And by text none the less. Just didn't "feel it" anymore. Has been doing a lot of thinking and he is at a crossroads in his life & "midlife crisis". He said I am "too good" for him and since I have a Master's degree he always felt less around me. He said he couldn't tell me in person because he knew how sad I would be and it would be worse then. (He did mention that my brain disorder is scary to him too). I asked him why he didn't bring this up before and he said he couldn't because I am such a good person. I did ask him if there is someone else and he did say no. I don't feel there is. I am very sad right now to be with him a year and a half and now he's gone. Being ready to turn 40 I had hoped for so much more. I may be away for a while while I work through this. Prayers and hugs would be welcome. Thanks! MC
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So FF dumped me today! MC :(
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Posted 1 year ago by mollycat71 #
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Oh Amy I'm sooo sorry! Many hugs and prayers and thoughts with you during this sad time. You are an amazing woman. Take all the time you need and we will always be here for you.
Posted 1 year ago by Jetta and Boo Boo's Mom #
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Oh my Amy! Sending you TLC hang in there hugs with purrs and headbonks as you work thru this! (It seems kinda soon to say this but as the saying goes "when one door closes another one opens".) You will get thru this and be ready for another even better relationship with a special Mr X when the time comes.
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Oh Amy. Honey, I am so sorry. I think it was wrong how he decided to tell you. Obviously, he has issues and can't seem to get over them. It's his loss. I totally understand if you need time away but remember we are here for you. Lick your wounds and grieve, that is natural honey...You suffered a loss and it sucks.
Sending you lots of hugs and purrs.Posted 1 year ago by cricketsmama #
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WHAT?!?!?!?!?!?!
Ladies and gentlemen...prepare your whack bonk sticks! We've got us some FF hunting to do!
In all seriousness, MC, I know there is not much I can say that will help you make sense of what FF did. I feel terrible that you are sad now and if you want to talk, let me know. Hug on Betty and Wilma and let them comfort you.
(((MC)))
Posted 1 year ago by roxysmommy #
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Much love to you, Amy, and I can totally understand how you feel. Like everyone else, I feel the text breakup was very wrong, and perhaps cowardly as Kathy said. I'm sure he is a good man, shown by the fact that he has been a rock for you in the past year. But there are right and wrong ways to handle situations like breaking off a relationship. You've been through so much and have shown strength like I have NEVER seen in a person with such a debilitating physical problem, so I'm sure that you will rise above this, too. It hurts--I know!! There is someone who is just as special as you out there and God will lead him to you.
Posted 1 year ago by MaxandCali'sMom #
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{{{MC}}}
Posted 1 year ago by JoanfromNewJersey #
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Im so sorry Amy. What a spazmazoid loser.
Posted 1 year ago by TheKnittingNinja #
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I am so sorry to hear this, Amy. Sending you gentle hugs.
Posted 1 year ago by Lynn from PA 6/8 #
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(((Amy))) I'm sorry about this. Remember, a guy who tells you 'you're too good for me' is telling the truth. I know you are sad, but remember you hvae many friends here who love you. I will stop now at the risk of getting very unfluffy.
xoxoxoxoxox
Posted 1 year ago by HuddysMama #
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Amy, as much of a coward as he is......at least he had the courage to relize he could not care for you properly ......his selfishness has opened a door for you to one day, be minding your own business and a dazzling guy will meander by, and fall in love and want to - to his soul, take you and care for you gently and lovingly ... meanwhile take heart your sisters are all around you providing that love and care until he arrives!
Posted 1 year ago by jinxedfairy #
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Aww I'm not sure who FF is, but I can't believe over a text message. That does hurt, I've had a guy do that before, oh well, good riddance to him. You deserve so much more and better. You want the guy who can give you the best, and make you feel like you're on the top of the world. They say, when God closes a door, he opens a window. Take this as an opportunity. He may have gone about it the wrong way, but if he feels you're too good for him, then you are, you deserve the absolute best.
purrs and headbonks from Duchess and I.
Posted 1 year ago by Duchess&&Gabriel #
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I'm so sorry, Amy. Maybe he'll think it over and realize that he really misses you and being with you and scared is better than the alternative. He was there for you during some pretty rough medical times. Perhaps his time alone will help him sort out how he feels and let him separate the inner you from the medical issues.
Posted 1 year ago by CheetahBoysmommy #
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MC,
I know you will need time to adjust but please stay in contact. The others are correct in calling a text breakup cowardly. But it is so much more. It is immaturity. FF is just a boy (he could be 100 yrs old and he would still be a boy) and you do not need to hitch your star to a child.
Center yourself and don't sell yourself short. You have all the time in the world to find a mature relationship.
Posted 1 year ago by ailuromaniac #
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I'm so sorry MC! I know this hurts terribly, but HM is right, you ARE too good for him and you WILL find someone better for you. You are a fabulous and brave person and we all look up to you. {{HUGS}} and sweetie, 40 is a baby :) You have tons of time and lots to do in life!
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MC, I am so, so sorry. Texting was absolutely a cold and cowardly way to tell you this. Of course you would have been sad had he told you in person but he certainly owed you that. I wish I had some sage advice but I know that this is a hurt and pain that you will have to deal with. There is someone out there waiting for you, I just know it. You are too kind, and too special, and not meant to be alone. He will probably turn up at the most unexpected moment.
I am sending lots of hugs and love.
Posted 1 year ago by WillowandWindismom #
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I am so sorry MC. My last serious bf dumped me after a year via email (which I didn't get). So then after not hearing from him from three days and becoming frantic with worry, I finnaly reached him and he was stunned that I hadn't received the email and had to break up with me very awkwardly over the phone. I was stunned because I never saw it coming. I was so hurt, so I know what that feels like. You are in my thoughts.
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Amy, I am so sorry to hear about this.Cannot imagine the idea of breaking up a relationship with someone via text or e-mail, or even phone for that matter. It's hard to find words for that. Everyone knows how strong a woman you are and you will get through this, too. Many hugs heading your way, and you know Betty and Wilma will help you through this, too. ((((Amy))))
Posted 1 year ago by morrissmom #
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