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MerD time to check in!

(21 posts)
  • Started 2 years ago by SoxsMom
  • Latest reply from Tigerlilly
  1. It has been almost a whole month since the move--please check in if you can. I have been worried about you. Always know you are so important here! I just plain miss you!

    Posted 2 years ago by SoxsMom #

  2. SM, you just took the words right out of my mouth!! We miss you MerD and would love to hear how you are doing. XOXOXO {{{MerD}}}

    Posted 2 years ago by BoogerMercurysMama #

  3. I would really like to know if she is okay, and to remember that now she can create a wonderful life she so rightly deserves!

    Posted 2 years ago by SoxsMom #

  4. Can we send her an email? Did she have a buddy?

    Posted 2 years ago by Tigerlilly #

  5. I have her email--I haven't heard from her though. I know it was going to take some time to get it all finished, but it has been almost a month. Sending an email now!

    Posted 2 years ago by SoxsMom #

  6. Positive white lights to you MerD... out resident "wine expert!"..... miss you!

    Posted 2 years ago by AV #

  7. Thanks for your concern. Love you guys! *** tears in my eyes ****

    I am doing ok. still getting settled in. I found Kiwee and Dutchess homes so I have 4. I am only allowed two in the apartment so of course I have 3 this week. I am switching them out so that they will all still know each other. Ben had it hardest. He is such a sensitive guy. Before I brought him over, he apparently hid all the time, only came out at night to eat, or when the ex would leave the house. It has taken him 3 days to come back to his normal self. Everyone else it took 12-18 hours or so.

    The hardest part is being separated from my daughter. we are going one week on/off. THis week she is at his house. And I think she is having a hard time with it as well. It's ugly, but I just keep plodding thru it all. He finally signed the papers last week, and now have to wait 90 DAYs for it to be approved by the courts. As if I have not waited long enough...

    Thanks for all your concerns and well wishes. I have been lurking, but not really posting.

    Mer--

    Posted 2 years ago by MerD #

  8. Thanks for checking in MerD..You are right about having to keep plodding thru it!!! You will with time work out all the issues and then can begin a new life, with wonderful surprizes ahead!! {{{MerD}}}

    Posted 2 years ago by 2bpurring #

  9. (((MerD))) I have been missing you and sending good thoughts your way. Check in when you can.

    Posted 2 years ago by KYKAT 12 23 #

  10. ((MerD)) We are here for you.

    Posted 2 years ago by cricketsmama #

  11. Hello MerD....
    Sounds like you are going through something heartbreaking. I don't know the whole story, but I send my love and hugs to you and your family. Just wanted to say Hello!!!

    Posted 2 years ago by bumblebee #

  12. MerD I am so glad to see you! My heart is breaking for your daughter. She knows you love her and that will get her through this. Remember you are showing her that you are a strong woman and believe that you deserve a happy life. Divorce isn't easy on anyone, but there are times when it is best. Please know you are loved!!

    Posted 2 years ago by SoxsMom #

  13. ***more happy tears*** You guys really touched me today. Thank you.

    Posted 2 years ago by MerD #

  14. Sending [{{hugs]}} for you MerD and Positive Vibes. Just keep cuddling those kits.

    Posted 2 years ago by Moonshadow_NZ #

  15. It's a tough road MerD, but we have every confidence in you and in the end it will all be worth it. {{HUGS}}

    Posted 2 years ago by linda #

  16. MerD you were the lifeline during a very dark time for me. That Christmas of 07 I was planning a funeral and there was no light and there in my inbox was an email from you asking where I was. I know my family and immediate friends would grieve, but no one else had even asked. It was a very sad and lonely time. And that email--my hubby printed it--I always have you close by in my heart MerD.

    Posted 2 years ago by SoxsMom #

  17. {{{{{SM}}}}thanks

    Posted 2 years ago by MerD #

  18. Sending some positive thoughts to you MerD that all will work out for the best. A divorce is just as devastating as a death is and it takes time to "grieve for the marriage". Sending you some hugs too.

    SM, I am very sorry you felt so alone. I wish I had been there for you. Good to know MerD was there for you.

    Posted 2 years ago by SylMiaFelixMomma #

  19. You didn't know SMM and didn't even have my email address--most of those that had my email address are gone. But MerD helped pull me through!

    Posted 2 years ago by SoxsMom #

  20. ((((MerD))) so happy to see you posting again! I'm sorry you're going through all this, but it'll get better - you're getting there. Take care of yourself, okay?

    Posted 2 years ago by GreatDane #

  21. Good to hear from you. Continued best wishes. Please check in when you are able. Hugs

    Posted 2 years ago by Tigerlilly #


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