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   Dear TDK Family,

   I sent a group email today with a cute Easter picture and I have some how set of another cat fight. I am so sorry that I brought this on everyone. I just wanted to wish everyone a Happy Bunny Day, and send a picture that always makes me giggle. Again I am so sorry for what came afterward. Please forgive me. I won't send group mailings anymore unless I hear back from you that it is ok that I do. Just post here or you can email me at rn4restrn at yahoo dot com Have a great weekend everyone.

   Julie
   Daisy Mew

   Posted 11 months ago by daisy mew #

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   DM, I love it, and I love you! ((hugs)).... I'm glad to be included!

   Posted 11 months ago by AV #

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   Include me, too, DM, just make sure you have me as dallas1cat @ hotmail.com -- my catkinson @ wacotrib.com will be irrelevant in a few months!

   Posted 11 months ago by Cats4Cats #

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   Thanks guys, it has just been a long day and the to accidentally set off a cat fight has made it worse. I think I am just gonna crawl in bed with the kitties and cry for awhile.

   Posted 11 months ago by daisy mew #

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   Oh, don't cry! Then I'll want to cry!

   Posted 11 months ago by Cats4Cats #

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   Don't cry DM! You didn't mean to start a fight. you can still mail me

   Posted 11 months ago by ginirosaru #

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   DM, I truly appreciated the email, Thank You! I know all about just hiding and crying this week and sometimes it's the best thing to do. Please don't let one other person's unhappiness become your unhappiness - you did nothing wrong! {{{{DM}}}}

   Posted 11 months ago by KarenCentennial #

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   Don't cry DM,I liked the email you sent just not the bickering afterward.We just need to make sure that person's email is deleted from all emails.
   [[[Hugs]]]
   I actually had that Easter bunny picture printed up and on my fridge last year.:)

   Posted 11 months ago by Buttercup #

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   Don't let it upset you, Julie, just ignore it. I don't respond to any of the group emailings, although I do look at them and laugh when they're funny. Otherwise I just delete them and go about my business. There's no good reason to get into a flame war via email, especially about something so easy to deal with.

   KarenC, is there anything we can do for you? You seem very sad right now.

   Posted 11 months ago by CheetahBoysmommy #

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    [[[[Karen]]]]

    Posted 11 months ago by Buttercup #

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    {{{{grouphug}}}}

    Posted 11 months ago by Cats4Cats #

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    I got a real chuckle out of them Julie. I'm with cheetahboy's mommy on this one. (((((DaisyMew)))))

    Posted 11 months ago by Cat talk rules #

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    Thanks everyone! It's just one day at a time when you live 2000 miles from the people who are grieving with you. As SM will tell you, when a friend passes so young and so quickly from their illness, it hurts. Having TDK Family helps.

    Posted 11 months ago by KarenCentennial #

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    Please keep me on your list Julie! I enjoyed it and sent the bunnies on to friends I knew would enjoy it also, so thanks! Hugs to KarenC

    Posted 11 months ago by paulajeanne #

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    No apologies are necessary, DM. You happened to innocently send out an email that went to someone who has left TDK and has asked not to be emailed. That's why I don't send out mass emails to TDKers at all anymore, not since I traveled to Spain and was sending the Bob stories and some asked to not be emailed.

    Posted 11 months ago by Catwoman #

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    So sorry for your pain, Karen. Hi PJ. I just checked my email and all became clear--

    Posted 11 months ago by Cat talk rules #

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    Hi Sandi! Did you happen to catch my question for you a while back? I may, repeat may, be traveling out your way sometime between the middle of May and the 12th of June. Wanted to ask about the possiblity of a meetup?

    Posted 11 months ago by paulajeanne #

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    I didn't see it. I don't get on enough sometimes. I would love to meet you. That is an exciting possibility.

    Posted 11 months ago by Cat talk rules #

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    Julie, you sent an adorable Easter email meant to make all of us laugh. For my part, I can tell you that it worked. Please don't be distressed by what followed, which was truly unfortunate. Those emails SHOULD have gone to only the parties involved,and certainly not to the entire list. You prefaced your email with saying that you couldn't remember who had asked to be removed. That was all that you needed to do. The bunnies were too cute. It is sad that a "fight" was brought to the whole list. But that is not your making or your fault. Please don't feel badly or responsible. It is such a shame that we can't all be at least civil to each other.

    Hugs, Julie. The email was adorable!

    Posted 11 months ago by WillowandWindismom #

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    Good! Sometime by the end of the month I should know more of my plans. Especially whether I can make the trip or not. Major problem is what to do with Molly.

    Posted 11 months ago by paulajeanne #

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    That would be so exciting a Montana TDk meeting. I'm always jealous of others that get to meet. I hope you can make the trip, too bad most cats aren't good travelers. :)

    Posted 11 months ago by Cat talk rules #

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    Maundy Thursday service was very nice. Came home read email---wholly cr@#!!!! I have to go and light a few candles!

    Julie you didn't do a darn thing wrong! A simple request to the party involved would be the RESPECTFUL thing to do. I am sorry you feel you are at fault, you are not. I have to agree with Ale on this one--I do not need the name calling and insulting that was given. If you have a problem with someone grow a pair of balls (sorry for crassness!) and deal with them! There is no need to drag everyone else in.

    Julie please accept an apology--you deserve much better treatment. Thank you for the email.

    Karen you hit the nail on the head! Life is too flippin short people. I just buried a friend today. She was young. Her husband is lost. It all happened so very fast. Please love those around you while you can! In the words of my Father, "Smile and enjoy so your memories are pleasent and happy with as few regrets as possible. "

    Posted 11 months ago by SoxsMom #

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    Those are very wise words SM. [[[[Hugs for you too]]]]

    Posted 11 months ago by Buttercup #

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    Julie, Happy Easter to you also :)

    Posted 11 months ago by Tigerlilly #

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    Ignore the behavior of those too silly to be polite, and forgive them.

    As for mass e-mails, I am happy to be on the list. If I have time, I read every single e-mail very closely. If I don't, I don't. I've found it's a good idea never to turn away affection or love or concern from good people.

    As for some of the free-floating anger that comes from other individuals, I just don't think we have time to be mean-spirited toward each other. Life really is too short. A scant handful of time separates us from eternity.

    Let's make every effort to be nice to each other.

    After all, what else do we have?

    Love to all, and Easter blessings!
    Emma

    Posted 11 months ago by Emma #

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    hi....sometimes there are situations going on behind the curtain, and it gets set off without you even knowing it. i enjoyed the pics myself. so don't feel bad. actually, the best thing we ALL can do, is try to help those who need it. it's soooo easy to get angry.....and it's a human emotion, to be expected. BUT we have to learn how to solve our problems, deal with our anger, and whatever else might be going on in a conducive way. that's all. i find this alot myself, and admit, i often have my moments myself. yesterday i was angry at my mother because she made a comment that was a bit too loud about wether i had a bra on or not, and because she's hard of hearing, and seemed to be ignoring me, i had to scream at her for her to listen. there was a woman in in the cafeteria with us (we were at the college) who made it her point to rudely tell me to stop cursing. i told her to mind her own *** business and go back to cheating on her husband with her laptop. i was also angry because an ex friend of mine and some other dirty fools were having a flrit fest at the table next to us, making comments about dirty slumber parties and see thru lingerie. now, i know i could have handle the situation better, but i was angry myself and let it get the best of me. we have to figure out how deal with these situations in ways that will cause as little disturbance as possible....and find joy and help others as much as possible. we here at TDK are pros at sharing the fuzzy feelings, and im sure if we put our heads together instead of biting them off, we can help each other through our problems! and i love you all...i don't have any hard feelings toward anyone here, nor do i have a bias. i just want to see us all happy and enjoying as we should be. :)

    Posted 11 months ago by Nirmal #

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    i personally don't always get to save the emails that get sent, but i save them to read when i need soemthing to brigthne me up. like a wish box or laugh box when you need it. i agree......the fights here - as big as they may seem to some, really are very trivial compared to other things that go on.....and frankly, both those trivial fights, trival issues AND the big ones could be solved with some cooperation, effort, and constructive thinkings. that's why we have so much distruction in the world today...because we have so much anger, hatred, and other such stuff, and so little will to fight it. we let those inner monsters eat our butts off, when we could battle them and win with the right mindset and a plan. there r 2 kinds people on this site - the trolls who come by (those r the bad ppl) and the rest of us. (and even if we don't always get along, we all have our strengths and weaknesses.) we have to be there to support the weak when they need it, and help everyone. i have found so much here, such a warm, loving, accepting gang of the best of the net in one little place. let's keep that going, nah?! :)

    Posted 11 months ago by Nirmal #

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    Julie...I would love to continue to be included in your emailings. They've been great! And you have no reason to blame yourself for what erupted.

    BTW...the accusations of harrassment are a total fabrication.

    Posted 11 months ago by feral #

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    @catwoman - i miss those bob stories!

    Posted 11 months ago by Nirmal #

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    Hey All! I haven't had internet or a phone since about 3am last night! And I come home to such rudeness and uncalled for slandering and well drama! I know for a fact when petpainter requested her email removed I did! Then she and I had a few moments of mud sling through personal emails and here! And now that stain ahs popped back up into my life! I have been more peaceful and content since i backed out from TDK getting myself in order! I am not pleased at all to be recieving such drama, and chaos! And then to have my friends personally attacked had me seeing red! I almost emailed Petpainter back but I decided to make my wish known here!

    Please do one of the following for me!
    1) remove me from you email contacts
    2) REMOVE PETPAINTER !!!!!!!
    3) remove me only from your tdk group mass email contact
    4) remove her from it!

    I love getting the emails but I refuse to allow that sort of drama, and rancor back into my life! Outside my door is a sign drama, stupidity, unkindness and rudeness can take a flying leap cuase this house ain't accepting any more shit!

    Julie I am sorry this backlashed on you! I would love to continue to recieve emails so long as she is not int he mass email!

    Thanks you all respectfully,
    Ange

    Posted 11 months ago by Momma to 2 MaineCoons #

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