My son was arrested for recieving stolen goods. Not a big suprise. He has been in jail for over two weeks, girlfriend got out. Seems to be a difference in the stories. Over the weekend, he tried to commit suicide by cutting his wrists. He didn't succeed. I have had enough of him and have been through so much pain. Please send prayers and strength to get me through. He is my son, but I am done. Thanks.
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Posted 2 years ago by Lynn from PA 6/8 #
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OMG! Yesssssssssssssssssssssss! you are so deserving of all our prayers! goodness knows that is a difficult situation to be in. I hope it all works out and you can somehow get thru to him and hopefully establish some sort of relationship at a later time. Hugs! and Prayers!
Posted 2 years ago by mollycat71 #
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Oh, Lynn, I am so sorry. Yes, he is your son, but when it all comes down to it, he is the only one who can change his life. In the meantime, he has no idea what he is putting you through. You have all my thoughts and sympathies and many, many {{{HUGS}}} I hope you get all the strength you need; we are here for you.
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My relationship is over, MC, much money, I didn't have, long gone, lies, it's over. I wish he had completed his task.
Posted 2 years ago by Lynn from PA 6/8 #
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I can't change him, JC, that is over. It is done. He is who he is. I thank you for your prayers and hugs and thoughts.
Posted 2 years ago by Lynn from PA 6/8 #
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{{{hugs}}} Lynn
Posted 2 years ago by AZDEBRA 5/27 & crew #
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Lynn, so sorry. We are still here for you, no matter what!
Posted 2 years ago by mollycat71 #
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I had things to do over the weekend that didn't get done, so decided to take today off. Work may not like it, will deal tomorrow. I wanted to be with Kay's grandaughter, our Dakoda, see her smile and hear her laugh and know that I am doing something good in her life. I ran my errands, came home, she was glad to see me, and all was well with my world. Then calls came in and it brought all the reality of my sons situation to a head again. It will stop as of today. Dakoda is my light of everything I might have done wrong as a parent, I may do well as a "Aunt Lynn". I have that with her sister Nikki, and God willing will see 2 young ladies grow up to be wonderful women. Maybe I will make a difference in someones life and no bad phone calls will be needed in the future.
Posted 2 years ago by Lynn from PA 6/8 #
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You are in my prayers, too, Lynn.
Posted 2 years ago by GizzysAuntie #
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Thanks for all your prayers and comfort. It is what it is. I just have to deal with it. Thanks for your support and I would like any prayers for me that you can spare. Thanks to my family here, see you soon.
Posted 2 years ago by Lynn from PA 6/8 #
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(((((Lynn)))))) You have my prayers.
Posted 2 years ago by Cat talk rules #
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Lynn you raised him to be much different. He made choices and must deal with the consequences, but you should not have to go through this h*ll; he is an adult. I am sorry for his choices--he has through so much away. You do make a large impact on Dakoda. You are as much a brilliant shining light to her as she is to you. I wish I could erase the hurt you have. Please know your strength shines in your posts and you are loved here. May peace reign in your heart. You and Kay have a good life together. Hang on and know you are loved here.
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Oh Mama! Hugs! I am so sorry you are dealing with this and shame on him for the choices and paths he has gone down. he is now an adult and it is his responsibility to make sure he does the right thing. You gave him a shot raised him to be a good, honest trustworthy person. And well somewhere he decided it was not worth it and deicded to take a detour. I know yu have your grandbabies and can find light and happiness in their growths into beautiful young women.
Love,
Ange
Posted 2 years ago by Momma to 2 MaineCoons #
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You have my prayers, Lynn. *hugs*
Posted 2 years ago by owlwatcher_974 #
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Lynn you have my support. Sometimes you just have to let go and turn your focus elsewhere to where it can really make a difference and be appreciated. Kia kaha my friend. {{{HUGS}}}
Posted 2 years ago by KapitiKats in NZ #
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{{{Lynn}}} Much support and prayers for you.
Posted 2 years ago by JoanfromNewJersey #
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(((Lynn))
Oh my friend. You have done everything you could. He obviously has chosen a different path. I don't blame you for being done. Child or not, sometimes you have to cut the rot from the tree for it to grow and flourish. You are in my thoughts and prayers always and if you need to vent, talk, or whatever, we are here.Posted 2 years ago by cricketsmama #
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Dearest Lynn, I SO know where you are at--been there done that--although my son is in a better place than yours in some ways, he still wants my sympathy and to "fix" things that I can't. He is 37 today, his marriage is a mess, he feels sorry for himself all the time, he blames his kids for their feeling unsure about him--I could go on and on, but suffice it to say that were it not for him getting burned he probably would be your sons "neighbor". I will offer up many prayers for you. I finally decided too, that as much as I love him, it is up to him to change what he doesn't like and the time now if for ME! If you ever need to just talk, email me at formergrappin at yahoo dot com.
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Oh Lynn. I pray for strength for him and you. My daug did drugs, lost her son to the ex-, stole cartons of cigs from stores to by a fix, (not well, always got caught) finally I stopped the 'enabling' too and said you are on your own. Well, she got to rock bottom, and today is the manager of a conventience store, married, one son, owns a home (well mortgaged of course) BUT she is a fine young woman and I am so proud ofd her. She did come back to the family. Drugs are an evil and terrible thing in this world. Just say prayers for him Lynne but give him nothing! I think CM said it pretty well. {{Lynn}}
Posted 2 years ago by SammyandOliversmama #
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(((Lynn)))
Posted 2 years ago by KYKAT 12 23 #
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I'm so sorry to hear about your son, Lynn. It hurts to see our kids make poor choices, but they have to live with the consequences. I hope one of the outcomes for your son is that he gets whatever treatment he needs to make better choices. I don't blame you for wanting nothing to do with him at this stage. It is tough love. You are in my prayers (as always!). {{{hugs}}}
Posted 2 years ago by Kitten Whisperer #
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