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Gabriel at home

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  • Started 3 years ago by Leeny
  • Latest reply from WillowandWindismom
  1. I brought Gabriel home last night. He was very quiet in the carrier, and that was unusual for me. As soon as I brought him inside, the three-way hisses and growls began, and Buttercup hid under a bench. I took Gabriel into the bedroom and set up his food, water, litter, and small kitty condo there. He did a bit of exploring while Buttercup hid under the bed, growling occasionally. He mostly stayed behind his kitty condo. Eventually, I went into the living room to fix Mr. Leeny's medication for him. Both Buttercup and Gabriel came out of the bedroom; Buttercup headed for the bench and Gabriel explored the bathroom. After I was finished, I took Gabriel back into the bedroom, and he did some more exploring. When I fell asleep, he was sitting on the bed.

    This morning, Gabriel jumped up on the bed and I held out my hand to him. He came toward me and let me pet his head three or four times. I know he ate during the night, because there was food floating in his water this morning. After I got up, though, he disappeared. Our bedroom is about twice the size of the room he was in before and it has a lot of places for a kitty to hide. Mr. Leeny has been checking on him, though, and the last time he looked in, Gabriel tried to leave the room. Mr. Leeny's going to wait for me to get home to deal with that, though.

    Tonight I plan to get out the big carrier I used for Buttercup until I discovered that one of the clips that hold it together is missing; not a good thing for transporting an 18-pound cat. I'm going to put Gabriel in it with some of his toys and scatter nip inside it. I'm also going to perfume the living room with nip. Then I'm going to bring Gabriel in the carrier into the living room and put him in some neutral spot. I'm sure there'll be hissing and growling, but I'll be able to pet the girls and reassure them.

    Posted 3 years ago by Leeny #

  2. Would Feliway help soothe everyone's nerves?

    Posted 3 years ago by Emma #

  3. 'NIP PARTY AT LEENY'S!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    Good to hear from you--we had been worried.

    Posted 3 years ago by gatakitty #

  4. I was thinking of getting some, Emma. I have a dr. appt. on the side of town where the pet store is, and I think I'll stop in afterward and get some.

    Posted 3 years ago by Leeny #

  5. We need to find something to calm Mr. Leeny's nerves. He's not as experienced as I am with introducing cats to each other, and he's afraid that Buttercup and Penny will feel rejected. He gets upset when they try to go into the bedroom as they usually do, but can't.

    Posted 3 years ago by Leeny #

  6. That's a good idea, honey. And the cats will settle down.

    When I first got Ruggles, Rotley decided to kill Ruggles until he noticed that 5-month-old Ruggles was a LOT bigger than 9-month-old Rotley.

    Now they are like two little boys who race after each other, fight without ever drawing blood, tattle on each other, and curl up and sleep together at the end of the day, Ruggles large paw always touching Rotley's smaller one.

    Posted 3 years ago by Emma #

  7. Oh Gabriel sounds like he is going to be a happy kitty, I'm sure it will take a little time but soon to be one big happy family..How soon before we can see pictures of him.??

    Posted 3 years ago by 2bpurring #

  8. It'll probably just take the girls a little while to get used to having Gabriel around. I let Bobby sniff around Milo in a carrier when I brought him home and it went well.
    Can't wait to hear more news of your new family member!

    Posted 3 years ago by GreatDane #

  9. Awwww Leeny I'm happy that Gabriel has found his place with you. You're doing everything that can be done to assure as smooth an introduction and transition as possible. I'm sure once the protocols are all established by the homefront that Gabriel will fit right into the clan. Best of luck...headbonks and scritches to all! :)

    Posted 3 years ago by Karenopa #

  10. 2b, I have some jpg thumbnail shots that his owner sent me that I'm going to try to post on Catster. They don't really look much like him now, though. He's lost an awful amount of weight; he's SO thin. His right eye is also noticeably larger than his left one.

    His owner gave me his vet checkup report, and I found that even the doctor said he's underweight. He got a physical, stool tested for worms (negative), and shots for rabies and panleukopenia. The vet also recommended a feleuk test, which he would have had 3 years ago at the shelter. I'm going to take him to my vet, get him tested, and get him vaccinated for everything else. (My kitties get vaccinated for everything it's possible to vaccinate a kitty against.)

    Posted 3 years ago by Leeny #

  11. In my experience, the hiss/growl/wide-berth routine lasts about a week. The next time I do this, though, I'm going to have a private room ready for the newcomer in a place where the resident kitties don't normally go--such as the messy storage room? (HINT, HINT, Mr. Leeny!)

    Posted 3 years ago by Leeny #

  12. LOL, Leeny! Your husband is a devoted lurker?

    Posted 3 years ago by miu #

  13. Gabriel has the most important thing...Love...people who will love him, care for him..messy rooms don't bother them at all.

    Posted 3 years ago by 2bpurring #

  14. Miu, no, we don't have a computer at home, and Mr. Leeny is a homemaker.

    Gabriel's basic Catster page is up now; the pix are kind of low-res, so they're a bit blurry. Will update when I can. Have to leave for the dr. now. More news tomorrow!

    Posted 3 years ago by Leeny #

  15. He's adorable, Leeny. Looks very relaxed!!! My girls send an invite to play!

    Posted 3 years ago by WillowandWindismom #

  16. My boys did, too!

    Catster says Gabriel is 6 months old? I thought you'd mentioned him living in the tiny bedroom for a year?

    Posted 3 years ago by GreatDane #

  17. Congrats on your new addition, Leeny! Sylvester is such a mellow kitty that when I brough Mia to her new home, she hissed at him a bit but within a couple of days they seemed to accept each other. They don't sleep touching one another but they will both sleep on the bed with Mia leaning against my right side and Sylvester leaning against my legs.

    Posted 3 years ago by SylMiaFelixMomma #

  18. My boys don't sleep with me:( Bobby will come suck the blanket and wander off. Mi will visit and fall asleep and then wake up and go sleep on the kitty castle. That's where they mostly sleep. They like being up there and watching Mama sleep from their superior position.

    Posted 3 years ago by GreatDane #

  19. When we first introduced Eric into the fold I had spells of thinking they'd never get along - particularly him and Pickle. Took a while (and LOTS of tuna), but they're best mates now. Hope that helps reassure Mr Leeny!

    Posted 3 years ago by MadcatwomanintheUK #

  20. Leeny, your babies are so beautiful! And things really will sort themselves out.

    My two little maniacs still fight like the Kilkenny cats, and Rotley wanders by occasionally with a mouthful of fur, but they get along. And if anything happened to one of them, the other would die of loneliness.

    Posted 3 years ago by Emma #

  21. Hurray for you and Gabriel!!!

    Posted 3 years ago by Crazycatman - CA #

  22. GD, thanks for the alert on Gabriel's incorrect age. I entered the wrong year on his profile yesterday. He is now correctly listed as 3 years old.

    Last night went very well. With nip sprinkled liberally and Feliway in the air, Gabriel and the girls spent a very relaxed evening in the living room with Gabriel resting on a worn-out caftan of mine in the plus-size carrier. Things even went well after I left the room so Mr. Leeny could watch a Lifetime movie about Munchausen's Syndrome by Proxy. I left the door to the bedroom open so that the girls could go in if they liked, but neither one was interested. Both went into the bedroom this morning, though, while Gabriel was asleep in the closet. They pretty much just walked in and walked out shortly later. The next step will be to bring Gabriel into the living room on leash--I bought him a harness and leash yesterday--and keep him near me. That will bring him and the girls into closer contact, but not into each other's faces.

    I'm starting to be more than a bit concerned about Gabriel, though. I'm making an appointment to take him to my vet, as I mentioned, but I'm suspecting there may be more going on with him than I thought. I am very concerned about his thinness. He eats at night; I found food in his water bowl again today. He's still working on the small bowl of kibble that his previous mom sent with him on Monday night, though. Even more, though, I'm beginning to suspect that Gabriel may be deaf and possibly have a problem with his left eye, the smaller one. Except when he was being placed in the carrier and then in the car for the trip to my house, Gabriel has never meowed in my presence. He does not respond to his name. I don't want to make a loud noise out of his line of sight to see if he startles, though, because I want to keep everything calm right now. The left eye does not look entirely normal; it seems pinkish around the rim. Also, the personality traits that his former mom described--independent, attaches only to one person and ignores everyone else, comes for affection when he wants to come--could also be the behavior of a kitty in a silent world that doesn't look quite right.

    Mr. Leeny asked me if I was going to have Gabriel euthanized if he turned out to be disabled. The only way I would help him to the Bridge is if he is feleuk positive; my vet does that test in-house and they have the result in 10 minutes. I don't think he was likely to pick up feleuk living alone in a room with one human, though. I'm sure his former mom didn't suspect any of this, either. I'm just glad that, if he does turn out to be a special-needs kitty, he now has a home in which his needs can be met.

    Posted 3 years ago by Leeny #

  23. You are a good kitty mom, Leeny! Please let us know what the vet says. It really caught at my heart when you said Mr. Leeny asked if Gabriel would be put down if he is disabled, given Mr. Leeny's circumstances. He sounds like he might need some reassurance. Hugs to you both and healing TDK white light to Gabriel!!

    Posted 3 years ago by Kitten Whisperer #

  24. I agree Leeny you're such a wonderful kitty mom. I hope that the vet doesn't find anything out of the ordinary but if he does I know you'll be the same loving, caring meowmom as always. I too was touched by Mr. Leeny's concern for Gabriel in the event he's determined to be a special needs kitty.
    Jeff and I once suspected that Shady may have a hearing problem because he always entered areas with such nervousness and seemed to jump at sudden motion. We conducted our own little hearing survey and have since determined that he's just displaying what is probably quite normal behavior for a meezer kitty. Maybe Gabriel is still a little jumpy at his new surroundings. You may just have to give him a little extra time.

    Posted 3 years ago by Karenopa #

  25. Awwwwww. As KW said, you are a good kitty mom. Bless you for the love and care you are giving Gabriel...and just as you care for a disabled loved one, same goes for kitty.

    Posted 3 years ago by 2bpurring #

  26. Thanks, everyone. I think we're going to be calling Gabriel "Gabe"; Mr. Leeny can't pronounce "Gabriel". I want to cry.

    Posted 3 years ago by Leeny #

  27. I am so glad Gabriel found such a good home! Hugs to you and smooches to him!

    Posted 3 years ago by miu #

  28. Awwwww...Gabe is a wonderful name for a little guy!!

    Posted 3 years ago by Karenopa #

  29. Gabe is going to the vet on Monday morning, 11:00 ET.

    Posted 3 years ago by Leeny #

  30. Please keep us posted on Gabe..he is a handsome boy..

    Posted 3 years ago by 2bpurring #


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