest part is just getting through the day sometimes. Between cleaning and cooking and laundry grrrrrrrrrrrrrrr heheheh it becomes a pain in the behind but unfrtunately all necessary things! I know you will get through this time, it will just well take some time! I know there's a part of me each time I come on I truly expect to ee her interacting here with us and seeing her avatar! It brings warmth and happiness to my heart to still see her avatar among us, and I do want you and Loretta to stick around, youboth are family members for us just as Renee is and will always be. She spoke so lovingly of both of you!

    Ange

    Posted 3 years ago by Momma to 2 MaineCoons #

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    thank you so much for sharing it.

    Posted 3 years ago by Hizlilbrat #

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    I just went shopping and got a couple of scrapbooks and some materials. I'm going to print out the posts from TDK, arrange them in the books and send one to Ron and one to Loretta.
    Did someone have Ron's mailing address? If so, could you email it to me at lotte200622 at yahoo dot com?

    Posted 3 years ago by GreatDane #

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