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Meezer moms

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  1. The capturing and spaying of Susie's feral Meezer got me to thinking about the Meezer I once had in my life. She belonged to my best friend, and her name was SuLee. She was given to my friend by her daughter after both of my friend's long-time animal companions had died. SuLee came from the daughter's neighbor; the kitty was about 3 years old and was supposed to have papers, but the neighbor never provided them. My friend thought it was very strange that SuLee, being Siamese, never meowed or played. After we learned her story, we understood.
    SuLee had been a breeder in a kitten mill. Somehow, the neighbor acquired her and, in the neighbor's words, "got a couple of litters out of her" also. SuLee and her babies were housed in an outdoor cage. She managed to escape the cage and move her last litter to a nearby wooded area, where a son of Friend's Daughter found them. I don't know all of what happened after that, but SuLee was given to my friend.
    SuLee's first meows came when she went into heat. She went immediately to the spa. The vet didn't know her background, although his staff did. When the doctor opened her abdomen, he found SuLee's reproductive organs to be in a terrible condition. He said that it looked like she had become pregnant every time she went into heat, and the staff assisting him said that was probably exactly what happened.
    SuLee became quite familiar with going to the vet. She had the worst case of ear mites the vet had ever seen. He had to put her under general anesthesia to clean and treat her ears because they were so uncomfortable she wouldn't let him touch them. I brought her home after one of her ear treatments; she was still half unconscious, but even in that state, she tried to raise a back leg to scratch her ear.
    After the medical problems were solved, SuLee became a very social and vocal Meezer. She loved to play with people's hair, and she would lie on my friend's pillow wrapped around the top of my friend's head. She was very skilled at using her front paws and could untie ribbons.
    Several months later, my friend had to enter a personal care home. It was run like a family home rather than an institution; the couple who ran it lived there themselves. Although they already had a pair of dachshunds, the husband fell in love with the Meezer and brought her home to see if the dogs would "let her stay." Not only did they let her stay, they learned quickly that she was going to be at the top of the home's pet hierarchy. She hissed and swatted at the dogs when they bothered her (somewhere along the line she had been declawed, so no one ever got scratched). Soon, the dogs became so deferrential that, if SuLee approached the water bowl when they were drinking, the dogs would back up, let her drink, then resume when she had finished.
    Eight months after moving to the home, my friend died in her sleep. SuLee was in the room when it happened and spent a good part of the next morning sitting in the bathroom howling. The couple who owned the home kept her. The last time I saw her, she was meowing enthusiastically at the husband, on whose chest she slept every night.

    We're all very glad that Susie's feral has been to the spa and that she will no longer have to undergo the constant reproductive ordeal that she shared with SuLee. The only thing that saddens me is that Meezer had become pregnant and the kittens had to die. From what the vet said, though, it seems that Meezer's body may have been wearing out like SuLee's did, so the kittens might not have survived anyway. There's a song by Sarah McLachlan, called "Angel", that the ASPCA uses as background music on one of their TV ads. I've rewritten the refrain for Meezer's lost kittens.

    "In the arms of the angels, fly away from here,
    from this cold clinic table and the worn life that brought you here.
    You were pulled from the frailty of your mother's drained body.
    You're in the arms of the angels; you will find much comfort there."

    Posted 1 year ago by Leeny #

  2. at least those kittens died a humane death

    they weren't diseased or starved
    they hadn't been hit by a car or mauled by something larger than themselves
    they didn't die from being overbred

    and I'm sure that God has told them they were loved...

    Posted 1 year ago by Cheri 12/22 #

  3. Leeny, what a wonderful story, and in the words of the song, she found much comfort there, as did her feline friend. So sorry for your loss. Hugs and purrs. Mama Lynn

    Posted 1 year ago by Lynn from PA 6/8 #

  4. I just went back and read the rest of "OMG I Caught Her" thread regarding the kittens who never arrived.

    I am 110% positive that those babies are happy, healthy, whole and playing with Jerry/Chester across the Bridge. And no one needs to feel guilty about not bringing them into this world. Who knows how healthy they would have been if they came to term?, and what a stress on poor Siameezer to have yet another brood to care for.

    Hard as it was to do, all the right decisions were made.

    Posted 1 year ago by CheetahBoysmommy #

  5. I just want to make it clear that, even though I am sad about it, I do know that the kittens could not be brought to term and that everything that happened had to happen. I certainly don't think anyone should feel guilty about anything; Susie has done a superhuman job in caring for these ferals. I know that the kittens could have been in poor shape had they been born ("From what the vet said, though, it seems that Meezer's body may have been wearing out like SuLee's did, so the kittens might not have survived anyway"; "worn life"; "frailty...drained body"). That whole situation with the ferals has been, and still is, tremendously difficult, and Susie is doing a superb job of handling it. The refrain from the song is basically something I used to comfort myself.

    Posted 1 year ago by Leeny #

  6. Leeny...Thank You for your story. Altho it made me cry uncontrolably. It does bother me that their little lives were shorten,but,I know it was best in order to save their mother & prevent anymore litters. Keeping track of all the litters she had & the litters that her offspring had as well, I know of the loss of only three. Knight,the brother to Naughtyboy,Prettygirl & Runt was lost to coyotes.One of Runt's Tuxie boys was lost to coyotes, & one Prettygirl's kittens (tortie) was lost to a raccoon. As for Siameezer's last litter...I was told omly that she had 3 or 4. I told them I didn't want to know anymore details. It was already a hard decision to make.
    After all that Siameezer has been thru,I don't want her to be lost as well. She wants out so bad that she actually meowed about 5 times in a row. The first real meows I ever heard from her. I wonder,even tho I wanted to keep her in longer,if I were to let her out tomorrow,if she would resume eating? I'm just afraid that if their is anything serious going on,I'd never be able to catch her again & she'd be doomed to infection.

    Posted 1 year ago by feral #

  7. Susie, because of you, cats are alive who would otherwise be dead--and their deaths would have been very unpleasant. Some have homes, others live independent lives in their territories. Even now that she's been to the spa, you're still left with the difficult judgment call on Siameezer. You can only do what you think is best.

    Posted 1 year ago by Leeny #

  8. Your right Leeny. I'm anxious to let her back out there where she feels the most comfortable & to be back with her babies Naughty & Pretty (even if they are 2.5 yrs.old,they'll always be her babies). I just want to be sure she's well enuf to avoid infection. She can't stay wellif she isn't eating or drinking. So you can understand my worry.

    Posted 1 year ago by feral #

  9. I understand completely, Susie. Your dedication to these kitties is awesome.

    Posted 1 year ago by Leeny #

  10. Leeny, that verse is beautiful. I'm still wiping away the tears. Susie, I think if she has the gumption to meow several times, she's still doing ok, just signifying her irritation at being restrained. Bet you will find she does some drinking tonight.

    Posted 1 year ago by paulajeanne #

  11. Leeny, that was a wonderfully written story, thank you for sharing it :)

    Posted 1 year ago by AZDEBRA 5/27 & crew #

  12. Having teary eyes - again. Leeny, thanks for a wonderful story. Susie, thank you again for saving Siameezer.

    Posted 1 year ago by miu #


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