Thank you all for your kind words of support. I had the apartment to myself for the first time last night and actually slept through the night. Sylvester actually headbonked my leg this morning so maybe he starting to come around. Mia is showing more affection as she gets use to her new home and sylvester. She loves to tease him on the cat condo. I will get some more pictures of them doing this when I can. Last nigth I spoke to friend who says he will help me to move. This same friend is also a friend with my husband and says he is on my side. This friend seemed to berate (sp?) me a little last night about the whole issue with husband and I had to stop him and let him know that I need his help and empathy not his telling me to stop being an idiot and talking about my husband with him. I felt a bit alone and then my sister called and she informed me that if husband tries anything, her fiance will come and talk sense into him (he has a black belt). I said it wasn't necessary because Instinct is so close but that I would call her for backup if needed. She was the one who said I should have gone through with my divorce back in December. She said she hated to say it but she said she told me so. I said I know and wished I had gone through with it then and saved myself the nine months of mostly unhappiness.
This morning, I had an interview at a very large engineering firm. It is high up in a building that has a fantastic view of Oakland, Alameda, and the San Francisco Bay. It would be supporting a VP and was told it could include some travel. I was very excited when I heard that. I would love the opportunity to travel, hoping that there may be a chance for a little sight seeing. At least get to see what other areas are like a little. They said they will want the candidate to come back for a second interview to meet the other VP and another employee. They hope to make their decision within the next two weeks. Next Monday I have an interview at a large financial institution. Still waiting to hear from the recruiter at another financial institution that said they wanted to setup an in person interview for an Executive Assistant position.
Also, this morning on the way to work, I started thinking about what items I will keep for furniture and the ones he can keep. I was thinking he can keep the two used and worn couches and maybe my old 27" TV that weighs about 150 lbs plus the TV stand which is ugly and huge also. They aren't worth much now what with the LCD TV's. I figure I can go buy an LCD TV from Sears later when I move. Starting to think about the move. I will send off my 30 day notice to my landlord on the way home tonight.
Posted 4 years ago by SylvesterMiasMomma #
