I want to wish each & every one of you the best of the best for the New Year. With me,things have been awful. I just want you to know that non-helper is throwing his childish threat around again. He is threatening to cut off puter access & is working on disabling the only car I have to drive so as to have this adolescent need for control. The more I don't allow him to,the more angry he gets that he can't.
I can't say what will happen in the next 24-48 hrs. of this hell I'm going thru. I just want you to know,if It seems I've dropped off the face of the earth, that you know what is happening, & why. I'm hoping he doesn't stoop to such behavior,but, I'm sure he will,because he can't stand to not have things his way.
I'm sorry my Family for dropping this s**t on you with such happy events going on & even a new TDK baby in our midst,but,thought I'd better, because things don't look good for my 2009 as it sits right now. I Love You All. Good Luck with your new beginnings...whatever they may be.
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Oh Susie! That man ticks me off! I will hope he gets really really hard a few times with a big old frying pan and gets some sense knocked into him and childish selfish behaviors out!
Posted 3 years ago by Momma to 2 MaineCoons #
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I hope Chuck comes to his senses and leaves the internet access in place. You are a wonderful part of the TDK family, Susie!! {{{hugs}}}
Posted 3 years ago by Kitten Whisperer #
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More than anything I wish you could find a way to leave. This is not a healthy relationship. Think of all that you have gone through. I know that you are feeling trapped, but there are agencies that can try and help. This controling behavior is awfully abusive--I pray it never becomes physical abuse. My prayers are with you Susie that you will find peace in 2009 and strength. You are an amazing person and deserve better treatment.
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Susie, in one of my emails, I gave you a whole lot of resource links such as links to feral groups who can take over your outside kitties, groups who can take your indoor kitties, low cost busing services, links to catholic charities who can help raise money for you to travel to your sister's, etc. All it takes is for you to start contacting these resources, and you can leave your abusive relationship. If you truly are frustrated, you need to take action now instead of staying in a toxic environment. You and I know you deserve much better and continually talking about it is not going to help change things. You need to take action now before it becomes a physically abusive situation.
Posted 3 years ago by SylMiaFelixMomma #
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Thanks you guys for your well wishes. Trying to refrain from sounding harsh,I would like to let you all know,I was in NO WAY asking for resourses,or for ways out. Or asking for any handouts. My God you all have helped me so much. Karin...you of all have helped me the most. I can't THANK you enuf. I still have all names & numbers of the resourses from the transport of my the 1st 7 kits of mine.
As for busing & all that...my car is junk,but runs & if I were to leave at any time (which is what I meant by the 24-48 hr.comment) I would use that car. There is no busing or taxi service or anything of the sort that comes this far out from town. It's a disadvantage of living rural.
I meant in no way for anyone to think I was having a meltdown or was in a dangerous situation when I wrote my post. I simply wanted my extended family to know what was happening,since I may not have puter access suddenly or did not post. And wanted you all to know I wished you the best for the New Year.
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Susie, I'll be praying for you and your babies - living with idiots is hard but living with abusive idiots is even harder. My dad was like that and the people who have to live with those idiots have to act quick for their own protection. If you aren't here suddenly we will all worry and I for one appreciate the heads up from you, we will still worry but maybe less. {{{susie}}}
Posted 3 years ago by KarenCentennial #
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Heavens to Mergatroid Susie...Happy New Year little sis!!! Don't worry about your post...I understand perfectly how frustrating Chuck's substance abuse can be and he can pipe up with some extreme blabbermouth threats. It's almost funny to think of his being a retired mechanic and all that he does not do to the vehicles. If he's not working on his own truck anymore...I wouldn't worry too much about him tampering with your car..haha..he's likely too stoned right now to remember which end is the trunk and which is the engine! I don't mean to make light of your situation..I just know that it's been ongoing for some time and I want you to know I love you for being as strong as you've been and seriously doubt that he will cut off your internet service. If so..I promise to call you everyday of the week til he turns it back on!!! =) He'll get tired of my calls and put it all right in no time! Oh..and we live in the same rural situation as you do...no bus service comes anywhere near where our town is! =(
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Susie, I pray that the new year quickly gets better for you.
Darn!!! Non-helper's name is Chuck????? I gotta change my name.
Posted 3 years ago by Crazycatman - CA #
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CCM is the scholar and gentleman of all beings named Chuck, and we are all proud to know him and honored to be in his life.
Susie's roommate, on the other hand, is a blithering idiot who does not deserve a name in the first place, let alone THAT name.
Whenever you want to move, or when you get fed up totally with the creep, we are all here for you, honey.
And some of us can fly out there or appear suddenly at your door and make the lad, as my angel mother put it, "see the light of the risen Christ." (Translation: we have whackbonk sticks and we all know how to use them. And some of us have a BUNCHA frequent flyer miles, are rather muscular, and have some time on our hands.)
Just some random thoughts. Please don't get hurt. We love you.
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Susie I know you are strong and can fend for yourself-I just wish you could get away from that idiot! I once was in your situation-out of town with no car and an abusive boyfriend. One of my girlfriends just showed up at the door one day with a moving van-no warning or anything!- and helped me move everything out of his house and into hers. She let me stay for 6 months rent free till I got back on my feet. Her kindness changed my life. I hope something like that happens for you. You deserve to be treated like the good person you are, and non-helper deserves to be alone and thrown out on his butt! Prayers for you every night--and cyber hugs, too!
Posted 3 years ago by rainingwolf #
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oh Susie. I wish you the best honey. Just know you are loved and we will help you out if need be. ((Susie))
Posted 3 years ago by cricketsmama #
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Susie,
My prayers that you find a way to leave this situation! I too did it and so can you!
Peace and prayers
DoriePosted 3 years ago by 4 kits staff #
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Susie, I will certainly be praying and sending warm thoughts to you for your situation. You are such a good and caring person; you don't deserve the treatment you receive from non-helper. You know that all of us here will support you and love you no matter what 2009 brings (we pray it's only the best).
Posted 3 years ago by LadyKat of IA #
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Susie, Susie, Susie, you must be an unclaimed saint for having enough love in your heart to stay there and keep that non-helper from drowning himself in the bong water. I will pray for your strength to stay, your bravery to leave, or whatever it is you need to endure. I wish you happiness. Everyone deserves it!!! Even Chuck the Non-Helper, never to be confused with Our Chuck.
How much wood could a woodchuck chuck if a woodchuck could chuck wood?
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I Love you guys. I Love your warmth,your understanding, & most of all, you always find a way to make me smile when things get me down. I'd like to adopt you all!
I also got something in the mail today that put a smile on my face. A personally signed photo from Bob Barker thanking me for what I do for the animals. I see my part as being so small compared to what others do & yet I'm thanked for the little that I do.
Thanks Emma...you'll be the first I call on when I need some extra ninja whackbonk sticks. I've got a green one,but,maybe non-helper needs a rainbow of them. :)
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{{{Susie}}} I'm so sorry to hear of this continuing situation! I wish there was something I could offer other than my continued prayers. You deserve soooo much better than that SOB!!
Posted 3 years ago by debsterwiz #
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