I am new to the forum, but have thoroughly enjoyed reading the messages so far! =^..^= I'm hoping someone can help with my quandry.
I rescued a long haired cat nearly 2 years ago. She was a feral cat who presented me with her 9 kittens after she felt safe enough with me to bring them to the door. I think she is a Maine Coon. Eventually she would let me pet her, and she'd even get up into the lawn swing with me as long as I didn't try to hold her. We took her kittens to a rescue center when they were old enough, but we captured, spayed, and adopted her. She has since become and remained a house cat, and has gained an extreme amount of weight. She only eats twice a day like our other cats, but her weight just piled on! With her really long hair, she now has trouble cleaning her behind. The vet seems to think she may have suffered thyroid damage nursing that large family.
While we were gone for 6 weeks this spring, she became really matted and nasty back there, but she will NOT allow anyone to hold her down to clean and trim her. Although she likes to jump up and lay on my lap, she has never allowed us to pick her up, and now it's even more impossible. She's certainly not afraid to use those teeth and claws......I have many scars from them just having her jump up on my lap and lose her balance, so I can imagine the damage she'd do if she feels threatened. I feel so bad because she wants up on my lap, but she smells soooooooo horrible, that I can't allow it.
Any suggestions??? ANY will be appreciated!!! Thanks.