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Family - some thoughts to ponder........

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  • Started 2 years ago by debsterwiz
  • Latest reply from SylMiaFelixMomma
  1. F A M I L Y

    I ran into a stranger as he passed by,
    "Oh excuse me please" was my reply.

    He said, "Please excuse me too;
    I wasn't watching for you."

    We were very polite, this stranger and I.
    We went on our way and we said goodbye.

    But at home a different story is told,
    How we treat our loved ones, young and old.

    Later that day, cooking the evening meal,
    My son stood beside me very still.

    When I turned, I nearly knocked him down.
    "Move out of the way," I said with a frown.

    He walked away, his little heart broken.
    I didn't realize how harshly I'd spoken.

    While I lay awake in bed,
    God's still small voice came to me and said,

    "While dealing with a stranger,
    common courtesy you use,
    but the family you love, you seem to abuse.

    Go and look on the kitchen floor,
    You'll find some flowers there by the door.

    Those are the flowers he brought for you.
    He picked them himself: pink, yellow and blue.

    He stood very quietly not to spoil the surprise,
    you never saw the tears that filled his little eyes."

    By this time, I felt very small,
    And now my tears began to fall.

    I quietly went and knelt by his bed;
    "Wake up, little one, wake up," I said.

    "Are these the flowers you picked for me?"
    He smiled, "I found 'em, out by the tree.
    I picked 'em because they're pretty like you.
    I knew you'd like 'em, especially the blue."

    I said, "Son, I'm very sorry for the way I acted today;
    I shouldn't have yelled at you that way."
    He said, "Oh, Mom , that's okay.
    I love you anyway."

    I said, "Son, I love you too,
    and I do like the flowers, especially the blue."

    FAMILY
    Are you aware that if we died tomorrow, the company
    that we are working for could easily replace us in
    a matter of days.
    But the family we left behind will feel the loss
    for the rest of their lives.

    And come to think of it, we pour ourselves more
    into work than into our own family,
    an unwise investment indeed,don't you think?
    So what is behind the story?

    Do you know what the word FAMILY means?
    FAMILY = (F)ATHER (A)ND (M)OTHER (I) (L)OVE (Y)OU

    Family also means TDK!! My love to you all! I may not post as much as I once did but my TDK family is always in my heart and mind!

    Posted 2 years ago by debsterwiz #

  2. What a good reminder. I leave today to join my family. We gather together for the 4th as we have done for the last 38 years. My family not only includes my mom and my biological siblings, neices and nephews, but foster siblings and pseudo siblings. Because of this tradition of coming back to the same place the same time every year we have never lost touch with each other. My brothers' best friends from school are still their best friends even though we have all grown up and moved around. Those guys and their families are as much a part of my family as the people whose blood I share. I am blessed!

    I hope you all have a great weekend!

    Posted 2 years ago by KYKAT 12 23 #

  3. Thank you for the reminder - we sure do need reminding once in a while!
    Love you all - have a Happy 4th of July!

    Posted 2 years ago by JoanfromNewJersey #

  4. Oh, Deb. This put tears in my eyes. I, too, am going to see my family this weekend. Much love to my TDK family, and have a great weekend.

    Posted 2 years ago by paulajeanne #

  5. Deb that brought tears to my eyes also. I'm sure we all need this reminder from time to time. I love all of you In my TDK Family!!! {{{HUGS}}} Have a happy and safe weekend.

    Posted 2 years ago by BoogerMercurysMama #

  6. What a reminder to me, it is not all about work.......

    Posted 2 years ago by tinafishfrombirthplaceofElvis #

  7. I love this Deb! I've long adhered to the saying....Treat your family like company and your company like family. It makes so much sense! =)

    Posted 2 years ago by Karenopa #

  8. Brought tears to my eyes. We use to get together at 'Mom's' for all the big holidays. After she passed,that all stopped. I sooooo miss those gatherings.

    Posted 2 years ago by feral #

  9. Deb that put tears in my eyes as well. I have read this before and each time it affects me so. Thank you for the gentle reminder. I will be alone with my furry family this Fourth since my biological family doesn't do anything on this holiday. It is so we aren't out on the roads with everyone else.

    Posted 2 years ago by SylMiaFelixMomma #


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