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Off Topic - Good Thoughts Needed for Michael

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  • Started 1 year ago by anncetera2
  • Latest reply from 2bpurring
  1. I just found out today that a dear friend of mine, Michael, who's in his late forties and lives only a couple miles from me, is dying of cancer. I'd known that he's been sick with cancer, and it was brought home to me when I saw him in mid-June. But he was so very hopeful about the treatments working!

    Michael is a public school teacher because he loves the kids; he can no longer teach. He and his lovely wife, Ginger, cried and cried over that terrible realization. He's got a gift for storytelling, and has regaled friends and family with stories ever since he was trained as a child. He knows more than 600 stories, and has created some of his own stories and songs. He has a marvelous wit and a great sense of humor; the world will be poorer when he leaves it.

    At this point, the cancer has spread to his brain. With radiation therapy, he might have a longer life. Without it, he's expected to have 2-5 months. He's too sick to have visitors or even to answer email. But he's okay with getting cards. So I'll be writing a long letter to him, complete with silly illustrations and a limerick or two.

    If you can spare any good thoughts for this wonderful man, it would be greatly appreciated.

    Posted 1 year ago by anncetera2 #

  2. I'm thinking that he probably touched more lives with his special spirit as a public school teacher than many others do their entire life. That is something to hang on to at this time. May the rest of his time here be as painfree as possible and that his family know he was loved and appreciated.

    Posted 1 year ago by paulajeanne #

  3. Michael and his wife will be included in my prayers. Bless him for all the lives he has touched in such a positive way!

    Posted 1 year ago by Kitten Whisperer #

  4. Ann I have been in a similiar position. I am lift Michael up in prayer to the Lord because He can heal when all seems so bleak. Prayers for his family as they move through one of the most difficult times a family can have. Prayers for friends like you that will pray for him and help care for the family as they go through this. I wish with all my heart that Michael will recover miraculously and be able to do what he loves most, spend time with family and friends and teach and mold the young minds of the future.

    Posted 1 year ago by SoxsMom #

  5. Thank you all for your good thoughts. Especially you, SoxsMom, when you've had such a difficult day full of your own sorrows and grieving.

    Posted 1 year ago by anncetera2 #

  6. Nothing compared to what can happen if Michael is lost. Basil is a part of my soul, but he was part of one family. Michael is part of a community of children. One of the worst parts of today is seeing my daughter weeping and my husband sinking to his knees crying. I grieve and ache for Basil, but I also hurt even more for my family. Deuter is looking for him, Teaser has stood at the door and cried for him, even the dog has looked for him. Time will ease the pain for my small family. With the possible loss of an educator it is family, friends, and a whole world of children that hurt. Wanted to say it just doesn't seem fair--but very little in life is.

    Posted 1 year ago by SoxsMom #

  7. Michael's illness is saddening indeed. It must be true that only the good die young. Michael would be one of the first people to say, though, "It's not the age, it's the mileage."

    Please pet Deuter and Teaser for me; they undoubtedly need some extra reassurance.

    Posted 1 year ago by anncetera2 #

  8. I get angry trying to understand why God would do such a thing. Why he would take such a well-rounded,loving soul Michael from his family. Such a worldly person from the tiny children that need people like Michael to help them grow intellectually.

    My Prayers & Healing White Light to Michael, his Family & Young Students.

    {{{Michael}}}

    Posted 1 year ago by feral #

  9. All my prayers for Michael and his young family for a miracle.

    Posted 1 year ago by Buttercup #

  10. As a mother of two sons and a daughter of two teachers, I'm always in admiration of good educators. Susie, maddeningly (is that a word?) terrible thigs happen all the time; my long time highschool friend in her mid forties died recently after a long battle with breast cancer, leaving her 15 yr old son; a friend lost her 26 yr old daughter in her sleep just this week for no apparent reason. All that is left for us is to have faith that these good people are not lost forever but are taken for bigger and better things. Whenever I lose a kitty, I chose to believe that God really needed a special kitty that day...when God takes these special people like Michael I will believe that God is in need of his very special talents. The difficult part is for his beautiful family laft behind. My prayers for Michael and his family, and to you anncetera, for the sadness of a very sick friend. May you be given special gifts to lift his spirits.

    Posted 1 year ago by Tigerlilly #

  11. I'll pray for Michael and send him my love.

    Posted 1 year ago by miu #

  12. It is so sad to know someone with such a full life and spirit get a devasting disease. I do agree with Tigerlilly in the belief that God must have needed someone with his special talents that day. Good wishes for Michael and his family in dealing with this frustrating illness.

    Posted 1 year ago by AZDEBRA 5/27 & crew #

  13. Prayers and good wishes to Michael, his family and his friends in this difficult time. What a horrible thing to have happen to someone so full of life and helps our children.

    Posted 1 year ago by cricketsmama #

  14. Susie, sadly enough, one of the only certain things in life is that if life is granted, someday it will be taken away. Immortality is granted to none of us, nor any of our cats or kittens. We can only hope that it will be later, rather than sooner.

    I have stopped trying to find any rhyme or reason behind why loved ones must leave when they do. Instead, I work very hard to cherish them for whatever period of time I may have to enjoy them. I want them to be sure to know how much I love them, while they're still here. That is the greatest gift I can give them. The next greatest gift is to remember them and their influence in my life; in that sense, they're never gone.

    I'm hopeful that Michael will suffer less, rather than more; that when his final bit of decline comes, that his passing is painless for him. If that is what happens, it will be a blessing.

    The one good part of all of this is that, for those who believe, his soul will be reunited with his beloved, curmudgeonly cat Orion, who passed away last summer. Michael and Ginger were deeply saddened by his loss.

    Posted 1 year ago by anncetera2 #

  15. Tigerlily, Deb, and Ann how do I thank you? That word doesn't seem enough but it is all I have

    Thank You.

    Posted 1 year ago by SoxsMom #

  16. Prayers and healing, comforting thoughts to Michael.

    Posted 1 year ago by Shelley #

  17. This is very tragic news for everyone I'm sure. I think we can all take comfort in the fact that Michael has left such a warm, inspiring legacy with his stories and songs. In this. Michael will live on for many generations to come. Sending prayers and white light that Michael may in fact find a miracle in his days ahead should this be God's Will and prayers of strength for his dear wife, family and friends. You're a good friend and neighbor Ann and I'm sorry for your sadness. God Bless you and many Prayers to your friend Michael.

    Posted 1 year ago by Karenopa #

  18. Anncetera...I know everything you say (in my mind anyways)is right,but,I guess I'm stillgrieving deeply from the loss of my best friend less than 2 wks. ago...and Michael's unavoidable circumstances just brought my own pain pouring back.

    I know his family & friends must be very proud of what he's accomplished in his purpose in life. I'm just back to questioning God again.

    Posted 1 year ago by feral #

  19. I'm sorry to hear about your friend Ann, my thoughts are with you and his family.

    Posted 1 year ago by MadcatwomanintheUK #

  20. My darling husband had brain cancer. He was a retired college professor, a brilliant and gentle man, and the love of my life. During the last month, I watched him lose everything as his brain died. Even the memory of his own name slipped away from him like a bead from a broken string.

    All he knew is that he was loved, and that the face that bent over his bed in the hospital to kiss him belonged to someone who adored him, even when he could no longer say who I was.

    God gives, God takes. Blessed be God forever.

    But God does nothing without a plan for our greater good. Don't any of you ever think otherwise. Everything happens because God does it or because, in His divine permissiveness, He allows it. He knows what He is doing.

    Everything that has happened to me in my life has been the best thing that could happen to me, and to type those words takes a faith beyond measure, that I never would have had if I had not lost everything.

    There is a hell, there is despair, there is sorrow, and those are the streets who knew my footsteps and have heard my breath. And I remember the decision to leave those dark places and never to return. Sometimes they call me back, but their voices get fainter with each passing day, and I will not go down that road again.

    Please, Ann, visit with Michael, tell him stories, make him laugh, and realize that the time when he will understand even a little of what anyone says to him is very short. That time goes by so quickly.

    But no matter what, until the moment of his passing, Michael will be able to feel the love and concern and prayers of the people around him.

    He and his family, and you and yours, are in my prayers forever.

    Posted 1 year ago by Emma #

  21. Emma, I can not thank you for the words your just spoke. I didn't know what to say, except that I was sorry for Ann. She, who does so much for us here, is now dealing with a friend in need. You have said everything, that I wish I could have, and so well too. Ann, in your time of strife, listen to what Emma has said. You are in our prayers as well. Love, Lynn and Kay

    Posted 1 year ago by Lynn from PA 6/8 #

  22. Emma there are no words....

    God be with us all.

    Posted 1 year ago by SoxsMom #

  23. I can't add to what has already been said so well by others. The TDK circle is indeed a special one.

    Posted 1 year ago by caroline #

  24. Emma, thank you . I am sorry that you lost your beloved husband. May anncetera be comforted with your inspiring words.

    Posted 1 year ago by Tigerlilly #

  25. Emma, your words can only have been written after much sorrow, pain and grieving. I am so sorry for the loss of your husband. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and your experience.

    Posted 1 year ago by anncetera2 #

  26. As always, Emma is able to put into words what I feel. Ann, I will be lifting up Michael, his family, and you in prayers.

    Posted 1 year ago by NNGM #

  27. Emma, thank you for sharing your thoughts at this difficult time. My son-in-law is battling brain cancer too and has been for over a year. Prognosis is not good but we can still take small trips and excursions and we treasure each and every one of them. Your words made me feel very good today, Emma. ... Anncetera, we will pray for your family and Michael and Ginger's family. Peace my friend.

    Posted 1 year ago by SammyandOliversmama #

  28. Emma, I can't say more than you have put..Ann, my prayers with be with Michael and his family and dear friends like you.

    Posted 1 year ago by 2bpurring #

  29. Emma, your words bring me comfort. Michael passed today at 2:15 pm.

    There are not sufficient expletives to describe my pointless rage against the inevitable. There are not enough words in my thesaurus to express my grief. The only good part is that his suffering was shorter, rather than longer.

    Posted 1 year ago by anncetera2 #

  30. I'm so sorry about your friend, and I wish his family and friends find peace sooner rather than later.

    I don't know how heaven and the Rainbow Bridge are attached, but neither one would be a good place to be without the other. So, Michael is with all of his family that went before him, and he is also rejoicing in seeing all his past pets as well as greetings from all of our furbabies.

    He's in good hands now.

    Posted 1 year ago by CheetahBoysmommy #


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