Awww he is adorable. When I was much, much younger, we had a kitty that looked exactly like that. Thank you for the welcome though! :)
I won't make another thread yet, but I will see if anyone can help me here.
Besides Sam, I have two other cats, Cletus who is 9 and truly my world, and another cat named Barney who is more so the family cat. Cletus is very unique and pretty much the dominant cat in the house. Barney is more so just doing his own thing, but extremely loveable. Cletus does not really like Sam, and Barney, I had never seen him hiss before and he was spitting, and hissing, and growling when he saw him.
So I would crate Sam when they wanted to come in here, and try to get them used to each other. Cletus did alright, but I had to ask him to leave, and I mean ask him nicely, and he goes. I only did so because I could tell Sam was getting really scared, cowering in the back and it worried me.
Now, my brother lives here and has a dog that nobody likes in the house, pet wise and me, he has attacked my dogs before, while they were alive, and I do not like him one bit. Very loveable dog, he is just very territorial. Anyway, both Cletus and Barney know my room as a sanctuary, as other rooms as well. So I feel bad neglecting them to spend time in here as often. Barney has blocked because of the stress from Bruiser and nearly died, we got extremely lucky with him, so I don't want that to happen to Sam either with the cats trying to dominate him.
How can I get Cletus to accept him? He is the one I am worried about. I have had them meet via separated cage and behind a door, Cletus and Sam, I rubbed them down with a clean, new sock and let them smell each other and they loved it, but in sight, Cletus just does not approve. Cletus is about 20lbs, Barney is at least 25lbs, and Sam is maybe a pound or two, something like that. The thought of a fight breaking out is very scary. Now Barney is younger than Cletus, but he was a cat when we introduced him to Cletus, and Cletus was around 5-6.
Is there a way to ensure the safety of either cat? Should I wait for Sam to get older too before introducing them face to face?
Any help would greatly be appreciated!
Posted 1 year ago by SySteve #