My honey and I are having problems again. My heart is breaking and so is his. Please,please pray for our healing and coming together. Thanks family. I'm not ready to give up.
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Lainey needs Valentine's Day Prayers
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Posted 1 year ago by Jetta and Boo Boo's Mom #
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Hang in there Lainey! We are all here for you!
Posted 1 year ago by mollycat71 #
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I can't stop crying. He won't return my calls or emails and Iknow he is hurting, too. Why do people who love each other so much do stupid things? He is my world (yes, I know, the world will go on regardless) but I am so in love with him and him with me. I'm worried about him. I need "us" to go on.
Posted 1 year ago by Jetta and Boo Boo's Mom #
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((Lainey)) Hugs and prayers to you and your honey. I hope things work out
Posted 1 year ago by cricketsmama #
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Lainey have the two of you ever thought about talking with someone? Maybe a counsilor or a couples retreat would be a way to address the issues you have. Either way remember that with a committed couple everyday is Valentine's. So many get bogged down in the commercialism and then Valentine's Day seems anything but special. May you two be able to spend time together and focus on what is important to you both.
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SM - I would but right now he won't (stubborn man). He thinks we can either overcome our problems or not. We HAD been talking about him moving in. My heart is breaking, breaking, breaking. Thanks everyone for the thoughts and prayers. Please keep them up.
I'll update on my dad when I stop crying. he is doing okay, he's home now and I'm at his house for the night. This computer is SLOW but I just deleted a bunch of junk that was on it and it went from snail to turtle pace!
Posted 1 year ago by Jetta and Boo Boo's Mom #
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Lainey, I believe you can start going to marriage counselling by yourself and perhaps, once he sees how this is a sign of your commitment to the relationship and how it is helping you, you or the counsellor can persuade him to attend with you one day. Who knows what may follow?
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My aetheist hubby went with me to a priest for marriage counsilling. Who would have guessed??? Now I say if he could do that--and trust me he is a military guy--any type of therapy is an admission that you are not healthy--he ALWAYS put the military FIRST AND FOREMOST. I am here to say that I understand the stubborn thoughts and misconceptions about getting help. I did as JCat said, I had 5 appointments before he went. I was preparing for a divorce that he decided he didn't want--although he was the one that said he didn't love me and never had. I will never forget that day. September 11, 2001. I was hurting for different reasons. I am living proof that things can change. He realized many things--so did I. I learned to live a life devoid of him and be content. He found out that he wanted me to be a part of him as we were in the beginning and that he took me for granted 110%. What ever the problem you two are having, I reccommend that you find someone to help you talk through the issues--for your own sense of purpose. Maybe as he sees you taking care of you--he will want to take care of the us.
Today for Valentine's Day he found an orange heart (favorite flavor) that said I love you. He presented it to me at church this morning and kissed my head--not the same man I married--yet exactly the same.
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Oh SM - thank you for sharing your story with me. I'm sad you went through what you went through but it got you to today. I will probably do as JCAT and you suggest, take care of me. If he leaves I'm gonna need the "help" and if he stays, perhaps it will help, if not just me, as you say, us.
Posted 1 year ago by Jetta and Boo Boo's Mom #
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You are strong, Lainey. Stay strong. {{{Lainey and Honey}}}
Posted 1 year ago by JoanfromNewJersey #
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Thanks Joan. I'm taking my broken heart and puffy eyes to bed. If I can't sleep I'll come back. I'm at my dad's helping out (my BIL got me here in his 4WD suburban and that was an adventure! My street doesn't get plowed.. we have moguls to compete with the olympics!).
Please everyone, PLEASE pray for me and honey. Please.
Posted 1 year ago by Jetta and Boo Boo's Mom #
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Praying hard as I can, Lainey. Hugs to you and your honey. And hugs to you to, SM, and your hubby.
Posted 1 year ago by paulajeanne #
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Sending lots of positive wishes for you and your honey, Lainey. Some good advice has been given here.
Posted 1 year ago by KapitiKats in NZ #
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I still haven't heard from him. Time will tell. Thanks everyone.
Posted 1 year ago by Jetta and Boo Boo's Mom #
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We talked last night for a couple of hours. We are gonna take it one day at a time right now. Once things are resolved with my dad I think I will enter counseling on my own (depending on the money situation) and go from there. Thanks everyone for your support, love and prayers for us. I really appreciate them and you!
Posted 1 year ago by Jetta and Boo Boo's Mom #
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Me too, JCAT, me too. Right now I"m so sad and stressed I don't know if I'm coming or going. We are both fond of the saying: time will tell. We will have been together four years in April. The last couple have been rough. We both hope love will see us through. Sometimes love is not enough. I know that no matter what happens my TDK family will stand with me and that means the world to me.
Posted 1 year ago by Jetta and Boo Boo's Mom #
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{{{Lainey}}}
Posted 1 year ago by Moonshadow_NZ #
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Just saw this thread. {{Lainey}}
Posted 1 year ago by SammyandOliversmama #
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