She drastically has gone downhill and the vet wont be able to do anything for her. She wont even make the journey. Me and Luke tried, and want her to know we're going to miss our daughter and love her so much. Its so painful to know we couldn't watch you blossom.
Goodbye Missy
Love Mummy and Daddy xxx
Posted 7 months ago by Sinspearian #
:( Hugs.
Posted 7 months ago by Tigerlilly #
http://www.gratefulness.org/candles/candles.cfm?l=eng&gi=TDKM
Please light a candle for sweet Missy
Posted 7 months ago by Tigerlilly #
Thanks Tigerlilly - This really is painful. Thanks for all your support through all this.
Posted 7 months ago by Sinspearian #
Thanks SM and thank you Tigerlilly.
Posted 7 months ago by Sinspearian #
Posted 7 months ago by Tigerlilly #
*wipes tears from her eyes and says a prayer for Missy and her loving family*
*hugs*
Posted 7 months ago by owlwatcher_974 #
That made me cry even more but thank you so much.
Posted 7 months ago by Sinspearian #
I'm so, so sorry Sinspearian, what a tragedy. But what a lucky kitten that she had the two of you to care for her in her short life, and knew love. Many cats should be that lucky.
Love & {{{hugs}}} to you both -
MCW x
Posted 7 months ago by MadcatwomanintheUK #
I am so sorry.
Posted 7 months ago by rainingwolf #
Thank you OW
Posted 7 months ago by Sinspearian #
Thanks everyone. I just can't bare this. I forgot how it was to lose such a gorgeous companion and I am so upset right now I feel like I'm going to puke.
Posted 7 months ago by Sinspearian #
I am so sorry Missy didn't make it. I lit a candle for her here:
http://www.gratefulness.org/candles/message.cfm?l=eng&cid=8901797
We love her so much. And we're not ready for her to go but we know she will feel better when she has gone.
Posted 7 months ago by Sinspearian #
Keep talking, keep posting - don't bottle anything up. If ever a group of people understood what you're going through, it's TDK. You WILL get through this, but it will take time.
Posted 7 months ago by MadcatwomanintheUK #
Thank you we appreciate it a lot.
Posted 7 months ago by Sinspearian #
Sinspearian, this is the hardest thing you will ever do, but absolutely the kindest. Never doubt that.
Posted 7 months ago by MadcatwomanintheUK #
Its like she wants to stay, but she knows she cant - that's whats making it a hell of a lot harder.
Posted 7 months ago by Sinspearian #
How lucky Missy is! I cry for all those furry babies that pass not having ever known love. Love her, kiss her and she will know...
Posted 7 months ago by Tigerlilly #
And that's why, knowing the prognosis, you have to make that decision for her. I know it's hard, truly I do, we just went through this with my Mum's cat, but it's her time, and you need to let her go to where she'll be well and happy and free of pain.
Posted 7 months ago by MadcatwomanintheUK #
We're talking to her - Luke is telling her to go, he said she can go if she needs to.
Posted 7 months ago by Sinspearian #
We've failed - all we've done for Missy is prolonged her suffering. How is that love? We think its love for our selfish needs - but what would she think of it as?
Posted 7 months ago by Sinspearian #
Please don't doubt yourself... she KNOWS that she is much loved.
Posted 7 months ago by Tigerlilly #
No, you've tried to help her fight, and now you'll help her on her way. Please don't beat yourself up about this, any cat lover would want to try and save their baby's life.
Posted 7 months ago by MadcatwomanintheUK #
Sinspearian...I'm so sorry. We all know the pain you're feeling and know that you have given Missy all the love and caring anyone could ever give in her short stay on this earth. She's in the warm embrace of God's love now and goes with your love as her blanket. It's with great sadness that I have lit Missy's candle of departure. Be strong and please remember the sweetness and joy you knew together. ((((Missy)))) ((((Mum & Dad))))
Sinspearian, I've got to go to bed now (alarm goes off at stupid o'clock) but it's only late pm at the earliest in the States, so there'll be plenty of people to help get you through this. Look after yourself, you and Luke. xx
Posted 7 months ago by MadcatwomanintheUK #
Thank you TL, MCW and Karen. I really imagined my next message to be 'Missy is getting better, the antibiotics worked!!' - That's what I really wanted it to be...
Posted 7 months ago by Sinspearian #
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