I can see my posts, but several times in the past week people have not responded to things I've said/asked directly to them, so I'm wondering if I've gone invisible. I was kind of hurt when nobody so much as said welcome back after I'd been away for 10 days, but now I'm wonderning if it's because they can't see me.
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Have I become invisible?
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Thanks all, I was starting to worry there :) Beth, I'm sorry you're having a rough time. I hope whatever it is smooths itself out. Ditto for 2P and everyone who's feeling sad/ignored/sick.
Cheri, how's your clingy Spice kitty? I think she just needs time to figure out how the universe works without Velvet.
Hugs, all.
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i'm happy your back kilroy we need you.. it's just been one thing after another these past 2 or 3 weeks... this afternoon someone tried to break into my house, while i was home lucklily i was able to push the door shut it was horrible and the police hunted down the guys .. i do have adt.. . which is a whole other story in itself....i'm still to upset to discuss it... ugh...
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Kilroy, 2 Popoki, SMM, I'm so sorry you've been feeling like that. Welcome back, Kilroy! I didn't post when you arrived back but I wish now I had, because I always love to see your postings. Guys, I'm so sorry. I hope SMM's leaving is only temporary.
I'm sure nobody meant to ignore you. I think people are so busy these days that they just have time to pop in and out and often don't have time to linger -- I know that's the case with me during the day (well, my day, which is usually the evening for the rest of you). I get to linger when most of you are fast asleep.
Please don't disappear you guys, I will MISS you! I may not always be on at the same time as you but I love to read about what you are doing. {{{HUGS}}}
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Yikes, SM! I didn't mean to make you feel bad, you've got enough to deal with. I was just feeling sort of invisible and sorry for myself. {{{SM}}}
BTW, I have some big news from my CA trip, but I can't share it for about another month (now, how's that for a way to make sure you all pay attention?) :)
ETA: I'm outta here in about 2 minutes, but will check in later or tomorrow a.m.
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SMM's leaving was like a kick in the head to me. I answered her every post. I even emailed her. She didn't even acknowledge that. I understand I am not the one she obviously wanted to respond to her, but I did. I pray for her and I have hurt so much for what she has been going through.
I echo Jcat. I really am trying to keep up on all posts. I know when I get home from a 10-12 hour day I have a hard time making sure I have read all the posts, and I know I miss some. It doesn't mean I don't miss anyone. I am catching up now that I am in this forced time out position. I care for all my friends here and miss them when I can't post.
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Hi Kilroy! I missed the thread, but as it is I only get on here once a day or once every other day...threads drop off the front page so fast sometimes that one would have to dedicate a good part of each day looking at all the threads to keep up with everything. I think it was easier when we would all meet at the cafe during the day and on night shift at night for chats instead of all of these different threads.
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I haven't been on as much either, seems like life has been taking strange and twisted turns in my brain lately, and always seem to feel like I have no energy most of the day. Used to be able to chat away while @ work but that has been too erratic with either being crazy busy, training the new guy, or just again lack of energy to do anything but listen to the radio(s) (from 4-12 channels in my ears) and answer agents. Heck even MS and jcat can attest to my missing in action some days on the NS, sigh. So sorry if I haven't answered as much as I used to, hope to get energy back soon or at least kick start it.
Truly hope that people understand how life does get in the way and I honestly don't believe in any part of my heart that our TDK family would intentionally ignore anyone.
Posted 2 years ago by AZDEBRA 5/27 & crew #
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Kilroy, I'm glad you are here - and I love seeing George's picture. I'm afraid I have fallen into the "seldom online" group lately too. Just a lot of things going on. I feel bad too, because I know I miss things when I don't check in very often. Tuesday is my one night where I have some free time, so now I have some major catching up to do!
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When did SMM leave?
I guess that shows you how much time I've spent here lately. I'm just feeling really edgy because the $200-a-month cut in pay that these senseless furloughs are giving me is making it hard for me to concentrate on anything but paying for food and medicine/medical bills.
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Leeny, I didn't realise that SMM had left either. I have also been missing Ange and GD lately, although I hope that is just because they are both happy and very busy. It has been so nice to have Anncetera posting again lately (and I know you are both busy and happy, Ann). It makes me so sad when people leave. {{{HUGS}}} to all who are feeling neglected.
SM, did she say on TDK she was leaving? Sometimes by the time I get on, threads have already gone off the main board and I don't always manage to catch up with them.
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I've been looking through the back lists of threads to see if I could find out anything about it, SM. Did she post a thread about it, or just stop posting?
BTW, during my search I found the thread about how irritating the animated dog in that ad is. Now that I think of it, that ad is getting me to scan the list as quickly as possible to get it (the ad) out of my sight.
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I apologize Kilroy..I saw you back and I didn't even think to welcome you back. I am so sorry. I didn't realize that SMM left either. I am not on as much anymore, life does get in the way and you think I need to comment but don't have the time and forget or you miss the thread. I don't think any one ignores anyone intentionally either. If I have I am sorry.
Posted 2 years ago by cricketsmama #
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Hi Kilroy and welcome back!
I just read this thread and the thread when SMM left. I was so sad when she did and didn't see the reason for it. I do hope she comes back. Everyone here is so valued and needed.
I know, for me, that I cannot get on at work anymore (hoping that will change soon) so that put a damper on things for me. At the very least I could lurk and keep up with eveyrone. I'm so busy at night (I can't imagine what my life would be like if I had kids! Bless all those parents out there, especially single parents...have no clue how you do it.) Also, this time of year gets crazy for a lot of folks. I know I wish I could spend more time here, maybe after the first of the year.
I try to keep up but as others have said sometimes threads fall off the main page and that's all I have time to read. That's why I keep everyone in my prayers, in case I miss something specific. All I know is that I value everyone here and I've never seen anyone treated in a deliberately hurtful manner. I hope SMM comes back.
And now I'm off for a while. Will try and peek in later and wish Amy well tomorrow and check in on SM and oh, just everybody in this family that I love!
Posted 2 years ago by Jetta and Boo Boo's Mom #
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Ditto to all those comments before me!..... I'm so sorry Kilroy, 2P, SMM and anyone else feeling that way!... we love you!!!!... I've started a new job, so I barely get on at all anymore!..... I'm on at sparrow fart for just a few minutes, and then occasionally at night, but that's about it!..... I still keep you all in my prayers, and love keeping up with what's going on when I get a chance to read back threads......((huggs)) to all, and I hope the Christmas season, and the gaboodle of cards we all receive will help remind us all of the special connection we have through this site!......
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I can't keep up with the posts. I have no internet at work and dial up at home ( soooo slowwwwwwwwww) so I know I miss a lot. That said you guys are an important part of my life; I do care; I pray for everyone when a need is expressed I read the books for book club but don't always answer all the questions. And I think I always get to the party when its over LOL.
Posted 2 years ago by Cat talk rules #
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Don't feel bad, CTR, I almost always come in late to the party! I've missed most of the TDK dustups when they were going on; I usually end up wandering into the debris, scratching my head and wondering what the heck happened. (I also seem to come in after posts have been deleted, which always makes me even more confused.) I always offer up a prayer every day for my TDK friends who may be going through rough times.
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