GD, that is awful what he did to his wife. But, it is also sad that she dumped it on you.
To my TDK family, I wish that we could gather all of us who are alone, or without family, and spend this Christmas time together. Distance is a cruel thing.
You are all in my heart.
Posted 3 years ago by WillowandWindismom #
GD, if I known earlier, I would have jumped on a plane. I am sorry you are alone and so upset to not be in the Christmas spirit anymore.
I am alone this holiday because I think I upset my Mom on my birthday (worst birthday ever with no happy birthday sung to me or any cards from family), haven't asked enough about her mother's health issues (when I ask, I get the brush off), and I upset her with hanging up on her on the phone when she was upset with me for not wanting to come to the after Thanksgiving day get together. When I called to apologized about hanging up, she so nicely informed me how I inconvenienced everyone by not being the chauffer for everyone and causing my aunt to have to rent a car to fit everyone (I am always volunteered in front of everyone instead of asking me via phone call between just my parents and I). So you see even if they had asked me, I would have declined as I am tired of their game playing with me. It is too much work for me to have everyone over to my place so that is why I don't invite them all over. My sister will probably have Christmas with just her new husband and my niece and nephew. I have to say that at this time of year, it sucks to be almost single (divorce not finalized as of yet) and no boyfriend in sight.
That is cool, Metsa about the Norad and Santa Claus. I bet the kids love this. Thank you for the thought, Kilroy and thank you too WWM.
Posted 3 years ago by SylMiaFelixsMomma #
Mi cheered me up. I just went to pet him and his head is drenched in tuna water! He must have really stuck that head of his in the tuna!
I'll be fine - I've been alone for Christmas before. Last year I was with XBF who refused to celebrate at all and at least this year, I can sit and enjoy a Christmas movie. When I'm done with the dogs tomorrow I'mcoming home to celebrate with Bobby and Mi - there'll be presents, nip and more tuna. My friend has invited me over to eat with her family tomorrow at two, so I may do that.
Karin, I'm sorry about your family issues and would have really liked to spend Christmas with you!
WWM, I don't mind that my friend dumped on me - that's what friends are for and she was having a meltdown at the airport with two upset children.
We've been friends for ten years and I was there when her son almost died from meningitis a few years back, I was one of the first calls her jerk of a husband made when she fainted at a gas station and broke half the bones in her face a couple of years ago. Likewise she was there for me for an entire afternoon at the ER when I was freaking out from a panic attack a couple of years ago. I would have been upset had she not called me today.
Good night, GD. Merry Christmas!
Posted 3 years ago by Kitten Whisperer #
Good night GD! Merry Christmas to you, Bobby and Milo.
Posted 3 years ago by SylMiaFelixsMomma #
Merry Christmas, SMM. I hope you and your kitties enjoy your day tomorrow. I'm sorry you won't be joining your parents and other relatives. Holidays can be really stressful times when family members aren't getting along. {{{hugss}}}
Posted 3 years ago by Kitten Whisperer #
Merry Christmas, KW! Thank you for the kind words. {{KW}}
Posted 3 years ago by SylMiaFelixsMomma #
{{{{{Hugs}}}}}}} to everyone tonite!!! Alone, or with family. I am "sneaking" my flip video into the midnight service tonite, so I'll try and get some pics to send you all. It's so beautiful at the midnight service with all the poinsettas and candles. Just finished a HUGE dinner at Sis's house, tomorrow everyone comes here..... still have prep to do, so I'm just popping in to say Merry Christmas!
I just truly wish that I could gather all of you up and transport you to Midland. I am so grateful to be here with Mr. WWM. But, I must admit - I miss the Christmas of my childhood with my mom and grandmother. All I can say to those of you who still have your parents - hold them close. The day will come when they are gone and, no matter what your relationship with them might have been, you will miss them.
Posted 3 years ago by WillowandWindismom #
WWM, I will miss my Dad dearly when the time comes but will not miss my step-mom.
Merry Christmas, AV!!
Posted 3 years ago by SylMiaFelixsMomma #
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