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   Hello all,

   see? This is why I was hesitant to come back. Just can't seem to post much positive. But, I'm here and asking for help. Please send prayers and white light to the following: My Man: just trust me he needs all he can get. Me: my depression is very bad right now. Can barely get out of bed and that's only to use the bathroom and now to write this. Our relationship: I'm afraid it's at the end and that isn't what I want, nor him would be my guess, but since he hasn't spoken to me since Friday afternoon I really don't know.

   Good thing: i'm not suicidal, just want the world to stop so I can get off.

   Lainey

   Posted 2 years ago by Jetta and Boo Boo's Mom #

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   Lainey, I'm so sorry. Please know that I will keep you in my prayers.

   Posted 2 years ago by WillowandWindismom #

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   My prayers are on the way. {{{{hugs}}}}

   Posted 2 years ago by Kitten Whisperer #

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   My daughters and I have a thing we do when prayers are really needed. We put out an APB, which is prayers not only to God, but to all the saints, gods, goddesses, angels and spirits.
   An APB has just been put out for you.

   Posted 2 years ago by oakcrone #

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   (((Lainey))) Please keep us posted.

   Posted 2 years ago by Tigerlilly #

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   Uncontrollable tears and overwhelming sadness. I don't want to die and I will not do anything to facilitate that, I just don't want to live right now. Not in this pain. Not in this uncertainty and not without him. Thanks for the APB, I and we need all that people will send. back to my pillow..

   Posted 2 years ago by Jetta and Boo Boo's Mom #

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   Lainey, please promise that you will get a little something to eat and please stay in touch. Of course, you are in my prayers.
   Warm cyber embrace coming across the miles.

   Posted 2 years ago by Tigerlilly #

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   {{Lainey}} I love you. TDK loves you. Warm healing white light heading your way, girlfriend.

   Posted 2 years ago by SammyandOliversmama #

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   prayers, hugs, vibes, whatever you need right now.

   Posted 2 years ago by CSBM #

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    Lots of people thinking of you Lainey. It seems impossible, but this will get better. This will get better girl. Meanwhile, lots of white light and good healing thoughts coming right over to you. Hugs.

    Posted 2 years ago by eleniki #

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    Gentle hugs for you my friend and the MR. of course

    Posted 2 years ago by AZDEBRA 5/27 & crew #

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    Love, prayers and white light coming your way--for you and your SO and for your relationship. Hang in there, friend, you are loved.

    Posted 2 years ago by Shelley #

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    Sending hugs and prayers your way. Know that you are not alone - we are all just a post or email away. If you need to vent, my inbox box is always open:

    owlwatcher_974 at earthlink dot net

    If you need to talk, send me your email address and I will give you my cell number. It's going to be okay - no matter what happens next, it's going to be okay. You will get through this.

    Posted 2 years ago by owlwatcher_974 #

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    Lainey, What good are friends if you can't turn to them when you need them? While it would be nice if everyone's life was perfect and everyone's family and pets lived forever, that's not reality. Reality is that life sometimes sucks and you need people to lean on. So, lean on us.

    Posted 2 years ago by CheetahBoysmommy #

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    Thank you, everyone. Still crying, still hurting, but I am grateful that you are all here and praying for me and my Honey. Jetta knows something is wrong, too. She hasn't left my side. Only uses her box when I get to use mine! Hope you all are invested in Kleenex...

    Posted 2 years ago by Jetta and Boo Boo's Mom #

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    [[[[Lainey & SO]]]]]]

    Posted 2 years ago by Buttercup #

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    ((((Lainey))))) I'm sorry about all you're going through. You've got my prayers.

    Posted 2 years ago by GreatDane #

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    Sending {{{Lainey and SO}}},Positive Vibes, White Light and Healing Energy over for you. Let Jetta comfort you all she wants as kitty cuddles a very healing.

    Posted 2 years ago by Moonshadow_NZ #

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    (((HUGS)))) to you. I know a little about where you are right now. I have been there before. I promise you thing will get better. I am praying hard for you right now.

    Posted 2 years ago by BRUINS MOM #

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    Lainey...Please know your not alone. I know & understand your pain completely. Please, If at all possible...try & talk with your partner & tell him how your feeling. {{{LAINEY & PARTNER}}}

    Posted 2 years ago by feral #

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    That's what we are here for-----{{{HUGS}}}

    Posted 2 years ago by Sheba's Mom in Phoenix, AZ 10/8 #

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    Thank you everyone. Love and hugs to everyone here. Yes, kitty cuddles are wonderful, though she is bugging me to clean her box and give her fresh food, so off I go to do that and then back to bed. I'll check in tomorrow or overnight if I get up. Thank you my friends and family,
    Lainey

    Posted 2 years ago by Jetta and Boo Boo's Mom #

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    Lainey, PLEASE get a little something to eat yourself.; preferably a treat...chocolate maybe...

    Posted 2 years ago by Tigerlilly #

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    Ah Lainey. Don't hesitate to post here. You helped me more than you know when I was down a few weeks ago, and we're all family here.

    "Keep smilin', keep shinin'
    Knowin' you can always count on me, for sure
    That's what friends are for
    For good times and bad times
    I'll be on your side forever more
    That's what friends are for"

    Posted 2 years ago by Bellantara #

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    Good morning, everyone. Thank you for all of the love and support. Tigerlilly I did have some scrambled eggs when I fed my Jetta girl. Thank you. I'm still kind of on pins and needles regarding my relationship with my Honey. He wouldn't take my calls or respond to any emails so what can I do? I love him with everything I am and he knows that. He has so much on him right now. The stress both of us have seperately and together, it's getting to both of us. I did get to work on time (6am, well, we have flex but I like to get in early to get out early). I did manage to put clean sheets on the bed yesterday, so that's a plus! I have to get back to work now, but thanks and blessings to all. Please keep up the prayers and white light for him, for me and for us. Thank you...

    Love,
    Lainey

    Posted 2 years ago by Jetta and Boo Boo's Mom #

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    {{{{Lainey}}}} Hugs and healing energy to you and your partner. Arohanui!

    Posted 2 years ago by jcat #

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    For what it's worth, Lainey, when I went through something like you're describing with my partner, 3 years ago, I followed the advice of some close girlfriends, and left him completely alone. I did not attempt to contact him by phone, mail, sms or in person. Three of the most horrible, lonely, vile weeks went by. Then he contacted me, and we met, and I told him all I felt, including that I couldn't go through that again, that he had to make a decision once and for all. We are living together now, but this is really to say maybe leave him be for a while - let him do some thinking and feeling, and come to you. I know what you're going through, and it is the worst hell on earth, but being by yourself and letting go, in a kind of way, will make you stronger, and is the best, and maybe the only course of action for you right now. All
    support and strength coming over to you.

    Posted 2 years ago by eleniki #

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    Thanks everyone. Thank you Eleniki... i've only sent a couple emails today and it's been hard. It's the not knowing that's killing me. Worrying about him and his stressors and energy level. Knowing i've been the cause of some of it. I've held it together at work today but losing it again now that i'm home.

    Posted 2 years ago by Jetta and Boo Boo's Mom #

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    (((Lainey))) I'm so glad you've eaten a bit...now how about that treat?

    Posted 2 years ago by Tigerlilly #

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    Lainey, you HAVE to take care of yourself. Eat, rest, pray, exersise, everything. If you are going to try and get your man back you have to be a strong safe haven for him to come back to. Eleniki is giving you good advice. Send one more email that you are giving him space to think and for him to call you when he is ready. During that time focus exclusively on getting yourself as strong as possible so that when he does call, you will have the strength and calmness to be ready for him.

    Hugs and prayers.

    Posted 2 years ago by KYKAT 12 23 #

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