Talked to numerous lawyers/legal aid,etc all have the same to say. Inform ex of move and wait until he refuses to return the kids. I know this man too well and know what he is going to do. AARRGGHH! I know I must tell him, but I am so afraid I will never get the boys back. I am just venting here, I know what I must do, but it sure doesn't make it any easier. Thanks for listening guys.
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Hugs to you, rn4restrn. You have to follow the rules of the court and give your husband the 90 day notice. I am sure this is difficult and frustrating not to mention stressful but you will get through this all.
Posted 1 year ago by SylvesterMiasMomma #
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You are in the right, have faith that justice will prevail.
My best wishes and prayers to you.Posted 1 year ago by Tigerlilly #
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It may be hard and scary but what about staying where you are until the boys return from the summer then make your move?
I know school transfers in mid year are a pain but If you delay 6 mos. You have the boys in your custody, and the 90 day notice.
Posted 1 year ago by ailuromaniac #
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That gives you 2 mos to find job and appt. before move is forced.
Posted 1 year ago by ailuromaniac #
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Lots more {{hugs}}
Posted 1 year ago by MadcatwomanintheUK #
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Julie! I must have missed something! Why does the ex have kids? This the one you areleaving now? Or the boys biological father?
Posted 1 year ago by Momma to 2 MaineCoons #
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Ange, the boys' biological father will have them for the summer, that's when he's to have the kids.
Posted 1 year ago by paulajeanne #
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oh so she's worried he wont send them back? got it!
Posted 1 year ago by Momma to 2 MaineCoons #
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Julie, first of all you are in my prayers honey. Talk to the kids and explain to them what is happening and what MIGHT happen with their dad. They should be in the loop so if the worst does happen, they are kinda expecting it and not scared or believing lies that are told to them. They can always contact the authorities themselves and let them know their father is keeping them without consent. I wish I were closer so I could help you. ((HUGS))
Posted 1 year ago by cricketsmama #
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Sorry LV for the confusion.
My ex will have the boys for summer break and I am to have them back at the end. This will be the FIRST time he has ever had the kids for more than two weeks in the boys entire lives. So I am very scared that when I inform him that I HAVE to move due to a divorce from my current husband he(the ex) is going to try and keep the boys.
Every lawyer I have spoken with has told me there is nothing I can do unless he refuses to let me have them back at the end of summer. So I must give him notice of my move and it allows him 90+ days to plot and plan against it.
So it loks like I will have to wait and see what he does. I will have to move our household alone, set up a new residence, get a job, and pray to God I get my boys back. Needless to say I am scared to death.
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I would be too Julie, I can only imagine what you are going through right now. YOu are in my prayers that it all works out for you and fast. (HUGS)
Posted 1 year ago by cricketsmama #
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Since the ex has very little experience with 2 young boys, full time, for anything more than 2 weeks... he may find it more of a challenge than he's willing to take on. I am speaking only from personal experience from when my boys were young. I was married at that time, and my (now ex) husband could barely handle a 4 day weekend of me being gone. And the kids were in school most of that time. My thoughts are with you Julie... sending tons of positive energy your way.
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