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Don't want to put my kitten to sleep... Any advice?

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  1. Yuffie is very small and doesn't eat a lot for her age, she was fine when we got her but caught a cold and then went downhill, she was given anti-bios and perked up again.
    She then caught a cold again and we repeated, she reacted the same.

    But now she's 3 months and 800g, wereas our other kitten, Kupo, is the same age and 1.5kg. The vet injected her with fluids because she was dehydrated gave us KRM to give her 5 times a day through a syringe and water 5 times a day.

    We took her the vets Tuesday and she suspects a liver problem, where her liver isn't developed properly( I think she meant a shunt), as she has a HUGE tummy which she thinks is all fluids, shakes now and again after she eats, sleeps all day and doesn't play much, the vet did blood tests of her liver, a liver index and an antibody, and suggested putting her down rather than struggling to keep her going and possibly exhausting her and our finances if she does have the liver problem she thinks.

    Right now I'm feeding her whiskers kitten food until she won't eat any more, than gourmet adult cat food until she won't eat any more of that. She's sleeping all day and isn't walking too far, but perks up after a little bit of water, not too much though. She urinated herself yesterday twice but hasn't since and hasn't done that before, and has really sloppy poo's, despite giving her 1 notch of Pro Kolin twice a day.

    I'm going to ask the vet today if I can try her on anti bios for a week to see if it has any effect.

    We're waiting for the results now, but I was wondering: If a kitten has a bad liver, is there ANY hope at all? I can't bare to think of not having her here.

    And if (God forbid) she does need to be let go, should I take Kupo to watch, will it help her with grieving if she knows where Yuffie is? If I should take her, should I let her sniff her or anything? I don't know how cats recognise another has passed away.
    And should I consider another kitten? I feel disrespectful to Yuffie even thinking about it, like I'd be replacing her, but noone could replace her, she's my baby, I'll always remember every morning when I woke up with her next to my face with her silent meows, and her quirky little mannerisms.

    But Kupo was always going to be an indoor kitten who I'll take out in the back garden when she's finished her injections, so is it fair to leave her alone in the house at times when my partner and I are working? I still have to think of her, too.
    She took to Yuffie after about a week, Kupo had been here 2 weeks when I introduced Yuffie, and it took her about a week or two to warm to the idea, but she loves her to bits now.

    Thanks a lot for reading.
    Joanne.

    Posted 2 years ago by Jo #

  2. Jo, I am so very sorry for what you are going through....it is never easy, and heartbreaking for sure....as far as getting another kitten, please don't feel like you would be disrespecting Yuffie....no other kitt could replace her in your heart, but there are alot of kittens out there who you could love and that need your love. Everytime I would lose a beloved cat, I found some comfort thinking that they had to go so another could enter into my life. Sort of like they left to make 'room' for another.....I am sending that magic TDK white light to you and Yuffie. {{{Jo}}}

    Posted 2 years ago by katthays #

  3. Hi Kat,
    I discussed with my partner if she does go, how I'd like to adopt one from a shelter to give them a chance like I tried to with Yuffie, sort of in her memory rather than against her. It's just hard to keep thinking like that when emotions are running so high.

    And I still have Kupo to be looking out for the best interests for, so perhaps a friend for her after she has had a grievance period will help her.

    Thanks so much for your support.

    Posted 2 years ago by Jo #

  4. Jo - a new kitten is not a negative against Yuffie, but as you said, in honor of her... have you heard about the rainbow bridge? http://rainbowsbridge.com/Poem.htm You will see it mentioned on TDK often... it helps! Remember, whatever you decide you have people here to supprt you!

    Posted 2 years ago by nawlins catmom #

  5. Awww, I am so sorry for Yuffie. If the worst must happen, I have been told it helps the one left behind to sniff the body so they know what happened, rather than walk around the house looking for their missing buddy. I experienced the difference when my Missy had a stroke and died at home in the middle of the night next to my bed. Sheba sniffed her several times before I removed her to be cremated and seemed more able to deal with her loss than others passed who didn't have the experience. I will be praying for all of you. And another kitten would be an HONOR to Yuffie's memory.

    Posted 2 years ago by Sheba's Mom in Phoenix, AZ 10/8 #

  6. Poor little darling, it doesn't seem right that such a baby should have to go through all this. You will know if her quality of life is wearing her down. I'm thinking of Yuffie and you, both, and hoping so much that she will pull through - you just never know. White light coming her way.

    Posted 2 years ago by eleniki #

  7. Thanks Catmom, just checked out that link. :)
    Sheba's mom, yeah, I read it might help. I just want to make it easy for her too if it has to happen. I couldn't bare to see either of them in emotional or physical pain.
    I know, Eleniki, it's what breaks my heart, she's so small and just caring and loving, she doesn't have a bad bone in her body.

    I've been researching into toxoplasmosis in cats, and it seems it could be a possiblity? It causes problems in lungs and liver, and she's been breathing faster the past day or so. All the symptoms are there and it's treatable. Does anyone have any experience in this?

    I took her the vets again today as she seemed in a really bad way, so lethargic and struggling. She had white gums and needed an injection of fluids and has been given anti bios again. She perked up a little afterwards, so some of the problem must of been that, but the fluid build up in her abdomen is due to something... Fingers crossed it's not FIV or liver problems.

    Thanks again everyone. :)

    Posted 2 years ago by Jo #

  8. My mom had an FIV cat live to be 15 years old. Please know that it isn't always the end. You are certainly in my prayers and I hope that the vet is able to help you. The white gums is a wicked sign. I have had 2 FeLV cats and that happened to them right before the end. I am so sorry you are going through this--please know that you have support here no matter what the outcome.

    Posted 2 years ago by SoxsMom #

  9. Thanks Sox,
    Yuffie seems a lot worse today, she's sleeping on the bed (about 6 inches from the floor) with her cat bed next to it for her to jump onto and cushion her fall. She struggles to get off even like that, but insists on sleeping on the bed, so I just have to lift her off when I notice her trying to jump down.
    We have wooden flooring and her legs and slipping to the sides a little when she stands with the weight of her abdomen.
    She's urinating herself a lot more today on the bed, but has tried to get to the litter box still to poo, but toppled over trying to climb into it. It's so sad to watch, but there's nothing I can do to help her but carry her everywhere and carry on with her fluids.

    If I don't give her fluids she gets dehydrated, if I do, she's in this state. It's a catch 22, feels like I'm useless to her. She has no quality of life this way though, so I know the right thing to do if the blood tests do indicate a problem, it's just so hard to give up without trying any harder.

    Posted 2 years ago by Jo #

  10. Hi everyone,
    at 12pm (around 6 hours ago), Yuffie started toppling to the side when she walked, and her eyes were closing over. I took her straight to the vet and they hospitalised her while they chased up the results.
    They then called me at around 3pm, told me that Yuffie's tests had shown she did have a liver problem, the only way to find out what sort of liver problem was to do a biopsy, which she 99.9% wouldn't survive due to her size, the only other option was letting her go to the other side.

    My partner and I took up some of her favourite kitty food and her toy mouse, and Kupo. She was brought to us wrapped in a blanket, twitching, freezing and shaking. I asked the vet about the twitching and it was due to the toxins reaching her brain. She couldn't move at all at this point. We cuddled her close, fed her and snuggled her mouse and sister Kupo up to her.

    We then decided to let her pass through. The vet shaved her arm, worried about if her vain would be big enough to inject into. If not she would have to be injected into the heart after been given gas and air.
    Her vain was fine, she lolled her head to the side and we stroked her, she jumped a little as we touched her, aknowledging us, then passed through peacefully.

    We did the only thing possible, there was no what ifs? I feel relieved more than I do upset. I'm happy I could put her out of her pain and I kept her going for as long as I could of without it being cruel to her.
    She let me know she wanted to go, and she did it when the liver results came, so I couldn't question if I'd tried harder.

    R.I.P Yuffie.

    Posted 2 years ago by Jo #

  11. RIP Yuffie...So sorry for your loss, but you did what was best.

    Posted 2 years ago by 2bpurring #

  12. Jo you have my heartfelt condolences in losing sweet Yuffie. No matter how young or old they are we hurt so terribly at losing each and every one of them. God's Angels embrace her for you now and she's purring purrfectly. {{{Hugs}}} I hope you'll consider getting a new kitten in the future as there are so many in need of the beautiful love and care you gave to Yuffie. =)

    Posted 2 years ago by Karenopa #

  13. I'm so sorry Jo...

    Posted 2 years ago by 2 Popoki #

  14. Jo, I am sorry for your loss of Yuffie. God surely has a special place for His precious creatures. Bless you for all your love for Yuffie and loving efforts on her behalf.

    Posted 2 years ago by Marnet #

  15. Jo - so sorry it had to end this way, but she is no longer in pain, rather running free and happy in the meadows by the Bridge, with all of our babies that have gone before! You gave her a great home for the time she had here - and will honor her mamory when you decide it is time to adopt another furbaby in need. RIP, Yuffie. {{{Jo, and Kupo and Partner}}}

    Posted 2 years ago by nawlins catmom #

  16. Thanks so much everyone, it's really helped me visiting here.
    It's a bit hard realising she's actually gone, but we chose to have her cremated privately and the ashes kept in an urn with engraving on the top. We're going to put it on the window sill next to the bed where she used to love sitting in the sun, but Kupo sometimes bullied her off! Next to a picture of her. :)

    When the initial grieving is gone I know I will definately adopt one in need, and I know Yuffie will help me decide who to choose.

    Posted 2 years ago by Jo #

  17. In tears here reading about little angel Yuffie - makes you ask hard questions like why should a tiny creature suffer like that during her short life. No question that you did the kindest thing possible, and she knew it. She is indeed sleeping peacefully now, and her spirit will come back in a healthy and happy body - that is what I believe. I'm so glad there are people like you out there Jo, who love animals, care for them and respect them. There are few enough of us in this vast world. We're all thinking of you as you grieve for little Yuffie.

    Posted 2 years ago by eleniki #

  18. Blinking back tears as I read this. So sorry that Yuffie has gone to the Bridge, but she knows you did everything you could for her and now is at peace and out of pain and distress. {{{Jo, partner, Yuffie and Kupo}}}

    Posted 2 years ago by GizzysAuntie #

  19. Poor little Yuffie. Thank you for being so kind to her, trying so hard, and letting her go when she needed to. So hard I know, Bless you.

    Posted 2 years ago by DancingCatHill #

  20. I am so very sorry. I had hoped she would rebound. I guess it wasn't meant to be this time. You did the kindest, yet most difficult thing ever. I wish there was something I could say that would ease your pain. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers.

    Posted 2 years ago by SoxsMom #


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