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   I am really amazed and pleased how much sympathy to be gotten on the internet. However I want to remind everybody that in every relationship no person is totally to blame or totally innocent, each person share at least a portion of the responsibility,there is always two sides for a story.

   In America it is prevalent that the men is always the abusive, but there is many abusive women out there, in my household the abuse began with my wife (I.e.) waking me up at 3 am to ask me why i left a dirty pot in the sink or having turn off my cell when i come home.

   My wife is strongly identified with the victimhood ( http://www.drzur.com/victimhood.html )and in the internet she found a whole new audience to manipulate and get the attention she craves.

   I don't begrudge my wife any hug that might come her way, none of us can ever have too many, however it would feel better if they have been earned with more honesty.

   Regards,

   Posted 2 years ago by Karinshusband #

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   Well wish I could say welcome,but can't.
   Yes both parties of a relationship hold responsibilities for the good and bad turns of a relationship. Yet I find it hard to see that it was all her. Anyone with enough frustration can become verbally agressive and yell and shout but there has to be something triggering it. Women are not victims unless they let themselves be out of some strange self-abusiveiness or sense of desurving it, or nhabing overly submissive personalities!

   If our friend felt it was for her own safety to live you, becuase of your home situation I securely back her. But, I won't as will many other give you any information around here or let you turn this into a unsafe hacen for Karin.

   Sincerely,]

   Ange

   Posted 2 years ago by Momma to 2 MaineCoons #

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   Do not believe anything he has to say. He is not welcomed here. Tarek, go back to your other websites.

   Posted 2 years ago by KarinfromSFBayArea #

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   Thank you,Karin,for that! Guard yourself.

   Posted 2 years ago by Tigger #

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   Go away, husband, you are not welcome. and for me to say that, as I am EXTREMELY polite, I must feel very strongly. GOT IT? YOU ARE NOT WELCOME HERE.

   Posted 2 years ago by Bogman, Clark and Andy's mama 2/27 Florida #

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   That's right Karin, you need to change your settings and profile just in case he has that information, plus your user id!

   He is not welcomed or wanted here but he may be trying to use this site to get to you so in the future do not reply to his comments also get a new email account as well so he can't read your mail or get to you through that!

   Posted 2 years ago by Momma to 2 MaineCoons #

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   See Karin my sister we are behind you 200%. He's not welcomed. Hey can we get Kittenmaster to give him the boot?

   Posted 2 years ago by Momma to 2 MaineCoons #

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   Husband, you have caused your wife much mental abuse, if not physical abuse. you have tapped into her computer and are a stalker in every sense of the word. you are not welcome here, you have no right to imtimidate anyone here and we would like you to just leave Karin in peace. Please leave this site, and let Karin alone.

   Posted 2 years ago by Lynn from PA 6/8 #

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   Karin, please watch your back, he still has personal infor.

   Posted 2 years ago by Lynn from PA 6/8 #

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    Karin, post no personal infor on this website. If you have others email, use them, no personal infor here. He already knows this site. Take good care my friend, Lynn

    Posted 2 years ago by Lynn from PA 6/8 #

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    Karinshusband you are not welcomed here. Go away. There are plenty of other websites for you to go and complain to. This is not one of them. Also, if you post any slanderous information, it can be used against you in a court of law.

    Posted 2 years ago by Catlover #

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    Oh! Poor you! Feel better now?

    Did not think so.

    We have had over a year of ups and downs from Karin and she never once laid the entirity of your problems on your head or feet. Does she bear responsibility in the relationship. She married you. She started to end the relationship and backed down.

    She has finally taken steps to end this. Do something noble for a change. Let her and stop interjecting yourself into her life.

    NOW go control something that is in your rights to control. Like the lightswitch in your bathroom. Flush yourself while you are at it!

    Posted 2 years ago by ailuromaniac #

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    Husband, be well aware that, as catlover has said, anything you say can and will be used against you in a court of law. Do you understand?

    Posted 2 years ago by Bogman, Clark and Andy's mama 2/27 Florida #

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    Husband,you have been reported to Moderator of Web-Site.BACK-OFF NOW!

    Posted 2 years ago by Tigger #

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    Thanks TP.

    Posted 2 years ago by Bogman, Clark and Andy's mama 2/27 Florida #

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    Karin's husband, you may have been watching our posts, but you don't know us. Some of us work in stores, factories, law enforcement, and even hold higher power in the judicial system. I would caution you to choose any words you want to say wisely. You never know to whom you may be talking to. Just go away, leave her in peace, she is not your possession, and wants to go on with her life. Sorry, but life goes on. Hoping you can find some peace.

    Posted 2 years ago by Lynn from PA 6/8 #

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    See Karin your Fam has your back Sis. Ex-hubby get lost! I would hate to see you verbally abused here! Snort! Or Virtually tooken to the trash,we got one heck of a team here that fight amongest oursleves we'd bond together to take you on.

    Momma ya there come join us elsewhere!

    Posted 2 years ago by Momma to 2 MaineCoons #

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    Mama Lynn and Mama Terri are both here. He can't win against the TDK family!!! GO TDK!!!!!!!!!

    GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR

    Posted 2 years ago by Bogman, Clark and Andy's mama 2/27 Florida #

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    Ange Roars threateningly and bares teeth. Mama's should and can we run him through the night shift guantlet?
    Please!

    Posted 2 years ago by Momma to 2 MaineCoons #

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    Yes, child, you have permission.

    Posted 2 years ago by Bogman, Clark and Andy's mama 2/27 Florida #

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    Karin's soon-to-be-ex: Yes, this is a free country. You are free to go. Here's hoping you take advantage of that.

    Posted 2 years ago by gatakitty #

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    not soon to be ginny is. Only legality is a piece of paper.

    Posted 2 years ago by Momma to 2 MaineCoons #

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    I love it when I'm THAT kind of wrong! Maybe we should back off with the "flamethrower" and give the bas***d enough rope to hang himself. Just a thought....

    Posted 2 years ago by gatakitty #

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    If ya think so. I just hate to think he is here!

    Posted 2 years ago by Momma to 2 MaineCoons #

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    One of the best ideas there is,Ginny! Hands off the *erkwater,let him hang himself!

    Posted 2 years ago by Tigger #

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    I know, I know. Hey, "buddy" (can you FEEL the sarcasm?), come try your crap in Texas, where the "Castle Doctrine" begins on the property line! All those rumors you hear about all Texans being "John Wayne cowboys"? They're true, except for one holdout city that prides itself on being "weird," but I don't live there!

    Posted 2 years ago by gatakitty #

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    ginny come join me at hello!

    Posted 2 years ago by Momma to 2 MaineCoons #

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    Thank you all for your support. Kittenmaster, please delete this thread as karinshusband who only wants to cause trouble.

    I never did anything but give encouragement. We got married and our first year of marriage was fine and all. By Sept of 2006 we were having problems. I tried to help us with having us go to a therapist. We went several times but because you were not willing to open up to her, it didn't help us. Now, I find that we need to end it but you are not willing to let me go with trying to make my life a living hell. Why? Is this necessary?

    You can choose to move on with your life by leaving me alone and focus your time and energy on making a better life for yourself.

    Posted 2 years ago by KarinfromSFBayArea #

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    Ginny, he doesn't like Texas so you won't ever find him there.

    Posted 2 years ago by KarinfromSFBayArea #

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    Karin, please email me tomorrow and let me know how you are, OK? I'm off to bed. G/night, and hugs, sweetie.

    Posted 2 years ago by Bogman, Clark and Andy's mama 2/27 Florida #

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