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Trudy.

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  1. Hi all,

    I am starting to get a little better now, but my dear sweet Trudy (Miss Trudy Prinklebot, when she liked to be formal, and Trudy-Bear when she was being playful) passed away on New Year's Eve. It was just awful!

    My husband and I picked her and Missy, her sister, up from the Kitty Hotel on Monday morning before New Year's and they told us she had been throwing up on Sunday, but it didn't seem to be a problem after they gave her a kitty Pepcid AC. She didnt' seen to be herself on Monday afternoon though and by Tuesday we noticed she was not eating, grooming or drinking out of the sink (her favorite thing), so I took her back to the vet on Wednesday morning only to discover she was in advanced renal failure and her kidneys were shutting down.

    They don't have an explanation for it, besides she might have eaten some of that tainted pet food a neighbor might have left out a year ago or maybe she drank from a puddle that had poison in it or rolled in fertilizer that had chemicals in it (another of her favorite activities in the summer). She also had numerous kidney stones which they found after they did an x-ray. There was basically no hope at this point.

    Joel and I went down to say goodbye and tell her we loved her and the cried ourselves to sleep New Year's Eve. Looking back, I can see now that she probably had diabetes. She was constantly drinking water out of the sink and emptying all the bowls of water that we kept around the house. I know that's a sign for humans who might have it, uncontrollable thirst, and I am assuming it would be similar for pets. She also threw up about once a month, but I always assumed it was over something she ate. I can't believe I didn't recognize it now and feel like a bad mommy.

    We still have Missy and she seems fine with no signs of bad health. We are going to probably get her a baby kitty sister this weekend at the local shelter, where we got her and Trudy. She seems lonely and is looking for her friend and sister.

    My husband and I are a bit sad and lonely too still. I was getting ready for work this morning and no one came in to "help" me make the bed or dress, or "wave goodbye" at me from the window as we drove to work.

    I hope Trudy will get to become friends with all of the your other kitties on the other side of the Rainbow Bridge. ~lara

    Posted 10 months ago by Lara #

  2. Lara, I'm very sorry for your loss of Trudy, please don't blame yourself. How old was Trudy?
    I lost my dear Mr. Bug Nov.2007..I'm sure he will meet Trudy at the bridge and show her all around. He will show her the best places to fish and roll with her in fields of catnip..

    Posted 10 months ago by 2bpurring #

  3. I'm so sorry for your loss, lara. Zorro will be there to welcome your Trudy-Bear {{HUGS}}

    Posted 10 months ago by linda #

  4. Trudy was only 4 and a half. The vet said this rarely happens in young cats. That's why she suspected the tainted food or accidental poisoning a while ago.

    Thanks for your kind words. I'm sure Trudy will meet many new friends and will gladly show Mr. Bug the joys of drinking from the sink or sneaking a taste of the butter on the counter. >^..^<

    Posted 10 months ago by Lara #

  5. I'm so sorry for your loss, Lara. My Chica and Little Bit will also be there to welcome your baby.

    Posted 10 months ago by Cats4Cats #

  6. {{{Lara/Trudy}}} They will have fun together..If you would like to see him you can click on the picture to the left..It will take you to Mr.Bugs page, he was very very handsome!!

    Posted 10 months ago by 2bpurring #

  7. Lara, I am so very sorry to hear of the loss of Trudy. I know how hard that is but you are not a bad mommy. I had a kitty who was diabetic and even though I'm a nurse, it took a while for it to register that there might be something wrong. It's not always easy to pick up on these subtle symptoms in a kitty.

    I know that you and Joel are so sad over her passing. But how wonderful that you will give some new kitty a life and a good home. Missy will be happy, too.

    My babies Mandy, Willie, Bombalurina and Skimbleshanks are probably playing with Trudy right now.

    Take care.

    Posted 10 months ago by WillowandWindismom #

  8. Hi Lara - I'm so sorry for your loss. Trudy is warmly welcomed at the Bridge by my Jiggs and Shaddo and their new friend, Olive Oil. Jiggs has been there since January 3 of last year. Shaddo missed his buddy of 16 years so I did my best to give him extra attention and love (as if that was possible; I doted on my boys big-time). I got him a new collar and a new slicker brush. {{Missy, Lara and hubby}}

    Posted 10 months ago by JoanfromNewJersey #

  9. I read about your tragedy Cheyanne and I'm sorry about your loss as well. I'm sure everyone was there to greet Olive Oil too -- Maybe there is a greeting line as you come over the bridge? I think Kitty Heaven would be a classy place with that kind of service.

    Posted 10 months ago by Lara #

  10. Sorry to hear of Trudy's passing. She may have been diabetic, but her symptoms could also have been a sign of her kidney failure. I know my vet has said that in older cats kidney failure is the most common cause of death.

    I'll be thinking of you.

    Posted 10 months ago by NNGM #

  11. Lara...my heart goes out to you,hubby & Missy. Your baby Trudy will most definately find lots of friends at the bridge. I have many that will greet her. There's Dweeb,Bunny, Julie (my 4-legged child), Cowboy & Bootie.
    I think it's great that you want to rescue another kitten. {{{HUGS}}}

    Posted 10 months ago by feral #

  12. Lara, I'm so sorry. {{{hugs}}} Trudy should look out for Titch, he's been there 3 years now, and could show her the ropes.

    Posted 10 months ago by MadcatwomanintheUK #

  13. Lara, I have lost a couple of young cats and it is so hard to accept. A friend of mine told me something that I hold dear: "Cats are angels. Some stay longer than others but it does not diminish the foot print they leave on our hearts."

    Posted 10 months ago by tinafishfrombirthplaceofElvis #

  14. Lara, I'm so sorry for your loss. They leave a big hole in your heart, don't they? We all understand what you're going through -- we've been there. {{{Hugs}}}

    Don't beat yourself up about not noticing anything. Cats go downhill very quickly and try to hide any illness for as long as possible -- this is useful in the wild where they might get preyed upon but not with us humans. My Jasper has diabetes and yes, drinking water is a sign, but I think NNGM is right, that's probably linked to her kidney disease and if she had kidney stones, that points to the melamine in the catfood, as your vet suggested. I don't think Jasper vomits any more often because of his diabetes.

    Anyway, be kind to yourself for a while, it will be hard missing little Trudy.

    Posted 10 months ago by jcat #

  15. Play in peace sweet Trudy. You left huge paw prints on your mommy and daddy's hearts.

    *says a prayer for Lara and her husband and offers plenty of hugs to both of them*

    Posted 10 months ago by owlwatcher_974 #

  16. Thanks to everyone for their kind words. I am soo glad Trudy will have so many friends now. :)

    Posted 10 months ago by Lara #

  17. I'm sorry for your loss, Lara. Sometimes it helps to talk about a favorite memory of you furry loved one who has crossed the bridge. You have a very supportive audience here to share those stories with. Please check in often. {{{hugs}}}

    Posted 10 months ago by Kitten Whisperer #

  18. Very sorry for your losses Lara and Cheyanne.

    Posted 10 months ago by krazikat #

  19. I'm so sorry about Trudy,Lara.

    Posted 10 months ago by Buttercup #


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