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Introducing Kilroy

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  1. For some reason I decided it was time to write an introduction and tell you nice people a little about me. I'll try to keep it short (note I said "try" :) )

    Any story of me has to start with the story of my parents, who lived all over the world before I was born, having adventures. My dad was with Life magazine, and Mom went along for the ride. They were in Chicago, then Paris, then the Soviet Union in the early '60s. Along the way Mom had several miscarriages (including one in a scary Moscow hospital), and they assumed they would never have children. Finally they came home to New York and set about adopting a baby girl.

    That baby girl was not me. 14 months after they found my sister and brought her home, they had me. I was so early and so small, Mom assumed I was another miscarriage and couldn't possibly be alive. Early and tiny, I also had hydrocephalus ("water on the brain"). Luckily, we lived close to a really good hospital with doctors who knew what to do. The technology for correcting hydro was pretty new then, and it hasn't changed much since. The contraption in my head that keeps me going has done it's thing pretty much nonstop for almost 40 years, with just 2 repairs, which I understand is not how these things usually go. Mom calls me her miracle.

    A miracle, maybe, but a very clumsy miracle who spent years being teased for "running funny", and who couldn't wait to get away from her hometown. We moved to a small town in Maine when I was 3, and I didn't go very far for college (to a women's college in MA), but after that it was "how far away can I get without falling in the ocean?" I ended up in Seattle.

    <More to follow, unless I've managed to bore everyone to death>

    Posted 1 year ago by Kilroy #

  2. Looking forward to chapter 2, Kilroy. I've enjoyed reading about your growing pains with little George!

    Posted 1 year ago by paulajeanne #

  3. Well, it's late and I'm sleepless, so let's see about chapter 2...

    One thing I forgot to mention, my family turned our house into a B&B when I was in high school; it's pretty much the only practical thing to do with a huge, rambly Colonial-era house that is WAY too big for 4 people (and for all you Ghost Hunters fans, yes, I'm pretty sure there was *something* in the attic). We lived in a very touristy town, and I spent years serving breakfast to people from all over the world. My parents used to love when we would have European guests; they could dust off their language skills and share stories.

    Anyway, on to Seattle. I graduated from college into a recession, having decided at the very last moment that I wasn't going to law school. Lacking a Plan B, I decided that if I was going to be jobless and possibly homeless, I might as well be somewhere cool, and it didn't come much cooler than Seattle in 1991. I flew away with nothing but my dad's old Army duffel bag full of clothes and the phone # of a family friend who lived outside Seattle. A few days later I got in touch with the family of a college friend, whose mother was also an alum of the same school, and they offered me a place to stay while I figured out my next move (an act of generosity I am still hoping to be able to repay, or pay forward, someday).

    The downside was, I was desperate not to impose one day longer than necessary, and so I jumped at the first job that came along, a mind-numbing, soul-destroying position working for a personal injury lawyer. I imagined my alma mater taking back my diploma, and for good reason. I spent my days answering phones and dealing with clients who assumed that, as a female, I wasn't quite human.

    After about 3 years of this, I had a midlife crisis at the grand old age of 25 and forced myself to figure out what I really wanted to be when I grew up. The answer, surprisingly, was "a librarian". I always figured I wouldn't work in a library, because libraries were for fun, which goes to show how little I knew. Luckily, the University of Washington had a good library science program, which I paid for with generous year-end bonuses, paid under the table by my very understanding boss. It took three years, working full time and going to school part time (and for the last 6 months doing an internship as well), but I did it. The internship was with the Seattle Times, where I discovered that news research was what I was meant to have been doing all my life (my father was thrilled), but that led to a dilemma; news librarianship is a small field, and jobs in Seattle were nonexistent. If I wanted a job I was going to have to move, and that was complicated by the fact that for the first time in my life, I had a boyfriend.

    <More to follow, unless I've bored everyone to tears>

    Posted 1 year ago by Kilroy #

  4. I'm still awake and looking forward to the next installment, but then again I have the time difference working for me.

    Posted 1 year ago by Moonshadow_NZ #

  5. More, more!!!

    Posted 1 year ago by GreatDane #

  6. I would love to hear more!!!

    Posted 1 year ago by cricketsmama #

  7. Me too!

    Posted 1 year ago by MadcatwomanintheUK #

  8. Brava Kilroy, well written and waiting with anticipation for the next installment......far from being bored :)

    Posted 1 year ago by AZDEBRA 5/27 & crew #

  9. Waiting patiently for the Chapter 3 of Kilroys most amazing life story.

    Posted 1 year ago by Lynn from PA 6/8 #

  10. Thanks, all. Let's see, where was I? Oh right, Seattle and the boyfriend.

    I met Ted at a party at my boss's house, and luckily my boss was more observant than I was and pointed out that Ted was flirting with me. I was completely clueless, never having been flirted with up to that point in my life. In case you think I just grabbed at the first chance that offered, that wasn't the case; once I started paying attention, I realized he was pretty sweet (and cute, too). He was waiting to hear the results of the Washington state bar exam, but wasn't sure he really wanted to be a lawyer (however, he was convinced I *should* be, no matter how much I insisted otherwise). He was the middle of 3 boys, and his mother was thrilled to have a girl to spoil. I still regret that when Ted and I split up, I never got to say goodbye to his parents; they deserved better than that from me.

    So there I was, interning at the Times and falling in love with news research, and with Ted. He passed the bar and got a job he wasn't crazy about. The folks at the Times said "we love you, we'd hire you in a minute, but we have no jobs and probably won't in the near (or not so near) future. So I started looking further afield, and one day this job for a researcher at CNN in New York came up. My first thought was, "Well, CNN would never hire me, but I'll just apply and it will at least look like I'm looking for jobs, and in the meantime I can stay here with Ted". Then a funny thing happened; they called and asked me to do an interview over the phone (a very disconcerting way to do a job interview). My boss let me use his office, so I sat there in his cushy leather lawyer's chair, trying to sound like I knew what I was talking about. The interviewer said "I have some more people to talk to, but I should have a decision in about three weeks". And so the wait began.

    <To be continued>

    Posted 1 year ago by Kilroy #

  11. What an amazing life and you write so very well, Kilroy. I'll check back later for the next installment. Thanks for sharing with us.

    Posted 1 year ago by Lynn from PA 6/8 #

  12. I'm on the edge of my chair...more...more...more....

    Posted 1 year ago by 2bpurring #

  13. Me, too!!!!

    Posted 1 year ago by WillowandWindismom #

  14. more Kilroy!! :)

    Posted 1 year ago by Buttercup #

  15. I had been told that it would be at least 3 weeks before CNN had an answer, so imagine my suprise when the interviewer called 2 days later and asked, "Can you move to New York?". <gulp> Luckily, Ted and I had already talked about what we would do if I was offered the job (or *when* I was offered, as he put it). He said all the right things about how I had to take the job, and we would figure out a way to make it work. So when the call came, I said yes. My boss walked in the next morning to find me sitting at my desk which had been decorated with balloons and Congratulations banners; he took one look and said "you're leaving, aren't you?"

    <more later. sorry for the short chapter, but I have to do some work :( >

    Posted 1 year ago by Kilroy #

  16. how cool CNN!
    I can't wait for more.

    Posted 1 year ago by cricketsmama #

  17. wow kilroy waiting to hear more!

    Posted 1 year ago by Momma to 2 MaineCoons #

  18. OMG...I'm dying to here more..

    Posted 1 year ago by 2bpurring #

  19. Hey, Kilroy, you sure can write. I am waiting for more.

    Posted 1 year ago by miu #

  20. Kilroy...what an incredible story...Wouldn't it make a great Movie?????? Let's think of who would play your part! Meg Ryan...Helen Hunt...Jody Foster!!! :D Please don't keep us waiting in such suspense!

    Posted 1 year ago by Karenopa #

  21. Kilroy, I am so proud that I know you!

    Posted 1 year ago by BCAMflorida227 #

  22. Interesting story Kilroy and just what I needed to take my mind off of the construction noise going on in the office.

    Posted 1 year ago by SylvesterMiasMomma #

  23. Kilroy..I'm getting this visual of you in cartoon form. Like the age old Kilroy guy who's standing at the fence with his nose (for news) just over the top! Like a female version of Wilson who lives next door to tool man Tim Taylor. You have big curley hair framing a sweet little face....teehee..You better come back here soon...enquiring minds need to know more.......

    Posted 1 year ago by Karenopa #

  24. i'm just reading your story and i can't wait to hear the rest!!!!!:) please hurry up and tell us more!!!!

    Posted 1 year ago by gabrielle #

  25. more Kilroy more!!!

    Posted 1 year ago by Crazycatman - AZ #

  26. I will, I promise, but later when I'm not at work. In the meantime, check out the new pics of George on his Catster page.

    PS: Thanks for all the lovely feedback.

    Posted 1 year ago by Kilroy #

  27. Well pics of a handsome kitty is a good distraction...George is getting so big!

    Posted 1 year ago by 2bpurring #

  28. Awwwwww...absolutely adore the 'Nap Sack'!!!!! Very sweet boy your little George is! :D

    Posted 1 year ago by Karenopa #

  29. Awwwww, cutie Georgie! You know, you ought to also use those writing skills for writing about George on his Catster page. :)

    Posted 1 year ago by GreatDane #

  30. This is worse than a soap - I want the next episode straight away!! You do write well Kilroy.

    Posted 1 year ago by MadcatwomanintheUK #


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