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Best Present Ever

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  • Started 1 year ago by Kassie or Foutsy
  • Latest reply from furryfriends50
  1. First off, I came across this site when I was researching Kitten Care information and I think its cruel to have this site up! I already think I'm a little too crazy about my pets. Now I get to tell all about them and read other peoples stories. My fiance is going to hate this. lol.

    I am a pre vet college student, I love anything that has a personality that isn't a human and for some reason they like me back. I Just recently got an appartment with my fiance. I brought along my 11 year old male cat, Sam, who is the love of my life. He's a 26lbs beautifully built cat, although he does have that tummy sag now he is getting older. I also brought, to Sam and Scott's (my fiance) dismay, my 2 funnier then crap male rats. Natty and Guinness are my 2 clowns who entertain me while I am being forced to watch what Scott wants which is the same movies over and over that I use to like. a good life lesson is don't ever be cheap and buy cable its for your own good. I love my pets and I didn't know if Scott would like to live with them. He is a dog person and would have brought his baby but she took everything out of herself waiting to see Scotty of to college, she passed half way into his first semester. (We miss you dearly baby girl.)

    Luckily Scott already liked Sam and since they spend alot of alone time together now that we have moved in together I am starting to get jealous since I am not being startled awake any longer. It's ok though, Scott isn't allowed to feed him because I'm greedy and Sam gets mad if Scott hogs me to much so We all know who is sam's Favorite. Me!

    Enough about my babies, this is a kitten website. I am nervous and extremly excited to announce Blaze the fire tabby (corny i know, you know how kittens make people). I came to visit my future mother in law and was told I had a present. Sad thing is I knew there is a barn full of feral cats behind her house and it is spring time, We all know what happens, we are all adults here. Although we are good friends with the person who lived there before and he caught and "fixed" as many cats as he could and made sure he kept and help raise litters/moms. He had 3 litters when he started catching all the pregnant ones So, when I heard the word present I ran to the house where I was quickly directed to the couch where the boxer (Bailey) was eagerly ignoring our presence. The present was such a mystery, I know!

    Blaze is so tiny, to my knowledge he is no more then 8 weeks. I was just as bad as the boxer trying to coax him out of his hiding. He isn't scared though, just likes playing in safety right now, its adorable. Bailey is a really good listener and although playful she always follows orders and I think Blaze is a little too smart because he keeps waiting till we have bailey still and he runs out ready to pounce then runs back to hide again. He's a Ham. He has only been around for a day and he got so comfertable just riding on my shoulder till scott stole him then as soon as I sat on the chair next to the couch, he braved his way past the dog in the wide open and came right back to me. He needed a little scooting on my part but he just laid down and moew till I pet him into a nap. There was a small barbaque going on and it got noisy and I thought he would freak. He just kept on napping until I would meow at him, then he would wake up and meow back and rub my face and go back to sleep.

    I'm in over my head here guys this is where you come in! I have never owned a kitten and I know this sounds odd but I have never really owned a new cat. I got Sam in the 7th grade when he was four. I always had my "own" hamster, sometimes my sister and I would own a pair of gerbils, and to be honest my biggest I guess you can say challenge was the group of like 5 hermit crabs I had all at once (I still don't know how in the hell I got 5 hermit crabs) Sad thing about that though is they were all incorrectly pronounced dead now that I came acrossed a little know fact. Apparently the crab leaves his shell then goes pretty much dormant for a while (up to 2 weeks) then claims a new shell. Thats weird. I know. I am not sure if someone is playing a sick joke on me or not but I feel really bad for the drowned and burried alive now. I had to make peace with god and I'm not religous. Anyways so yeah, when I got sam I pretty much was in charge of the litter box and that was it but he was just for me. (Arn't my parents jerks. lol.) To be honest sam was easy even with out my parents so I dont know how I will do. Never owned or really been around a kitten. I have the obvious stuff down. Like Make sure he has his own kitten sized litter box with non clump litter (I was told non clump so if you can clear that up that would be awesome since same has it bad with UTI's and Its makes everyday cleaning a breeze) I wonder if I bought those Auto Cleaning cat boxes if they could share because sam is a LB freak and I am pretty sure they use clumping too. I know they need food water and toys. Those items are already checked off the list. Another thing though is his claws. He's got them, Sam was declawed before we got him (By the way coming from a future vet, declawing is like taking you own finger and cutting it at the very first knuckle. I'm just giving you something to chew on here) But back to the claws. I'm in the dark about claw training and clipping so insight is really needed. I'm pretty sure he uses his litter bax because Scotts mom said she thought he did but she didn't see him so I guess what I am trying to ask here is how do I go about litter training him? (btw if you ask are you also saying or can you not ask and say at the same time? I think some one has asked me that before?) Also and good home made toy ideas is good to know. So is how much supervision he is going to need and when will he be ok alone? I'm pretty sure if we give him like 95% at first he will get the hang of things quick but I'm not really in a hurry I just have school and scott has work but Sam gets alot of attention but doesn't beg for it so I think there time together will make up for our time apart. Another thing and I'm pretty sure the last is how do I go about the cats meeting? Sam, and his 11 years, has stayed pretty playful in has only been around 1 other cat before and was my aunts kitten. My kept the kitten in the bathroom for the most part but Sam found it right away and would leave poor sunshine alone. Then when I let them see eachother sam ended up kicking her in the head, but thats kinda sames personality. When he is down to party he is down to party when he isn't he's all like "really does it look like I want this" He can get rough some times though. He likes getting pestered which I think is weird but its always to a point then the just drops you and gives you what I guess you could call a time out? I question that because usually when you dont start picking on him again he gets made and picks on you all while being lovable. Thats why I love him though. He is a weird cat with a really strong personallity and I honestly have no idea as to what reaction I am going to get tomorrow. He might just be like you guys are jerks because he is upset he doesn't live with grandpa anymore and he had to drive 2 hours away from him buit he is finally ok now so.

    Thanks for taking the time for me I really wanna do the right thing for Blaze since he is really coming for Scott. He needs his own pet to care for and we cant get a dog really, then sam would hit the fan and probally run away in retalliation. (He does that when I dog sit for my aunt then blames us for not looking hard enough and he has only been gone not even an hour) Our new place isn't for outdoor cats so I'm a little worried about that anyways. Thanks again for the help and if I didn't ask all the right questioins let me know.

    Posted 1 year ago by Kassie or Foutsy #

  2. my bad for the typo's i start to ramble into a state of confussion at times.

    Posted 1 year ago by Kassie or Foutsy #

  3. Hi, KOF and welcome to TDK! It can be kind of quiet on weekends, so don't think that you're being ignored! I so enjoyed reading about your fur family and the addition of little Blaze.

    I don't really have answers for you, but my little girls were feral and they began using a litter box almost as soon as they realized what it was. They have never even had an accident.

    As for the clawing part, a water bottle and a little spritz seems to work to teach kittens not to claw. But there will be others here with good advice for you.

    Can you keep Blaze in a separate room from the others when you are gone? Just until they learn to interact. The way that I introduced my girls to each other (and they are sisters but it took us several months to catch Windi) was to put Windi in a spare bedroom with her litterbox and toys. We closed the door and just let them sniff and bat at each other under the door. There was a considerable amount of hissing that went on! Then, after about two days, we propped open the door so that they could see each other but not enough to where they could hit each other. We did that for about two days and then propped the door open enough so that they could get a paw through. After that we opened the door but stayed in the room with Windi. There was some slight hissing, sniffing and then they ran off playing and haven't stopped since.

    We're glad to have you here!

    Posted 1 year ago by WillowandWindismom #

  4. Thanks alot and your kitties are so cute, I love black cats I always melt for the ones with orange eyes, I'll have one same day lol October will be his name or Amber if its a girl lol I'm cheezyy for cats I guess! But thanks again. Oh and for your entertainment there is a site called icanhascheezburger.com its all funny cats. I hope I don't get in trouble for that but its too good not to share and its not a site like this its just funny cat stuff.

    Posted 1 year ago by Kassie or Foutsy #

  5. Oh you won't get in trouble for mentioning that website! We are all Icanhazcheezburger nuts here! We love those LOLcats!

    Posted 1 year ago by WillowandWindismom #

  6. Hi KOF, welcome to TDK! This is a fun, friendly and helpful site, so never worry about sharing something that will make us laugh! - but yes, we know and LOVE cheezburgers!!!

    Posted 1 year ago by MadcatwomanintheUK #

  7. The thing i know lots about is feline nutrition so if you need help with food i'll try to help.

    Sometimes i will rescue a cat who i will then put in a large cage (as in it is meant for saint bernards so it IS big) and cover it. I do that method because it is at a farm and there isn't a seperate room to put them in. Luckily almost all mine take very well to strangers IF they are introduced slowly. Actually the new cat is the hardest to convince that everything really is fine.

    Posted 1 year ago by furryfriends50 #

  8. Here is an update. Blaze is eating well, almost too much we have followed the instructions on his food bag but he always gets taken away from Sam's food and is taken to his own bowl, he usually leaves scraps in between meals which has helped with that. He is so far perfectly litter trained, knock on wood, and is always playing or sleeping on daddy's lap while I do my home work. Only thing that sucks right now is him and Sam. To be honest it is more us being comfortable with there behavior towards each other. Blaze, obviously wants to play, Sam at first didn't. He actually attacked him because blaze didn't just lay still ever. Today and last night we spent a lot of time working with them since Sam got over always staring him down non stop in a hateful glare. We realized that Sam was accepting blaze's play time but play a little rough, and with supervision, us gently saying be easy and Blaze learning when to squeak and back off has made it easier for us to turn our heads for an actual minute while they are together. I let them roam other rooms together this morning while got ready and finished my homework and just kept an eye on them and I didn't have an incident at all. I'm proud of sammy he is learning so well and Blaze is to. I thought it was never going to work there first night together. I'll keep you guys updated and I am putting up my videos of him playing and last night i recorded All four of us, (Scott, Blaze, Sam, and I) hunting down the HUGE moth in the house.

    Posted 1 year ago by Kassie or Foutsy #

  9. Welcome to TDK Kassie! Sounds like you have a wonder furry family and despite your worries, you're all getting along quite well.
    Have you set up a catster page for Sam and Blaze?? Do you have pictures of them you can share?? If you click on my avatar on the left you can meet my fur family.

    Posted 1 year ago by 2bpurring #

  10. ~~~Blaze is eating well, almost too much we have followed the instructions on his food bag but he always gets taken away from Sam's food and is taken to his own bowl, he usually leaves scraps in between meals which has helped with that.~~~

    Is Blaze a kitten and Sam and adult? Blaze could be hungry all the time because most brands of food are full of grains which are just put in as fillers, but since cats only can digest meat (they are obligate carnivores after all) that could be a reason for always being hungry. Maybe try an ALF (all life stage) food. Wellness CORE, EVO, Orijen, Instinct are all great choices. However free feeding doesn't work, it is best to feed at only certain times through the day. Schedualed feeding also means that it is much easier to give wet food which should at least be 1/2 the food they are getting if not all. Else if you are willing to take the time to learn how to raw is the best way to go. a bit of info about that is here: nfes.org

    yes i am obsessed with learning about cat food. i actually have now switched to making it myself o_O

    Posted 1 year ago by furryfriends50 #

  11. Thanks, Sam is an adult who has perscription food so Blaze can't have it. Blaze gets wet food and a staple of dry kitten food. I'm looking for a good food for him but we are going to use up that food.

    Posted 1 year ago by Kassie or Foutsy #

  12. btw Scott is here. He hates this already lol I told you.

    Posted 1 year ago by Kassie or Foutsy #

  13. what is the prescription food meant for?

    Posted 1 year ago by furryfriends50 #


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