Hi HM. I have been thinking about you this week. I hope that you are doing well. I have been praying for you and your family to help you get thru this. I know what you are going thru as we are coming up on the 9th anniversary of my dad's passing. I am sure you are busy right now but please just pop by and let us know how you are if you can. I hope the boys are providing you comfort during this difficult time. The whole TDK family here misses you and will be here for you when you come back and anytime you need us. Sending hugs and prayers your way! (((((HM)))))
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Huddysmama?
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Posted 7 months ago by mollycat71 #
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I've been thinking of you as well, and wishing you peace and comfort. Love Mama Lynn
Posted 7 months ago by Lynn from PA 6/8 #
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(((HM))) You are much loved and we are thinking of you and hoping you have peace.
Posted 7 months ago by cricketsmama #
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{{{{{Karen}}}}}}
Posted 7 months ago by tinafishfrombirthplaceofElvis #
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HM is at the wake tonight with the funeral to follow tomorrow. HM, my friend, you know that you are in our hearts at this difficult time:
http://www.legacy.com/houstonchronicle/DeathNotices.asp?Page=LifeStory&PersonID=126232767
Bosley is also thinking of you at this difficult time---just keep looking at the picture he sent you to keep you company. . .
I wish I could make your pain go away, my friend. Whatever you need, please let me know.
Posted 7 months ago by FondaHonda #
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Posted 7 months ago by mollycat71 #
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Sending love and prayers to you, HM. I am sorry for your loss.
Posted 7 months ago by rainingwolf 6/15 #
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HM, my prayers are with you and your family today. (((HUGS)))
Posted 7 months ago by BoogerMercurysMama #
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bump! how are you HM?!?
Posted 7 months ago by mollycat71 #
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HM said she wouldn't be back until Monday, on the original post telling us about her loss.
Thinking of you HM.
Posted 7 months ago by Pollys_Mum_in_UK_2605 #
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My condolences on your loss, HM. You are in my prayers.
Posted 7 months ago by GizzysAuntie #
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HM, where are you friend? NOW I am worried about you! Your family here misses you, please let us know how you are! :D ((hugs))
Posted 7 months ago by mollycat71 #
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Some more {{{hugs}}} from over here - hope you're taking good care of yourself.
Posted 7 months ago by MadcatwomanintheUK #
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Hi guys! ((group hug))
I'm still at work - I have SO much to do. I still wasn't really caught up from when I was sick last time, so at least my days pass quickly.
I've really missed everyone, and hopefully I'll be able to spend more time on here as I catch up and things slow down for the summer (it's notoriously slow here in the summer because of all the travel - most managers aren't even in the office, which is good).
The service for my dad was beautiful, he had so many people who loved him. I don't like going home because I know he won't be calling me any more. It makes my evenings a little less happy. :(
I haven't had my 'big cry' yet. I was so busy consoling everybody else (like always) that I sort of had to push all my feelings aside. I'm sure when the time is right I'll be a wreck, but just coming to work and keeping busy is a blessing.
I was at Dad's all last week and without a computer. Fink stayed with the kitties (Maverick is still mad at me).
But I must tell you guys a story that made me bust out laughing:
Sunday night, my first night back home, I fried myself a pork chop and shared with Huddy and Rocky. Huddy wasn't satisfied and kept on begging. I said to him "No more." I didn't even get my last word out when he stood on his hind legs, put his front paw on my beer glass and pulled it over. My last beer too. Then he ran away so I couldn't yell at him. I laughed so hard and it still makes me smile now to think about it. I need all the smiles I can get right about now.
I want to take this time to let everybody know how much I appreciate the prayers, cards, hugs and kind comforting words during this really trying time. I know my dad had been sick for a long time and he was tired, but I still miss him. Even a sick dad is better than no dad. I'm an orphan now. Who will guide me and help me find my way??
Saturday morning (the day after the funeral) it started pouring. I mean it was raining so hard you couldn't see anything at all. I told my family, "The rain is Mom's tears of joy because Daddy is with her again."
But it kept on raining and pretty soon, the whole intersection had flooded. Monique said: "Wow, Granny must REALLY be happy!!!"
Laughter really is the best medicine for me right now. Again, I want to thank all of you - you guys have been a comfort, as always.
I'll try to write more if I get on the computer tonight - but right now I have some attendance records to complete.
Take care and Much Love,
HM
Posted 7 months ago by HuddysMama #
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So good to hear from you HM. Yes, I understand completely what you are going through. It was at least 2 months after my Mom passed that I had my big cry. She hasn't been gone a year yet - not looking forward to Mother's Day this year.
Super Big Hugs HM !!!! Luv ya !!!
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{{{{{HM!}}}}} you are such a wonderful person!.... blessings and peace, and may you find God's comfort!...... your three kits are "little angels" of love, and I hope you find time to find solace in their unconditional love!.....
Posted 7 months ago by AbbigaleViolet #
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Aw, HM, I do understand. Take your time, we are always here for you. I am glad you can look on things and smile when you think of dad! He looked like a wonderful man, a really good guy! We will always miss our parents, seems so empty in the world without them. I know there will be hard days ahead but I think your boys will keep you in check for the time being. Cats just have a way of knowing what to do to make us feel better. Hang in there friend, lots of hugs your way! ((((HM))))
Posted 7 months ago by mollycat71 #
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Hello, HM, I am glad to see your post. We understand the time it takes. I loved your story about the pork chop and the beer. Sounds like a similar situation that would have happened in my home. I, too, am an orphan. Having lost the last of my parents 3 years ago. I don't know what to say to make it easier for you, but know that is does get easier with time. You will find your way. Your family will do that. If it weren't for the grandkids, I don't know how I would have survived. They show renewed hope that life goes on and we can only show our best to them and our children to leave the legacy behind as our parents did before us. I wish you peace, a good nights sleep, more beer and more pork!!! (makes note to send bacon to HM) And fire up the BBQ, when she is ready!! Love ya, and take good care, Mama Lynn
Posted 7 months ago by Lynn from PA 6/8 #
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I wish I could tell you that you'll get over losing your dad. But you don't - you will always miss him. However, in time, remembering becomes less painful and more joyful. In several years you'll find that you are thinking of him as though he was just off traveling somewhere. It does get better, it just takes time.
Posted 7 months ago by CheetahBoysmommy #
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