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    Ginger,
    I am so sorry for the loss of your innocence as a child at the hands of your father. May peace and gentleness comfort you at this time of your loss.
    Peace and love,
    Tinafish

    Posted 4 years ago by tinafishfrombirthplaceofElvis #

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    Rainingwolf, you have my thoughts and prayers today and for as long as you need them. Remember, we're here for you.

    Posted 4 years ago by BCAMflorida227 #

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    I hope you can find it within yourself to Let Go finally of those tough feelings you've been holding inside. You did nothing wrong....you were the wronged one. Find peace, friend....

    Posted 4 years ago by Siobhan #

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    rainingwolf, I'm so sorry for you. I am praying for you and thinking of you. You probably feel like you do because even after all he did to you, he's still your father, your blood. Peace and love to you.

    Posted 4 years ago by HuddysMama #

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    Rainwolf, I'm so sorry for your loss. I am praying for you and your family..

    Posted 4 years ago by 2bpurring #

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    Dear TDK friends,
    Thank you so much for the notes of support and caring. They have truly been a comfort. I have made an appointment with my counselor to talk things out, and our pastor will be visiting soon also. I am doing better. One thing he did do before dying was give my aunt the last name of my half brother who I have been looking for for nearly 10 years.This is something he always refused to do before. I have 6 half brothers and sisters I've never met, but the brother is the only one I ever lived with, though I was only 6 months old when he was taken away. So I am digging in the internet in earnest now trying to find him. That is the one decent thing my Dad did before he died, so it helped to relieve some of the anger and pain.
    Again, I appreciate your support so much-your prayers and kind words have been like a warm blanket, and I am very grateful.
    Love and hugs,
    Ginger/Rainingwolf

    Posted 4 years ago by rainingwolf #

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    {{{HUGS}}}. I'm holding you close in prayer Ginger. I so hope your able to find your half-brother & that it becomes the beautiful friendship between siblings that you deserve.

    Posted 4 years ago by feral #

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    My dear Ginger, I send you the brightest rays of sunshine I can find and many, many hugs today, as you search for your half-brother. I do hope you are able to find him soon and can build a wonderful, lasting relationship with him. Also, my prayers and warmest thoughts are with you as you wrestle with the death of your earthly "father." With the passage of time, I believe, you may find eventually find some peace.

    Posted 4 years ago by dottiebj #

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    In a sermon, my pastor once called the Christian church "a family in which water is thicker than blood" (a reference to baptism; I don't know if he was quoting someone else). When those whose blood we share treat us in ways that no one should ever be treated, it is devastating, because they're the ones who are supposed to love us most. It isn't hopeless, though, when there are others who will give us the love we should have had.

    Peace be with you, Rainingwolf.

    Posted 4 years ago by Leeny #

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    You have my continued prayers Ginger,I am glad he gave you the name of your half brother. I hope you find him soon. As Leeny said,peace be with you.
    {{{{HUGS}}}}

    Posted 4 years ago by Buttercup #

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    Ginger, You have my prayers and white light. I am glad you are seeing your couselor and Pastor and I hope they, with the Heavenly Father, will help you to find peace. Prayers also for your seach for your half brother. You have my email if you ever need to just talk.

    Posted 4 years ago by KYKAT 12 23 #

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    Ginger... everyone has said things so well, I can only say "ditto" My sincerest condolences. And healing and positive energies to you.

    Posted 4 years ago by 2 Popoki #

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    I echo what others have said but I want to say I am sorry for your loss even if he wasn't the parent you wanted or needed.

    "The death of a parent, no matter how wonderful or how awful, is very hard. It is always sad to lose a parent, especially when you know now that things can never be the way you wanted them to--he took away another choice when he passed. So get angry or be sad--let any feelings you have flow through you and deal with the reality so you can go forward from here. Just remember that you are loved and admired by a whole lot of people and draw from our strength when necessary. I send prayers and white light to you."

    Your going to a counselor is the best thing you can do for yourself. That person can help you work through your grief, your anger and hopefully lead you to be at peace.

    Hugs and prayers to you.

    Posted 4 years ago by SylvesterMiasMomma #

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    I am so glad you're in the world, Ginger. We can all do without people like your father.

    We cannot do without you.

    Posted 4 years ago by Emma #

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