HM, I just want you to know that I am sorry for the loss of your father. I understand that even though he was sick at least he was physically there. Now that he has passed on, it is hard to get one's mind around the fact that he is no longer here with you. Just know he is with you now in spirit. I am so sorry I didn't send this to you earlier. I haven't been on TDK much and am very sorry that I didn't at least send you a card. I am truly sorry for that. Sending you many hugs of condolences. Sylvester and Mia send you headbonks and purrs.
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Huddysmama?
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Posted 2 years ago by SylMiaFelixMomma #
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Thanks, sweetie. Don't worry, it's the thought that counts and since you thought about me at all, that means quite a bit to me. It's been 2 weeks today and I keep waiting to just break down, but I don't know if that's going to happen. I was the same way when my mom died and they wound up putting me in the hospital for 3 weeks. Hopefully I've learned better coping skills since then. :)
I just feel like if I start to cry, I'll never stop. So I don't cry.
((TDK))
Posted 2 years ago by HuddysMama #
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My sincere condolences to you HM.
Posted 2 years ago by JoanfromNewJersey #
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Thanks, you guys. You are all so sweet and kind.
Last night I kept picturing my dad playing with Andy the tail-less wonder at the bridge. He was not a cat-lover, but for some reason, every bob-tailed cat I've had (there have been 3) he took a shine too. He just loved Huddy.
Posted 2 years ago by HuddysMama #
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{{{HM}}} Take great care my friend. The boys will be a god send for you now. Cat fur makes wonderful tear catchers. Milo will be pleased to hear that you are slowly on the mend so he can come and visit his Texas family again. :)
Posted 2 years ago by debsterwiz #
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HM, glad you are back on the list. Don't be afraid to break down and have that massive cry. When I lost my big sister, I felt like there weren't enough tears in the world that I could cry to make up for the loss of someone I loved so much. I felt like I was going to break into pieces. There aren't enough tears and I still cry for her. Letting them come spilling out helps though.
Just go ahead and get a box of tissues, grab a cat or two and cry and when you can, start talking...even if just to the cats. Talk about the good times, the pain of his illness and the impact he had on your life. Minister to yourself the way you have ministered to others this week. Your eyes will feel like sand paper, your head will hurt and your throat will be raw. Later, when you have had some aspirin, something soothing to drink and some eyedrops you will feel better.
Love you bunches, wish you peace and sending you hugs
Posted 2 years ago by KYKAT 12 23 #
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{{{{{Karen}}}}}
Posted 2 years ago by tinafishfrombirthplaceofElvis #
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HM, so great to see you popping in and saying hello! My, how we MISS YOU! You know you are such a valuable member of our family! Please give those boys of yours extra squeezes from me! Please take time to cry, I know I didn't when my dad did and when it happened, I too, almost was hospitalized. It is so hard, I understand! I think your dad and my dad are playing with the kitties at the bridge! They are good guardian angels for all our kits that have gone before us and we long for! No worries, they are in good hands! I continue to pray for you each and every single day! ((((HM))))
Posted 2 years ago by mollycat71 #
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Hi friend, been thinking about you and praying for you. How are you doing? Are you getting along ok? ((HM)) Hug those precious boys!
Posted 2 years ago by mollycat71 #
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I'm doing really well considering. I'm still doing the whole this time last (insert day, date, year, whatever) he was still alive. Hopefully I will stop doing that soon and I'll be able to get on with my life.
I loved my father very much and I have such a hole in my life now. I guess we were closer than I thought. I miss talking to him - I call his answering machine to hear his voice.
As long as I'm busy doing stuff I'm ok, so I stay very busy.
Thanks you guys for asking, wondering and praying about and for me.
Posted 2 years ago by HuddysMama #
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HM - I understand. I am still dealing with the 'firsts'. My first birthday without my mom, earlier this month, was horrible. Mother's Day is coming up and it's going to be really hard... followed shortly after that by the one year anniversary of her passing. She was my rock... and I miss her terribly.
{{{HuddysMama}}}
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