scarver, sorry I've missed most of this thread.
A lot of times, folks have to get off the computer for whatever reason, and cannot respond.
You are in Dallas, I see. If you would like to email me a artistabobbi AT yahoo.com I would be glad to send you my phone number and perhaps we could meet and get to know each other a little better.
I too tend to be shy (Don't say it, anyone) and lurked for a very long time before I ever blogged.
Now I just butt in anywhere, and if I don't get a response, I try not to take it personally, for in this format, some blogs may be overlooked.
So be patient, and give me a call.
Peace, hugs, and purrs.
And thank you LV for being so articulate and honest.