Lainey you have to look for something positive to see the positive. Turn things over. I have to agree with Eleniki. You said you "only sent a couple of emails today" don't send any. If he is struggling with stress and knows you are suffering depression that only compounds the problems. It is time to take care of yourself--until you can love yourself and deal with your depression you will continue to have dificulty in your romantic life. Please now is the time to take care of yourself. You will be amazed at how differently you can see life--and before you know it your lovelife will thrive.
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Lainey, I'm not going to trivialise depression, it's a bitch, as many of here can testify to. But are you maybe focussing on your problems with your man to the exclusion of everything else? It's much easier said than done I know - believe me I know - but maybe if you can get interested in something else, or have something else to look forward to, it won't all seem so overwhelmingly awful? Lunch with a friend? A trip to see a film? Nothing major, I'm talking baby steps here, but just little treats you can break up your week with.
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Posted 2 years ago by MadcatwomanintheUK #
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Lainey, I am so sorry for what you are going through. Please know you are in my prayers.
Posted 2 years ago by rainingwolf #
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Lainey, depression is very demobilizing. Have you checked into talking with a professional about all that you and your SO are going through? Is there anyway to try to schedule an appt for yourself for now? Maybe after a couple of weeks of your going, you can ask your SO to come with you to one of the meetings. Hope you and your SO can work things out. Sending some positive thoughts, prayers and hugs. Glad you have Jetta to keep you going.
Posted 2 years ago by SylMiaFelixsMomma #
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Thank you, all, for the great advice and wisdom. I did walk almost three miles today, hoping it would induce sleep (this was around 3:30) but I can't sleep. Yes, I'm very focused on him, but I love him so much, need him so much. Worried that he is okay. Tomorrow is another day and with fresh eyes will look at everything everyone has shared and offered and will take it all in and see what works for me. I'm so glad I came back here. I'm so, so, so lonely and sad without him. Lost.
Posted 2 years ago by Jetta and Boo Boo's Mom #
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So glad you got a little excercise and more importantly some fresh air. I have no grand words of wisdom, except be good to Lainey. Maybe try some old remedies to help with sleep, hot chocolate, hot milk, white noise ( a must for me).I'm sure there are many more natural type remedies, but of course, it's always hard to sleep when the mind is working overtime.
HugsPosted 2 years ago by Tigerlilly #
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Sweetie,I have been lost in that kind of depression,you must remember that even though you feel lost now that you will find in the morning new feelings. When I am in one of these "dark moods" I have imagery of a garden that has been damaged by winter but 'WINTER ENDS sweetheart, this garden will bloom anew. These feeling will pass! I don't know what is going to happen. Is there a specialist you can see just to talk things over with,if you're affiliated with a church or something,talk it out,I am not overly spiritual but God will provide. I hope this makes sense.
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Lainey I don't know how much longer I will have internet but if you would like to talk sweetie I am here for you. We all are.I'm going to try to email you my cell but if I can't find your email several people here have it.
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http://psychcentral.com/blog/archives/2009/07/07/depression-theres-a-person-underneath-the-illness/
I like one of the quotes in this article
"A person never disappears in a depression. Even though thinks she is lost forever, she lurks there, underneath the illness."
Feel better lainey -
Prayers are ascending for you!
Posted 2 years ago by tinafishfrombirthplaceofElvis #
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Good, powerful, positive, energetic thoughts and prayers coming your way, Lainey!
Posted 2 years ago by JoanfromNewJersey #
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Lainey, how are you today? Praying that your heart is a little lighter today
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