Hi Ange - I feel like the last person in the world to advise re mothers and guilt right now, and certanly couldn't add to or better any of the advise you've already been given...so just have some heartfelt {{{hugs}}} xx
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Posted 4 years ago by MadcatwomanintheUK #
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Thanks everyone one. I am starting my search twofold now. Plus searching for a place in a larger area, though it does now mean I need to estimate a little more towards gas. Yes change can be stressful, and scary, but I have decided I need this, I can do this and my Mom made sure I was prepared for this since I was a kid. Now last step is to find a place. I had originally be looking for a reasonable 1 or 2 bedroom place, but way outta my range. So I have taken your wise advice started looking for share rentals. Even some of these are outta my range once you add utilities to it, plus other needful things. I keep looking though and with all of your support, advice, prayers I am sure things will become available that I can manage.
Thanks again my family.
AngePosted 4 years ago by Momma to 2 MaineCoons #
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Ange, in your search look for 1 room apartments also, can't remember what they are called off-hand. Some of them are actually spacious enough for 1 person and a kitten or cat (if you choose to have one), and some have all the utilities but electric and/or water included (just examples, a lot of them have cable/trash/and what-have-you paid with the rent). Just more thoughts for your search.
Posted 4 years ago by AZDEBRA 5/27 & crew #
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Oh and I forgot, usually the 1 room apts are between 400-600 sq ft w/bathroom and kitchen or kitchenette.
Posted 4 years ago by AZDEBRA 5/27 & crew #
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OP, yeah that's it....see what happens when one sleeps one hour vs 3-4 hrs, lol
Posted 4 years ago by AZDEBRA 5/27 & crew #
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OP your right studios. Been looking but most are 800 and up. But haven't given up yet on them.
Posted 4 years ago by Momma to 2 MaineCoons #
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Ange, another path is to look for a small space in private home. Sometimes you can find a person looking for help with the mortgage that rents out a small space which includes kitchen privledges and such. Mostly they try to keep this affordable. I've also seen where they sometimes knock off some rent for lawn care and such.
Posted 4 years ago by Elene_YorkPA_7/21 #
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Hi everyone! Good news sat down tonight with mom and talked things over about moving and everything else. I feel as if a great weight and the guilt is completely gone. We discussed what are fears are about the move, what we will miss and ways to still do some of them.
Mom felt really bad for stressing me into feel guilt, but she didn't realize her emotions were washing over me in waves. Once she aired her concerns we discussed them to figure out ways to relieve her stress and worry.
Ijust wanted to thank everyone for your support and advice.
Loads of love and grautatued (spelling ?)
AngePosted 4 years ago by Momma to 2 MaineCoons #
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Ange,
Great news!
I replied to you on night shift.
I am so happy for you.Posted 4 years ago by artistabobbi TX 1/17 #
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thanks bobbi i will look.
Posted 4 years ago by Momma to 2 MaineCoons #
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So cool everyone. Mom and i had chinese tonight just got around to finishing it and got to the cookie. It had two messages inside, rare.
But here's what bthey say
"Look with favor upon a new beginning" and
"You may find your horizions suddenly broadened"Wow! Is this a message possibly? Whst do you all think?
Ange
Posted 4 years ago by Momma to 2 MaineCoons #
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ya think so!
Posted 4 years ago by Momma to 2 MaineCoons #
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