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I may be getting another baby

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  1. A young woman just called me here at the office. My landlord gave her my phone number. She needs to place her kitty because of her living arrangements. She's been trying to find a permanent place to live for quite a while, but hasn't been able to find anything suitable. For about a year, her kitty has been confined to her bedroom in the place where she's been living; there are dogs in the home and I suppose they don't get along with him. She's now having to move to a place where she can't bring him at all.

    His name is Gabriel, and he's just about Penny's age. He's used to staying inside, and had his last vet checkup with shots last week. He's gray and white, but his mom said the exact markings are hard to describe. She said he's not really a "people" cat; he's attached to her, but not really to anyone else. My Chappel was just like that; I was his "person". She said he's lived with other cats before and can probably adjust to doing so again. She loves him very much--she called him her baby--but she knows that she can't provide him with a living situation that is fair to him.

    I was really startled when she said that my landlord gave her my phone number because the lease specifies "two indoor cats," which he knows I already have. As long as a third cat is all right with him, though, it's fine with me! I have to talk to Mr. Leeny about it first, though, and I told the young woman that. I took her name and phone number and told her that I would call her tomorrow. Either I'll have to tell her "I'm sorry," or we will arrange for me to go meet Gabriel. I don't know if Mr. Leeny will be able to come; his stomach is upset from some antibiotics he's taking.

    This was the last thing I expected when I came to work today, a kitty proposal! This is the way that most of my cats came to live with me, though; either someone else couldn't keep them, or they just walked into my yard and got themselves adopted. It was only with Buttercup and Penny that I ever went out looking for another cat.

    I'll keep you posted!

    Posted 3 years ago by Leeny #

  2. Wow....another kitty Leeny? I hope everything works out well for all involved.

    Posted 3 years ago by HuddysMama #

  3. How exciting...Is there anything we can do to help convince Mr.Leeny???

    Posted 3 years ago by 2bpurring #

  4. Let him know that taking in Gabriel will not be in any way unfair to Buttercup and Penny or detract from the love and care they are receiving.

    Just a few weeks ago, though, he was wanting to adopt a kitten from the local shelter. The adoption fee was $95, however, and this is the time of year when Buttercup and Penny have their vet visits (Buttercup this month, Penny in August). We also didn't have "official" permission from the landlord, though he had said during the Athens cat abandonment crisis that he didn't think that a third cat "would make any difference." Gabriel has already had his checkup for the year, though, and there's no adoption fee. Mr. Leeny also came to think that a baby kitten might not do so well in a home with two adult cats (I think one of them would have started acting maternal), but Gabriel is Penny's age.

    Posted 3 years ago by Leeny #

  5. Hi Leeny..wow..a kitty proposal. My heart goes out to the young woman who's life is in such an upheaval. Poor Gabriel will surely miss his meowmy and will need alot of loving support wherever he ends up. Giving up a beloved pet is both a heartwrenching but loving gesture. If Gabriel finds a home with you and your Mr. (BTW..I'm sorry to hear he's not well...am sending him prayers) he will be a most fortunate kitty. I am curious that your landlord recommended you for help. This is probably a reflection of your dedication to both your pets and your home life style. Keep us posted hon.

    Posted 3 years ago by Karenopa #

  6. Just among us TDKers, Karenopa, Mr. Leeny is the most unintentionally destructive person I've ever known. I don't know how he does it, but sometimes it seems that he just looks at something and it breaks! According to his family, he's always been that way. I think my landlord figures that Mr. Leeny has done more damage to the duplex than any kitty would do--and he'd be right!

    Posted 3 years ago by Leeny #

  7. Thats how my sister is too! Bless her, things just break around her too. Although I'm pretty bad at that too (my favourite was reaching out to put a glass on a table about 6 inches away from me and missing) my sister beats me.

    Posted 3 years ago by metsa #

  8. Oh My! Then maybe I should be sending prayers for a more graceful Mr. Leeny! Poor Mr. Leeny...I'm a grade A klutz myself...it just seems to come naturally!! :(

    Posted 3 years ago by Karenopa #

  9. Leeny,that's very nice of you to consider helping out the kitty and by doing do her owner. I Hope it works out.

    Posted 3 years ago by Buttercup #

  10. I feel so bad for the lady who has to give up her furbaby. How heartbreaking it would be if one of us was told we had to give up our kitties. Will she be able to visit with Gabriel if you can take him?

    Posted 3 years ago by CheetahBoysmommy #

  11. CB, I don't think she'll be able to visit. She lives about an hour's drive from me, but of course if she wants to come she'll be welcome.

    Here's the message she sent to her colleagues at work:
    "Unfortunately, due to my living situation, I need to give up my cat. He has been living in a bedroom and a bedroom only for almost a year. Cats aren't meant to live like that, and I just can't continue to do that to him anymore. I absolutely love my cat and I would really like to find him a great home instead of bringing him to a shelter. I have been looking into no-kill shelters, but they are all full at this time of year. I got him from a shelter myself, so he has been neutered. He is approximately three years old. He is a really sweet cat. He is a one person cat. He bonds with one person, and could care less about anybody else. He is really quite independent and he likes to do his own thing. When he wants love, he comes looking for it!! I have a litter box, scratching post, and plenty of toys that I'll give along with him for ANYBODY who wants to take him!!! His name is Gabriel. I have attached some pictures of my fabulous boy!! Please consider giving him a good home!!!!"
    Her contact info and three thumbnail shots of Gabriel follow.

    Mr. Leeny was first concerned that Gabriel might disrupt his bond with Penny; then, he was volunteering to go see Gabriel tonight. I told him that I'd told Gabriel's mom I'd call her tomorrow. Now I know I won't be going anywhere tonight because I'm getting a migraine. The visual aura started a little while ago, and I have to get out of here while I can still see to drive.

    Will check back in when my head gets back together!

    Posted 3 years ago by Leeny #

  12. Leeny...you poor dear...I'm sorry about your migraine. I've never had them but understand from others they're completely untolerable and so difficult to treat. Please take care hon. {{{HUGS}}}

    Posted 3 years ago by Karenopa #

  13. Oh my Leeny..Hope you feel better soon...and hope everything works out with Gabriel...I won't be online this weekend, but will check back first thing Monday..*fingers crossed for the new addition*..

    Posted 3 years ago by 2bpurring #

  14. Hope your head clears soon leeny. Then you can go see Gabriel!!! Yay for more cats! :-)

    Posted 3 years ago by MadcatwomanintheUK #

  15. Feel better soon Leeny. Just curious...is Mr. Leeny a lefty? We're among the clumsiest creatures on Earth.

    Posted 3 years ago by HuddysMama #

  16. Ha ha ha ha!!! Sorry, it's the language thing again. Over here, if someone is a "lefty" they're left wing politics wise (ultra liberal, bordering on communism!!!) Made me laugh!

    Posted 3 years ago by MadcatwomanintheUK #

  17. LOL @ MCW

    Posted 3 years ago by HuddysMama #

  18. Feel better, Leeny! Hope everything works out with Gabriel!

    Posted 3 years ago by GreatDane #

  19. Wishing Gabriel gets a good home... :) and a quick recovery to Leeny!

    Posted 3 years ago by miu #

  20. Very fast--we're on our way to meet him and are bringing him home Monday!

    Posted 3 years ago by Leeny #

  21. YAY!!!!!! :) You're awesome, Leeny! Hope you're feeling better!

    Posted 3 years ago by GreatDane #

  22. WOW.. that's awesome Leeny !!!

    Posted 3 years ago by 2 Popoki #

  23. That is so neat Leeny!

    Posted 3 years ago by Buttercup #

  24. Leeny...So sorry about your migraine. I get them & know they are painful.

    Yippeeeeeeeee. Gabriel has a new furrever home!!!

    Posted 3 years ago by feral #

  25. Well, my migraine is gone, but I've had one miserable time with my back today. Would have stayed home except I had to go to a training session on the use of the EndNotes program. Absorbed nothing, just got all my reasons for disliking it confirmed. Going to use online tutorials when they get the program installed. But, that's not what we're here to talk about, is it?

    GABRIEL IS COMING HOME WITH ME TONIGHT! I'm supposed to meet his mom back at the house she's leaving between 7:30 and 8:00. Mr. Leeny and I went to meet him on Saturday. The room in which he and his mom were living is about half the size of my bedroom and is not air conditioned. Gabriel is thin; his mom says he's lost weight because of the stress he's been under. Even the vet report says he needs to gain a pound. (Wish there was some way to take it off of Buttercup and put it on Gabriel.)

    I was wanting to find a place separate from everyone else where I could put Gabriel's things so he could retreat there if things get to be too much for him, but I couldn't find any place like that--cats go everywhere in our home. I'll just have to bring him in and hope for the best. He'll be my 11th kitty, though, and introductions have always worked out all right.

    Posted 3 years ago by Leeny #

  26. Good luck Leeny! It's amazing what can be achieved through the power of tuna!

    Posted 3 years ago by MadcatwomanintheUK #

  27. YAY!!!! Looking forward to more details! :)

    Posted 3 years ago by GreatDane #

  28. I'm sorry that you haven't felt well today, Leeny. But... you will end your day in a great way!!! Can't wait to hear about Gabriel!

    Posted 3 years ago by WillowandWindismom #

  29. Good luck with the new addition!

    Posted 3 years ago by Cats4Cats #

  30. He's been so used to staying in one room, and, especially recently, being alone there much of the time. I hope he can adjust to the activity and sounds of being with two other kitties and two humans, one of whom is there most of the time, and having the run of the home.

    His behavior toward me when we visited surprised both his mom and me. I petted him, and he accepted it freely. His mom showed me his favorite toy, a Cat Dancer. He looked at it some, took one swipe at it, then turned back to me for more petting! I told his mom that I had expected him to be either under the bed or climbing into her arms, and she said that she had honestly expected the same thing.

    My landlord told Gabriel's mom that if "Mr. Independent" came to live with me, the only thing he would "suffer" from would be "an overdose of love."

    Posted 3 years ago by Leeny #


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