SM,
Perhaps I should have been more clear I expected the attempt to be made out to be the bad guy by this child.
It is the typical "you are being mean to me" response when being told you've done wrong children try to use to push your buttons. I gave up buttons for pullovers long ago.
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High Drama at the TDK Corral
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Posted 2 years ago by ailuromaniac #
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I think last time we were beset by someone who turned out to be a troll KM said "don't retort, report!" Good advice. I'm going to let him sort this out. :)
Posted 2 years ago by Kitten Whisperer #
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Ailuromanic I am not saying you are a bad guy. i am merely saying let's tyr and defuse the situation instead of doing more damage. I said my part to her and hopefully she reads it and understands. If not we will see more dramatic posts and then we can jsut shut out discussions with her jsut like KW said don't like it don't respond for it only keeps it above the blip line on tdk which means it is bouncing activity!
Posted 2 years ago by Momma to 2 MaineCoons #
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Okay you all, I remain quiet most of the time but I feel I need to point something out. In the past when there has been trolls what has KM's advice been? To ignore this person and not make a big deal out of it on this site. Well I feel that you all have made a huge deal out of it tonight! It is things like this that keep me from posting often. You quickly jump to conclusions and then make a big deal out of something that you should just ignore and report to KM and let him deal with it if it is a troll. Yes I agree that this child, who freely admits she is a child, is seeking attention and you all have given it to her but not in a helpful way. When I first started visiting this site it was one big caring family, now I keep seeing these vicious attacks on people who may just need some guidance as to proper etiquette for this site.
Posted 2 years ago by Stubbys Momma in MO #
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I see the old troubles are starting up and well we seem to be gettign divided as is the usual case so I am gonna be takign another long break from tdk! Good night TDK! I am so tired of the jumping posturing and judging that has been taking place here. It is why so many of the old timers no longer post! it is very sad.
I wish you all a wonderful summer and a great 4th of July!
Angie Out!
Posted 2 years ago by Momma to 2 MaineCoons #
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m2mcs
I gave her a set of rules to follow. She immediately broke them. She did not like that I called her on the breakage. She (not you) tried to push my buttons by acting like I was attacking. I have not and will not respond directly to her. I have no beef with your last post to her. I do reccomend that you not reinforce her further.If she settles down and posts thoughtful and respectful comments, then she gets positive reinforcement. Not when she tries to get an emotional response.
It is like teaching a kitten not to bite or scratch. Scruff, hiss and ignore. Pet when good behaviour is exhibited.
I got an A in behavior modification in college.
Posted 2 years ago by ailuromaniac #
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I agree it's why i tried to help her by talking and guiding not really reinforcing the topics she chose to post. She will either stay or leave as many others have.
Good night Betty good to see you post! Long time know see. how's Stubby?
Posted 2 years ago by Momma to 2 MaineCoons #
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Oh guys. I just came on and found all this. Please, let's not tear each other apart. :(
Posted 2 years ago by Bellantara #
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Hello I am Sava's sister and I read this I understand your concern i will talk to my dad about getting professional help! She dose need it bad too. My mom did not die at 3pm last night she died 3 weeks ago but yes she is still hurting the only thing that died was Amy but while my dad was at work. But did you report her she could not get in this morning? Thank you for trying to help all I can do is talk to my dad a bout the help she needs. I will keep you posted if you keep me posted okay? Peace Out!
Lizzy!Posted 2 years ago by MOMMAOFABBY!=) #
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Lizzy if she was reported she would have recieved an email from KM I believe! I know I have been reported but can still post as have many others. So not sure why she could not get back on!
Posted 2 years ago by Momma to 2 MaineCoons #
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Who knows I don't but I want all the drama to just go away! Later I will talk to her and my dad. So I think my dad will probably sign her up for therapy witch is a good thing soon you won't have to worry about this!
Posted 2 years ago by MOMMAOFABBY!=) #
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Emma we do NOT want the drama once it is over we will be glad
Posted 2 years ago by MOMMAOFABBY!=) #
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Me too this stuff with Sava is very annoying!
Posted 2 years ago by MOMMAOFABBY!=) #
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Emma and I compete for the title of Drollery Queen. If either of us were to have a dryer sense of humor the US would quickly begin to resemble the Sahara on a dry season.
Posted 2 years ago by ailuromaniac #
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ahhh okay
Posted 2 years ago by MOMMAOFABBY!=) #
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Sorry guys, I didn't see this thread last night when the drama was running high. Yes, maybe Sava needs to be signed up for Therapy.
Lol, Emma! XDPosted 2 years ago by Catfancier #
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My dad should be home anytime now so hopefully sava dose for a fact get signed up
Posted 2 years ago by MOMMAOFABBY!=) #
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ey CF that's Mickey in your Avatar right? He was such a sweet baby! And so cute! He could have been a copycat Mainecoon hehehe!
Yes drama is done and thankfully so. This has been bad enoug and I hope she gets the help she needs since she is obviously needing the help and attention.
Emma!
Posted 2 years ago by Momma to 2 MaineCoons #
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Yes, that is Mickey in my avatar. Lol! The shelter I got him from did say he was a Maine Coon mix hehe, I miss him so much...Thats funny, I still see my old avatar with Rocky and Macey, I changed it to Mickey...but I still see Rocky and Macey and I guess everybody else sees Mickey?
Posted 2 years ago by Catfancier #
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I see them both
Posted 2 years ago by Cat talk rules #
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Wow! It worked, thankyou SM! :)
Posted 2 years ago by Catfancier #
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Mickey is sooooo cute!!!! {{Mickey}}
Posted 2 years ago by SammyandOliversmama #
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SOOOO agreed! =) he looks so sweet! a total beauty!
Posted 2 years ago by MOMMAOFABBY!=) #
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CF I agree very handsome coonie baby even if his parentage is a mystery!
You know right that the original mainecoon's were actually regular old run of the mill long haired robust barn cats and mousers right? They became a breed by taking the cats that had this chararistics and breeding them. The further back the tree goes the better and yet new foundation cats are also being used from Maine that meet the requirement though they can't be show as a mainecoon since they are missing the paperwork!
Posted 2 years ago by Momma to 2 MaineCoons #
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Wow! Thats relly cool! I acutally never knew that! I also think that Mickey had some Munchkin in him, brcause he at 8 months on age, mickey looked like he was at 41/2 months of age, so he was very small for his age. lol
Posted 2 years ago by Catfancier #
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