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MCW : Mum & Bones Update

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  • Started 2 years ago by MadcatwomanintheUK
  • Latest reply from MadcatwomanintheUK
  1. If you were around on the end of the nightshift or in the cafe earlier on, you'll know I was very worried about Bones this morning.

    For those of you who don't know, Bones is my Mum's cat, who lives with us since Mum was very ill a couple of years back. She now lives in a residential home, and Bones has stayed with us. He's 20 now, very tottery and frail. Well this lunchtime he tried to use his tray (semi successfully but easy to clean up)but after all his straining his back legs went very weak and wobbly.

    Well, I called into the vets on my way to pick up Mum for some medical appointments, and he's advised me to up the dosage of his feline laxative, as it may well have been just the strainign that made him lose control of his legs. But - we are in the final stage now, it could be weeks, but it's unlikely to be months. Mum at the moment is quite stoical about it, but I know it will hit her very hard.

    Now a quick update on Mum, which has me more than a little alarmed. One of her appointments this afternoon was at the opticians, and on examining the back of her eyes, noticed that she's had a small bleed behind her right eye. He asked if there's a family history of strokes, which there isn't, except her father did suffer from several TIA's (I can't spell the actual name!). And then I learn that her INR count (she's on warfarin) measured just yesterday had dipped down a bit (the lower the count, the higher the risk of a clot - and clots can cause strokes). The upshot of all this is a further appointment with the optician next week for some more tests on her eye pressure (which is also up) and then he'll write to her doctor - who we have an appointment with in 3 weeks time.

    And finally a quick update on me! - anyone remember me going on about hot flushes? Well, I got the results of my blood tests today, and hurrah! - my hormone levels are perfectly normal, so no early menopause for me! :o) The source of the hot flushes is now most likely all this nerve trouble in my neck - and there have been less of them since I started taking the neural pain blockers. MRI scan in 9 days!

    Phew! What a long post. Sorry, hope I've not bored anyone to sleep!

    Posted 2 years ago by MadcatwomanintheUK #

  2. {{MCW}} Sending white light and prayes to you and Mum.

    Posted 2 years ago by SammyandOliversmama #

  3. Not bored at all! I am sorry to hear about Bones. He sure has had a good life and created wonderful memories. My prayer is that as long as he isn't in pain that those weeks can stretch on for some time.

    Really sorry to hear about your Mum. Transient ischemic attack is the whole name--I have been up close and personal with them. I am very thankful that your Mum had this appointment and the problem was found. Now they can follow up and hopefully fix the problem before it gets more serious. Prayers of strength and healing to your Mum.

    Prayers that the MRI goes well. Hurrah for no early case of menopause! Who would think to celebrate that? Anyone who has ever had a hot flash!!! Hope that this gets taken care of quickly!

    Posted 2 years ago by SoxsMom #

  4. Not bored at all, MCW, glad you got good results of your tests, and I hope they can figure out what's up with your mum. I'm sorry about Bones, it sounds like he's been a good cat for many years.

    {{MCW, Mum and Bones}}

    Posted 2 years ago by Kilroy #

  5. MCW I am sorry about Bones. Love him like you always do until his final moments. Precious soul that he is.
    I hope they can help your Mum. My mom also had TIA's. Quite a few of them to be exact. Scary things they can be.
    Glad you are doing better!! (((MCW, Bones and Mum))

    Posted 2 years ago by cricketsmama #

  6. Hugs for {{{Bones}}} & [{{Mum}}}. sending White Light for both situations to be sorted out successfully.
    Hooray! ! Lets celebrate no hot flushes. Some good news MCW.

    Posted 2 years ago by Moonshadow_NZ #

  7. MCW, I am not bored at all as we are all very interested in the care of our fellow TDKers, their families and of course their furry friends.

    I hope the upping of the laxative helps Bones as well so that he isn't in any discomfort or pain in his final weeks or more. As we all know, as long as the quality of life is good, then we know our furry friend is doing okay. Hopefully you can find some time to spend with Bones to give him some small comforting. He has had a nice long life and that is something to think about while in the final phase of his life.

    Hope the doctor can figure out what is happening to your Mum. Sending some white light that he can help her fix the health issue.

    MCW, glad to hear you aren't going into early menopause. As others have said, nothing like a "personal summer" to ruin your day.

    Posted 2 years ago by SylMiaFelixMomma #

  8. Glad you updated us MCW! Sorry to hear of Bones condition. I pray that he will give you many more days and weeks of love! May he not suffer in his final days. I am sending healing white light and energy to your mum. I pray she will have everything taken care of and avert a stroke (CVA-just some more initials for you!). As for YOU, con-cats on not being in menopaws! My GYN thought I was back two years ago (36) and I knew I was too young! Was having problems with my body temp because of the problem with my brain (though we didn't know it then but do now!). Keeping you all in my thoughts and prayers!

    Posted 2 years ago by mollycat71 #

  9. Not boring at all.
    So sorry to hear about Bones...you just never know, his time has not come yet. Love him and enjoy every day.
    My best to your Mom. Hoping they can get all this sorted out quickly.
    Glad to hear your neck issues are better with meds. Let s know how the MRI goes.

    Posted 2 years ago by Tigerlilly #

  10. Just love Bones to pieces until the end....praying for good health for your Mum and glad you are not having your 'personal summers' yet!!!!

    Posted 2 years ago by katthays #

  11. MCW...you could never bore us. I'm sorry that sweet old Bones is nearing his time. You and Mum have taken such wonderful care of him. I pray his end will be a peaceful one. I hope that your Mum's health does a turn around. I know how much you worry for her and I'm very happy to hear you've managed to avoid the Mean-O-Paws til a later time. Sending Prayers and White Light to you all! =)

    Posted 2 years ago by Karenopa #

  12. Prayers for your Mum's health. Bones is a great name - has he always been one of those big bony cats? (My Jerrie certainly was) I hope his last days are pain free and comfortable.

    Posted 2 years ago by NNGM #

  13. Awwww, poor Bones and poor Mum! I'm keeping both in my prayers!

    Posted 2 years ago by GreatDane #

  14. NNGM, I was thinking the same thing, I love the name Bones. How did he come to be known as Bones MCW?

    Posted 2 years ago by mollycat71 #

  15. MCW, How dare you say bored!!! We love you. Hugs to Bones, Health to you and of course good thoughts and lots of hugs from Abbey & I and the boys.

    Posted 2 years ago by Puddytat #

  16. Yikes! I forgot to tell you that I will be sending white light and prayers to Mum too!

    Posted 2 years ago by Puddytat #

  17. MCW, talk about doing similar things you and I. Today I'm taking Mum to the optician to get her cataract checked out and see if she can have it removed.
    More {{{hugs}}} to Bones.

    Posted 2 years ago by Moonshadow_NZ #

  18. MCW, I am keeping you and your mum in my prayers. My mom went to the thyroid Dr today and he is hoping to medicate her for the tumor in the thyroid instead of surgery. Her other tumors (lung and liver) are being watched but seem to be stable. I think our parents like to worry us to get even for whatever we did to worry them some years ago LOL

    Posted 2 years ago by Cat talk rules #

  19. Hugs and white light for Bones and your Mom.

    Posted 2 years ago by GizzysAuntie #

  20. Prayers, white light and hugs for you, Mum and Bones. I can attest to the miserable nature of those hot flashes--I am in perimenopause and I didn't wear a coat all winter! If Tom could take it, I probably wouldn't have turned the heat on either!! lol I prefer to think of them as "short, private, tropical vacations!!

    Posted 2 years ago by Shelley #

  21. Any updates on Mum or Bones? How are they both doing today? ((Mum, Bones, MCW))

    Posted 2 years ago by mollycat71 #

  22. Prayers and white light of healing to Bones, you and your mum. (MCW)

    Posted 2 years ago by Lynn from PA 6/8 #

  23. Ditto to everything above. {{{HUGS}}}

    Posted 2 years ago by Sheba's Mom in Phoenix, AZ 10/8 #

  24. *PickleandButtonandBones, PickleandButtonandBones* Sorry, just love saying that out loud :) Sorry, Eric!

    Hi MCW!

    Posted 2 years ago by Kilroy #

  25. Sorry, sorry, sorry, out of the loop for a couple of days again - blame work but also the pub quiz, where a very small team of just me & Chris came a very respectable third!

    Bones - has had a good couple of days, and has been enjoying a few treats such as bits of muffin or licking our dinner plates when we've finished. I do think he's still losing weight though, and he's unlikely to put any of it back on.

    Mum - not seen since Wednesday, but no health alerts from the home. Tomorrow morning I'm off to collect a folding wheelchair I bought for her on ebay, should make outings this summer a lot easier.

    Chris - had a day off today (lucky git!) but wasn't feeling too good for much of it. He's away tonight at some football league dinner (yawn!).

    Me - definitely a tad quieter on the work front, and I've only got some project work to spend a few hours on tomorrow. Neck not too great, but only another week til the scan, and 10 days til the results.

    Posted 2 years ago by MadcatwomanintheUK #

  26. I hope your scan is better than mine! LOL Sorry bones is thinning out! He needs more muffins. So, how DID Bones get his name? Con-cats on the pub quiz!

    Posted 2 years ago by mollycat71 #

  27. Mum got Bones when he was 8, from a chap who'd had since he was a kitten, but needed to find him anew home as his new wife was allergic. Apparently he'd been nothing but a bag of bones when he first saw him - and the name stuck. Most people assume it's after the character Bones in the original Star Trek!

    Posted 2 years ago by MadcatwomanintheUK #

  28. Brava on the pub quiz, MCW!

    Just popping in for a sec, shouldn't be here, gotta run, BYE!

    Posted 2 years ago by Kilroy #

  29. Hi/bye Kilroy!

    Posted 2 years ago by MadcatwomanintheUK #

  30. Prayers for Bones and your Mum--and glad you are not having those annoying "power surges"! Though I went through "menopaws" at 41, and now I LOVE having no monthly cramps ! There ARE advantages to getting older!

    Posted 2 years ago by rainingwolf #


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