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Fallen Apart- Daisy Mew

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  • Started 3 years ago by daisy mew
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  1. *Dear Lord, you know that DM is a good person. May she sleep soundly tonight and awaken with a fresh mind and a bit of energy and lots of TDK white light to guide her through this difficult time.*
    DM, please don't wander far from here, you are greatly loved and your heart shines through the ciber miles. Sleep tight
    PS: be sure to let me know when you run out of bubbles :)

    Posted 3 years ago by Tigerlilly #

  2. Stay strong, Julie. You can do this. Please e-mail OH to learn what her naval officer friend told her. If you can't post here then e-mail us. You have a whole team here waiting to help you, but you have to stay in touch. This could end up being an adventure for you and the boys. A cross country road trip is a good way to "vacation." I know it doesn't feel at all like a vacation and you are scared, but you can do this with the help of your littermates and your soon-to-be-ex's commander. You are nobody's doormat!!

    {{{hugs}}}

    Posted 3 years ago by Kitten Whisperer #

  3. DM, I am moving soon and will be getting rid of a lot of very nice household stuff in order to downsize. I know inheriting other people's used "stuff" isn't ideal...but if you need housewares when you get where you're going, let me ship you some things, please. I have duplicate dishes, silverware, cookware. I've been trying to decide what to do with it. I kept feeling like someone needed it, I just didn't know yet who it was. You may already have everything you need in that area. But if you don't, I would love to share. I know you'd rather have $$ and if I had a spare dime, I'd send it.

    Posted 3 years ago by lisaeylau #

  4. Julie, make sure that you keep in contact with this site, and DO NOT go MIA. You need help, and we mean to help you.

    Please review the options/suggestions that have been pouring in, and know that we are willing to give you assistance in this whole thing.

    And God and the Navy and yes, TDK, will all be handling your soon to be ex. You're going to be OK.

    Posted 3 years ago by Emma #

  5. Emma, it's time for you to go to bed!!!!

    Posted 3 years ago by lisaeylau #

  6. Not yet! *kicks coverlet and whines*

    I was off to several adventures today and this is the first I've been on TDK today. Any threads to review?

    Posted 3 years ago by Emma #

  7. *says a prayer for DM*

    Posted 3 years ago by owlwatcher_974 #

  8. Okay, well, don't blame me when you can't get up for school in the morning!

    Posted 3 years ago by lisaeylau #

  9. I'm off tomorrow -- today was the Feast of the Ascension so the office was closed, and for the rest of the weekend I will have fun fun (yawn) fun (yawn)...

    'Kay, I'll go to bed.

    Night night all, and Julie, Lisa, OW, TL, KW, WWM, all of you -- you are in my constant prayers!

    Much love,
    Emma

    Posted 3 years ago by Emma #

  10. This so Steams me and I admit i am thinking and whispering very very unfluffy thoughts about his ex of yorus DM! I hope he get's nailed big time to the wall like a giant fly!

    Don't give up fight for what's yours and your kids needs and follow through with all advice and help! He cna not get away with this unless you let him! And you and your boys need to get help to make a new life!

    Posted 3 years ago by Momma to 2 MaineCoons #

  11. I am so sorry Julie..i wish there are more i could do ((hugs)))

    Posted 3 years ago by Hizlilbrat #

  12. Morning everyone. Woke up about 6 am to get the kids ready for school and start my day. Trying to stay pawsitive. :) Going to go room to room and make 2 piles of NEED and DON"T NEED! So far from my room it is family pictures and my computer in the need pile, everything else is replaceable. Thank you for all the love and support and prayers. Goodness knows they helped me fall asleep last night with no bad dreams. I am going to start on with my day.

    Posted 3 years ago by daisy mew #

  13. DM, you still amaze me. With everything going on you sent me a stone. I was not expecting one since I was not in need of one, but I love it. I showed it to the kits and each one kissed it and filled it with more love. I almost feel the need to send it back so you can have it...you need it more than I. I Will keep it for now, but know that many people have been touched by you and that karma always finds a way of working things out. (Not my baby Karma but, you know, karma...)

    Posted 3 years ago by Alicia #

  14. Julie, you are a wonderful strong human being who is really being put to the test right now. I also received my stone yesterday and was so touched..I am keeping it in my purse to keep the TDK love with me in my travels. Thank you so much.
    Now...take up Lisa's offer to ship those extras to you at your new place...that is wonderful...it's a start. Trust me, we will help you when and where we can my friend. You are not alone...we can't be there physically but we can help in other ways.

    Posted 3 years ago by cricketsmama #

  15. {{DM}} Hang in there sweetie. You have been given great advice. Prayers bigtime for Daisy.

    Posted 3 years ago by SammyandOliversmama #

  16. Good Morning Julie...glad you got a good nites sleep. I can only echo what CM just told you. Stay strong!!

    Posted 3 years ago by 2bpurring #

  17. Julie, so sorry to hear what you are going through. Especially after all you've done for others. Do you know when you're able to be heading out? I could send some gas money to help or for food along the way. And of course, I can send lots and lots of prayers and white light for your safe journey and for your situation.

    Posted 3 years ago by LadyKat of IA #

  18. LOL...I love your new motto...it will get you through the challenges up ahead!!

    Posted 3 years ago by 2bpurring #

  19. Just ran to Wal Mart and returned all the bins I had bought to pack my stuff with and a few things around the house I never use. Ran into the crazy neighbor and she asked me what was up. Filled her in and told her I was on the way to the pawn shop. Well, she bought my I Pod and said when I leave she will give it back to me as a gift. That was nice. The pawn shop was closed so I will go back later. Back to the grind or sorting NEED and DON"T NEED! LOL! Had a HARD time not buying M&M's to make me feel better, but I stayed strong. The silly candy kept calling my name so loudly though. :)

    Posted 3 years ago by daisy mew #

  20. Love the LOL cat. Poor kitty. It is good you can still smile, DM. Sending you lots of hugs. Let me know if I can help as I am good with searching the internet for info. Hopefully Opahall can put you in touch with someone in the Navy who can help you with putting you ex in his place.

    Posted 3 years ago by SylMiaFelixsMomma #

  21. That LOL cat is too funny. If looks could kill...

    DM I really need to get rid of some junk too - you have inspired me to go home and start making my own "Need" and "Don't Need" piles. I have come to the realization that I am a terrible pack rat.

    Posted 3 years ago by NNGM #

  22. Hey Daisy Mew...my friend's hubby said that this is not how the Navy works! and that you deserve to be treated with repect and that HE has an obligation to you and he needs to follow through.... even with a divorce...the reason he wants you to sign the papers is so that you can't touch his retirement and pension and have access to heath care...that is why he is being a turkey.... my friend, Molly said that as a navy wife should would like to help you because you are in a special sisterhood and even though she has never met you, she and her husband want to help you, and guide you. Her hubby has had to deal with this sitch before and knows ow to guide you...<3 and let me know...

    Posted 3 years ago by opahall #

  23. DM - can you sned me a snail mail address for you? I am not on the Christmas list, not do I have it. I want to send you a little somthing... my emial is shassig at tulane dot edu.

    Posted 3 years ago by nawlins catmom #

  24. Hahahah! I love the picture....Made me laugh out loud! Great new motto Julie! We've done this before and will make it all the way through to the end. KW is right....this will be one of the BEST summer adventures for you and the boys ever!!! Let the boys help as much as they're able....the life lessons in working as a family unit are very powerful! XOXOXO =)

    Oh...and I'll take any uneaten m & m's you want to get rid of! LOL! =O

    Posted 3 years ago by Karenopa #

  25. Opahall, how wonderful of you and friends for offering to help DM through this. DM please accept the help that has been offered, you need it and I think they may be able to take a lot of your burdens and worries from you and your boys..

    Posted 3 years ago by 2bpurring #

  26. Before pawning give us a list and maybe we could have an auction...What do you guys think...?

    Posted 3 years ago by Alicia #

  27. I thought so too, WWM.

    Posted 3 years ago by Dee #

  28. Good idea Alicia.

    Posted 3 years ago by Buttercup #

  29. Julie - I sent you an email! I have a friend in Boise who will meet with you, buy you a soda and fill you in on schools, neighborhoods, etc. He has lived there with his family for just over 9 years. I have more questions for you in the email....

    Posted 3 years ago by 2 Popoki #


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