I have not been on much lately, and I feel weird posting this here, but I have asked my husband for a divorce, a couple of times, and now that xmas is over, I am pushing the issue. I'm just really NOT happy anymore.
The only issue I need help with is with my fuzzies. I cannot take them all with me, and all the places I have looked at only take 2 maybe 3 kits. I currently have 6. If you know anyone in the Colorado area looking for a cat, please point them in my direction. Thank you in advance for any help you provide me. You can see them on my catster page, click on my gravatar.
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I am sorry MerD to hear about your news. I pray that your precious babies find good homes and soon. Maybe someone here knows anyone who can take them. ((MerD))
Posted 3 years ago by cricketsmama #
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MerD I am so sorry that you are in an unhappy relationship and you feel a divorce is the answer. What a horrible predicament. I don't know anyone in your area but I wanted to post to let you know you have moral support here. I do hope this will turn out to be as painless as possible for all of you.
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MerD I am so very sorry. Are you staying there or are you going toward family. I know you have family in NM. If there was a way you know I would take one-it is just a matter of getting one here. I would be even happier if there was a way to keep you all together. Please know my prayers are with you--this will be rough, but I think you know you have a bunch of support here.
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Oh no MerD! I don't know anyone in that rea that's lookign for a kit! Are you sure you cna't keep them? Even Moving? Can you rent a home or maybe a friend can go in win you on a place?
Posted 3 years ago by Momma to 2 MaineCoons #
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Okay wait I agree with you! Split them half and half that way the babies all have homes! Are there 3 he is especially close too? That he would keep and then you can keep the other 3 and no babies get booted into shelters or anythign else!
Posted 3 years ago by Momma to 2 MaineCoons #
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MerD, sorry to hear that it has come to the end, I do know the feeling. I have six now with the outside patio kitty kinda in/out and can't fit any more into this small place. Wish I knew someone who could help, sigh.
Posted 3 years ago by AZDEBRA 5/27 & crew #
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It would be nice if it works out that way Miu, but I don't even know if he will take 2 yet. There is also the issue of Vet care for them, not sure how many I will be able to afford on my own. LV, I don't want them in a shelter, which is why I am starting this search now. I hope to be out on my own by February.
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I wish you the best of luc MerD and I hope he will be generous enough to keep 3 so you can keep the other 3! As for vet bills I understand! But at this point it sound like they will only need their yearly vaccin visits becuase they are all older!!
Posted 3 years ago by Momma to 2 MaineCoons #
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I'm sorry to hear that you and your husband are having problems. Good luck in sorting this out and finding good homes for your kits. I hope the time with your family helps with getting perspective on what you need to do. {{{hugs}}}
Posted 3 years ago by Kitten Whisperer #
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Oh MerD, If i was in your area I would love to help. I hope everything works out for the best for you. {{{HUGS}}} I will keep you in my prayers.
Posted 3 years ago by BoogerMercurysMama #
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MERD, I am so sorry to hear about this - I know how hard it is when children and pets are involved. I wish I could help, and will keep my ears open for someone to take some of your babies - I would take Ben and Jerry in a flash - they are just beautiful (but all cats are, to me), but I still have Richard and even though he has allowed John to bring Buddy and Leela to live in the garage, he still hasn't figured out how to share yet! Stupid Men!!! With apologies to the Men of TDK! Let me know if I can offer any other help, if you need it - I am only a few miles away. {{{MERD}}}
Posted 3 years ago by KarenCentennial #
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MerD, I am sorry that you are having difficulties. My best wishes and prayers for the best resolution possible and for the safe placement of your furry family.
Posted 3 years ago by Tigerlilly #
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I hope everything works out for you in 2009.
Posted 3 years ago by Pollys_Mum_in_UK_2605 #
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Oh MerD. This is such a troubling time for you. I did that myself back in '85 (has it been that long?) Prayers to help you through all of this.
Posted 3 years ago by SammyandOliversmama #
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Never an easy decision to make MerD, hope you manage to work everything out the best for way for everyone, furry and non-furry. {{{hugs}}}
Posted 3 years ago by MadcatwomanintheUK #
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I am very sorry for you MerD that you are to the point of divorcing your husband. As MCW said, this isn't an easy decision for you. What with my pending divorce, my heart goes out to you over this trying time. I can only offer you prayers and positive thoughts that it all works out. I am sorry to say I don't know anyone in your area who could help with your kitties. Will think positive that you can find a place that will allow you at least 3 of them. Hope you husband will take the other 3. Sending you some hugs.
Posted 3 years ago by SylMiaFelixMomma #
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Difficult decision MerD but you do what you have to to make yourself happy and comfortable again. Look after yourself, {{{hugs}}}
Posted 3 years ago by Moonshadow_NZ #
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As I am in Uk I can't help with anything except good wishes and hope.
Posted 3 years ago by Pollys_Mum_in_UK_2605 #
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