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31. 

    First of all : {{{hugs}}

    Second - I am boggling at the sheer incompetance displayed by the original doctor and the staff at the MRI scan. Thank god for the decent nurse, I'm so glad she was there for you. At some stage, you want to think about some form of legal recourse against these guys - I don't normally advocate litigation, but there are some cases where it's a must - and I think yours is one fo those.

    Third - more {{{hugs}}}

    Fourth - sounds like you are SO much better off without your family, though I imagine it must cause you distress to face that reality. I hope you know you've got the biggest online family in the world rooting for you here on TDK. Whenever you need us, we'll be here for you - day and night. That's the beauty of an international community.

    More {{{hugs}}}

    Stay strong Mollycat - I know the next few days waiting for the results won't be easy, but we'll do our best to distract you with daft cat stories, and cute pictures!

    {{{BIG HUGS)))

    Posted 2 years ago by MadcatwomanintheUK #

32. 

    Well all I can say is, HOLY CRAP MOLLYCAT!!! What a nightmare that was! {{HUGS}} And ramble all you want, toots! again, I can only offer {{HUGS}} but you can have as many as you want!

    Posted 2 years ago by linda #

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    If you end up having surgery, you might contact the social workers at the hospital to see if they can help with the cat situation. There might be a group willing to foster pets whose human staff are unable to care for them for a time.

    Drat, I have to go back into court, but I will check back as soon as I get out.

    {{{{{hugs}}}}}

    Posted 2 years ago by Kitten Whisperer #

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    Oh Molly, wish I could be there to give you a big hug. I've got a good shoulder too. I'm so sorry that you have no one near you to be with you. I know there are a lot of virtual hugs out there coming your way. Hope they help a little bit.

    Posted 2 years ago by paulajeanne #

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    Oh Molly, I am so sorry for your day and for what you have been through! You are an incredibly strong person, and very brave. I am saddened you are estranged from your family, but sometimes that is for the best. I am sending as much strength, peace and comfort to you as I can, and praying for a good outcome for you! You are in my prayers.

    Posted 2 years ago by katthays #

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    OMG... I am so very sorry for the horrid manner in which you were treated. I'm also very grateful for the nurse who had a heart (and used her brain) and just held you and let you cry. Tears are a great release... and medicinal in the Native American culture.

    I have absolutely nothing to say that can help you in any way. No advice at all. You are doing an amazing job of caring for yourself.

    What I can do is offer virtual hugs and a shoulder on which to lean. We are all here pulling and praying for you.

    I also wonder if the test was ordered STAT - why aren't the results STAT as well??

    Posted 2 years ago by 2 Popoki #

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    Mollycat, oh my, I don't know what to say other than to offer prayers, lots of prayers, healing calming energy and even more hugs. I too wish I were closer to you, I would help however I could.

    Posted 2 years ago by AZDEBRA 5/27 & crew #

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    MC - if only you had been in Lubbock - TKN/Ale wouldn't have blown your veins! So sorry your day was so painful - sending hugs! {{{MC}}}.

    Posted 2 years ago by KapitiKats in NZ #

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    I'm sorry you had such a horrible day, Molly! I'm glad at least one nurse was nice to you.
    I feel bad that you're all alone during this, but as the others have mentioned, we're there with you in spirit, rooting for you all the way. Let us know if there is anything at all we can do for you.
    ((Hugs))

    Posted 2 years ago by GreatDane #

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    I need to talk further with the new neuro guy. I have read many different reports on how long surgery would keep a person in the hospital. Anywhere from three days (girls would be fine) to 12 days (girls NOT fine). I am trying to jimmy something with a girl from work to possibly check the girls. SHE HATES LITTERBOXES, thank god the girls have a self cleaning box ($20 Ebay, best money spent EVER) and all she would have to do is pop out the container and pop in a new one. Feed the girls and change the water. Believe me, they won't want to "socialize" with anyone unless meowma is here. As for my family I had to realize years ago it was "their way or the highway". I took the highway, a long, long, long way away.....

    Posted 2 years ago by mollycat71 #

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    You're an amazing woman, MC! You have a great attitude... I could learn a good deal from you about that.

    Posted 2 years ago by 2 Popoki #

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    *just sighs and stares down at the keyboard upon reading about MC's family...shakes her head... glares at the description of how the incompetent idiots treated MC at the hospital... looks down and shakes her head again... closes her eyes and prays for MC .. sends Hugs, HUGS and more HUGS to MC along with lots of positive, healing energy*

    Posted 2 years ago by owlwatcher_974 #

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    What an exhausting day MC and upsetting. At least there was someone there who understood just what you needed. Sending {{{hugs}}} and Positive Vibes for you. You and the girls are your own family, with this odd collection(sorry folks, but it's true) of TDKers right there with you all the way.

    Posted 2 years ago by Moonshadow_NZ #

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    did i mention my hands, wrists, arms and insides of my arms are various shades of purple/black/blue from all the needle sticks?????? ouchie!

    Posted 2 years ago by mollycat71 #

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    MC - I have no doubt about that ! A nice glass of wine and 2 kitties should help.

    Posted 2 years ago by 2 Popoki #

46. 

    Sounds like you've been on Wrestlemania MC.

    Posted 2 years ago by Moonshadow_NZ #

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    ice packs will help the bruising, mc!

    lol, MS! hey wait, how would you know?! :p

    Posted 2 years ago by linda #

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    maybe HM will see me in the next WrestleMania she goes to! In the other corner MOLLYCAT! LOL

    Posted 2 years ago by mollycat71 #

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    My God, Amy, what a terrible day you have had! I am so sorry. Time for some warm milk or cocoa, put y our feet up, pop in a movie and curl up with the kitties.
    You will be in my prayers and thoughts that all this ends well and you will be free of pain and stress when all the tests and surgery is done. (((Mollycat)))

    Posted 2 years ago by rainingwolf #

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    MC...All I can say is once again...You are an amazing woman...I would be falling into pieces panicing...I will continue to pray for the Lords healing hands to stay wrapped around you...{{{Mollycat}}}

    Posted 2 years ago by 2bpurring #

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    2B, I know the prayers are working. I am not sure myself where the strength is coming from. It is definitely from a MUCH HIGHER source.

    Posted 2 years ago by mollycat71 #

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    wow what a horrible day !! good God !! i just expected you to have test come home and be done with it !! you have been through hell and back !! i am so glad that nurse gave you a hug , if anyone deserved one you sure did !!

    sounds like you are better off without your family , you don't need that on top of what you are going through. i send you hugs and lots of prayers, everything will turn out okay. i you are a awesome strong woman and you will get through this bump in the road and be feeling better and done with this.

    please keep us posted on your test results , they should be up by tommrow. please hug 2 kitties they are worried about you. they called lydia all in a tizzy worried about meowma... ((( HUG to Amy ))))

    Posted 2 years ago by beth #

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    my girls are really in a tizzy tonite. i think they are aware what is going on in their own little way

    Posted 2 years ago by mollycat71 #

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    Oh, MC, I am just reading this and I can scarcely believe it. What a horrible, horrible experience. {{{{{ALL the HUGS in the WORLD!!!}}}}} My thoughts about your original doctor are SO UNFLUFFY!

    We are all here, cyber-holding your hand and keeping you in our thoughts. Healing energy coming in abundance. We will get you through this. You are awesome. Keep saying to yourself, 'Kia kaha, kia kaha,' be strong, be strong.

    More {{{HUGS}}}

    Posted 2 years ago by jcat #

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    trust me, I have had a few UNFLUFFY thoughts myself the last few days. these DO include thoughts of the UNFLUFFY type toward my family because I will not get their support. I wish I could squish each one of you and your kits thru the wormhole and bring you here with me. I know I can't but darn it, I know you are "here" with me. Thank goodness I am going to a seminar on stress/anxiety reduction. Didn't realize how bad I would need it when I signed up for it.

    Posted 2 years ago by mollycat71 #

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    {{{{{{{{{{MOLLYCAT}}}}}}}}}}

    OMG. I am speechless about the so-called medical care, thank goodness for that nurse. I've had some bad MRIs w/ contrast, but good freaking grief that's awful. {{{{more hugs}}}}

    I'm sorry about your family, that's absolutely mind-boggling, but good for you for realizing that you're better off without them.

    I know it won't be easy to relax tonight, but please try to take care of yourself. I wish so hard that I were closer, I would be there right now cleaning out litterboxes and getting you ice packs for your owies.

    {{{{Mollycat}}}}

    Posted 2 years ago by Kilroy #

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    Kilroy how sweet! I say to heck with the litterboxes tonite, I could use someone here to sit on the couch with me and the girls (this a HUGE couch, I just realized that! lol) and watch tv/movie. I could use the company and to not be alone. Talk if I want, be quiet if I want.

    Posted 2 years ago by mollycat71 #

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    I'm in tears also reading about this dreadful ordeal of a day. MC, I know this is not the best time, but this neurologist...I don't know what to say...let me just leave it at: she does not appear to be a good advocate for you. If she is that concerned and knows how difficult this is for you, I know as a fact, that all it would take would be a phone call, for her to get a reading on the MRI right away.
    As for your family, wow, don't think they are quite deserving of you. How empty their lives must be...
    Anyway, you deserve a night of fluffy cuddles with your babies. Maybe something mindless to watch on TV. Can you get yourself something nice to eat, maybe a favorite treat?
    Please know that we are all on your side, praying and here for you whenever.
    Hugs.

    Posted 2 years ago by Tigerlilly #

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    I had thought of ice cream from baskin robbins on my way home but by the time i was finished being a pin cushion i was so nauseated that i didn't want to eat a thing. :(

    Posted 2 years ago by mollycat71 #

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    Of course Betty and Wilma know something is going on - cats ALWAYS know! I'm so sorry to hear about your lousy day. Take it easy and try to relax a little.

    How do you like the neurosurgeon? I can't even write here what I think about your first doctor - VERY UNFLUFFY.

    Posted 2 years ago by NNGM #

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